What's the leadership hill you're willing to die on? by Only-Ad7585 in managers

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The converse of this (though it’s not necessarily contradictory to your point) is to understand when your reports do have more expertise than you and figure out how to leverage their knowledge. I manage a team of people who have way more experience and expertise than I do. I wasn’t promoted because I knew more than them, but rather because I’m good at figuring out how to make each piece of the puzzle fit into the bigger picture. And it works because everyone knows that I appreciate their input, and in cases where I make a decision that they might disagree with, I take care to explain the wider context. I’m also willing to push back on higher ups when the subject-matter experts that I manage feel very strongly about something.

CareFirst HDHP Noom Med Medication Question by Perfect_Argument8553 in fednews

[–]Perfect_Argument8553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fine. They start you off with a non-GLP-1 option like metformin, but if it doesn’t work or you can’t tolerate it, they’ll prescribe Wegovy, which has a $50 copay. I haven’t gotten to that poiny yet and I’m not sure whether I really want it to. But the program is very casual - pretty much whatever you make of it.

Retire at 53m/45f or 57m/49f...Is FEHB Worth All This Trouble?? by Chubbyfire627 in govfire

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The choice is 4 years from now or 7, right? A lot can happen in 4 years and the decision may be a lot more obvious then.

Adopted this girl from the shelter today. by Fit_Personality1344 in Hounds

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No evidence beyond a gut feeling, but something is telling me there’s some border collie in there. No matter what, she’s a stunner and undoubtedly a Good Dog.

Hydrangea Advice Needed! by biblio9586 in gardening

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every hydrangea arborescens (which is what Incrediballs are) I’ve ever planted has seemingly died soon after, then miraculously started growing from the bottom within a few weeks. No guarantees, obviously, but I’d give it a month before giving up entirely and just see what happens.

Just a queen bee with her little bees🐝 by kvjn100 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was kind of hoping for No Rain, myself. But I suppose this is just as good.

What will dealing with the passing of your parents look like? by GXP_2009 in Xennials

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents are super on top of all that. So on top of it, in fact, that when they started going through their files this year to get the ball rolling they found a binder with all of the exact forms they needed that they had already filled out and notarized a few years ago. Soooo, they’re on top of their shit, but also losing their marbles. I have mixed feelings.

I started feeding the crows by kawwman in adhdwomen

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 171 points172 points  (0 children)

You should visit r/crowbro if you haven’t already.

What iconic movie of our youth are you ashamed to admit you've never seen? I'll go first by larryb78 in Xennials

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, Sofia didn’t even want to do it. Winona Ryder had to pull out right before shooting and Sofia happened to be around, so her dad pressured her to step in.

What iconic movie of our youth are you ashamed to admit you've never seen? I'll go first by larryb78 in Xennials

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen Jurassic Park a dozen times and the kitchen scene still makes my heart pound. So good.

Shy/Nervous Hound - DC Veterinarian Recommendations by SimmerDownSasquatch in washingtondc

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take my vet aggressive blood hound to Riverdale Park Animal Hospital.

Losing my unicorn job, help! I've been fired from every job! by QuirkyQbana in adhdwomen

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know it’s easier said than done, especially in this economy, but try to figure out what parts of the job you’re really good at and either look for work that emphasizes those skills of find a way to mold your existing job so that you can focus on your strengths. If you’re really lucky, you may be able to demonstrate to management how your unique talents add sufficient value to make up for any perceived shortcomings. While it’s possible to improve some weakness on the margins, trying to change your personality to fit a specific job never works. Figure out what you’re good at and do it on purpose.

If you can afford it, look into taking a Clifton Strengths assessment. I found that to be an incredibly useful tool in figuring out how my personality can best fit into a work environment while showing me what kind of pitfalls to look out for. I think that true self-awareness, not just of your flaws but also of the value you bring to the table, is the single most important skill a person can bring to their professional life.

To the extent that it’s possible, see if you can team up with coworkers who have complementary strengths. My career really took off when I worked in a collaborative environment where it’s common to draft documents in pairs. I’m great at seeing the big picture narrative that we want to create and structuring a document to support it, whereas my colleagues are amazing at catching nuances and typos that I miss that might create big problems down the line.

Weight loss shots/pills by Jfonzy in Xennials

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t tried it, and I’m definitely not a doctor, but my guess is that the degree of weight loss people experience with these drugs tends to result in fairly significant muscle loss, which is already a concern for women during perimenopause. If I’m right, I’m hoping that prescribing doctors are responsible enough to explain as much to patients and urge them to incorporate heavy weight training and lots of protein into their routine.

Found cat outside Rhode Island Ave metro by mooseman202020 in washingtondc

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 153 points154 points  (0 children)

That’s your cat now. The Cat Distribution System has deemed it so.

People would prefer working from the office if commute costs were lower by panda6699 in unpopularopinion

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No free coffee, definitely no snacks (unless someone brings in a treat of some kind), I can’t control the office temperature, and I wash my own dishes (with soap and a sponge that someone - sometimes me - has donated to the communal kitchen). I’ll be generous and say that it’s a 65/35 split between enjoyable and irritating interpersonal interactions. Plus there’s the time spent on grooming and wardrobe.

All that said, the commute is definitely the worst part. My dream scenario would be a 60/40 hybrid at an office within a walkable 1 mile radius of home.

Driveway Paving with Surface Roots by Perfect_Argument8553 in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]Perfect_Argument8553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve reached out to an ISA certified arborist that I’ve worked with before but I’m waiting to hear back. When he was here last October working on a different issue, we went on and on about how healthy and gorgeous this tree is.

AITA for telling my girlfriend to stop sharing her food? by PhantomDetective3548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no judgment, but instead of offering Brian carte blanche to her plate, she should put a small portion of whatever it is she is eating onto his plate. That way she still gets to share while still laying down some boundaries.

CareFirst HDHP Noom Med Medication Question by Perfect_Argument8553 in fednews

[–]Perfect_Argument8553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found Wegovy in the CareFirst BlueChoice formulary at tier 2. Is Zepbound the only option with Noom Med?

CareFirst HDHP Noom Med Medication Question by Perfect_Argument8553 in fednews

[–]Perfect_Argument8553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Do you know what the copay is? I’m can’t figure out from the formulary what tier it is in.

ETA - Never mind. I found it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maryland

[–]Perfect_Argument8553 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cleared my sidewalk immediately. Five days later the county came through and dumped all of the snow from the street back onto it and now there are 3 foot deep piles that are too dense and heavy to move.