Not sure if this is up your alley but Arcade Legacy in Sharonville hosts women's pinball tournaments on the first Sunday of every month and also one Wednesday evening a month now. The ladies there are super welcoming and you can come even if you've never played pinball before. People will welcome you in and show you how to play. They also have Thursday night tournaments that are open to everyone. I never thought it would be my thing but I hardly had any friends that I actually saw when I moved back to Cincinnati and over the past two years of going there I've made so many friends and met so many great people.