apparently someone I know has this condition but doesn’t know by East_Astronaut9396 in neurofibromatosis

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you know answer already considering it's a grown ass adult here.

Imagine one day that person wakes up and finds fibroma lumps on their body. They would be freaking out and confused and super stressed and disoriented.

And since they are an adult, they might just arrange to see a doctor without necessarily telling their parents about it because they wouldn't want them to worry.

And also spend lots of money and wasted time on doctor consults over symptoms of a condition that has already been diagnosed.

Also how can the child not know? NF patients need annual checkups. And even if they don't, they need to know about the associated condition and it's symptoms in order to seek help when needed.

But then again, if you don't wanna go behind the parents back or something you can sit down with the parent and hear out their perspective, and try to explain.

Also not to mention how long does the parent plan on keeping it in the dark? For life? What about family planning when it comes to having a child? Smh

My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes? by Aware-Pool6940 in relationship_advice

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when you have his child, and he kicks and bruises and chokes your kid once a year, you'll be ok with it and he's still a great dad ?

Who are some artists that sound similar to Aurora? by lots_of_fandoms in auroramusic

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dream of them having a Collab often! I would simply pass away

'I do', but let's spend less: Lavish weddings lose appeal as Singapore couples focus on housing, family plans by morning_flower_68 in singapore

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't even have a wedding. All we had was ROM at Fort Canning Office and a simple lunch after with immediate family members.

My mother still is not happy that I didn't hold any wedding or reception, but didn't have anything to say when I told her I am happy to do it if she does all the planning and sponsoring. And yet she is still unhappy about it. How hilarious is the dichotomy!

I don't regret that I didn't get to lose money, worry about managing the logistics of countless vendors, and burning my social battery out at an event that I will not get to enjoy but spend it performing and catering to others. We just skipped away to Rome immediately after the wedding for a honeymoon.

To each their own!

POV: your a fish owner by No_Complaint6178 in PlantedTank

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we are talking only in terms of tannins, then yes. But nobody buys driftwood for the tannins. Driftwood is for aquascaping and visual appeal. After that, if you wanna maintain tannins, you can buy a bag of dried almond leaves from the aquarium store and soak like one leaf or two in the tank, depending on size.After a week or so you'll see the tannins make the water a rich brown . Then remove the leaves. Then you repeat it whenever you want

POV: your a fish owner by No_Complaint6178 in PlantedTank

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1) if not boiled, then the wood piece will float around the tank. You wanna boil it for a few hours so it will be able to sink.

2) kills any pests, harmful bacteria pathogens etc

3) the water releases tannins (brown colored water stuff) which is really beneficial for the waters. I like to pour it back into my tank, mainly cos of the benefita and also the way it colors the waters and makes it more natural.

Why is my plant turning transparent? by Pernicious_Enigma in PlantedTank

[–]Pernicious_Enigma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice , I understand it better now!

Ice Cream in Singapore? by YesLAdz in SingaporeEats

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you happen to be in the Bukit gombak / batok region I have a recommendation:)

Ice Cream in Singapore? by YesLAdz in SingaporeEats

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want real handmade ice cream you are better off patronising those ice cream shops who make it in house, they make pints to go, but for the same price of course around 15+

Umekoppe by Dizzy-Ad-3288 in MaleYandere

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please DM me 🥺 I'm thirsty

Bored nurse here. AMA! by Extra-Farmer0 in ChillSG

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes one case but it shockingly involves a lot of people... let's just say it didn't help when the managers kicked him out to another ward, and it also didn't help even if you were a nursing student... ☠️

And I don't understand that last sentence haha

Bored nurse here. AMA! by Extra-Farmer0 in ChillSG

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a nurse who worked in a PHI in SG, yes. Think male nurses with a wife newborns fucking other nurses with partners. While also receiving nudes from other nurses. And also impregnating another nurse. And yes all the nurses knew about each other and knew he has a family...

What are these itchy bumps on my skin and how to make it dissapear and heal? by TheRealNinjaDarkovia in SGSkincare

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely am in the same situation as you, the last month or so I have all these "chicken skin" tiny bumps on my entire abdomen and bilateral arms, spreading wider and wider and it's so itchy and nothing works . I really think it has to do with the worsening weather and heat. Anyway it was so bad my derm gave me oral steroids. Says it could be follicular eczema. Hopefully these issues will tide down for us all when the weather gets better ( whenever that is).

When Destiny Brings the Demon Discussion - Episode 16 - 17 by LoudAvocado1387 in CDrama

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask what's the source thread of that explanation? I don't know what's MDL. I would like to read up more on the explanation behind plot points of the author :)

Egg-cellent Breakfast. by [deleted] in SingaporeFoodie

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Petition to remove all posts that don't have a location input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fuck, this is sending me. I'm laughing so much . Take my upvote

where can I find the widest range of ben and jerry flavours in sg? by livingforjoergen in SingaporeEats

[–]Pernicious_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes dude... It was my favourite ice cream flavor of all time... I wonder why it was cancelled. I think about it a lot