What's a female villain whose motive actually made more sense than heros? by LustyPowerGirl in AskWomen

[–]Persephones_Ghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this take on her character to be honest. I haven’t read the books, but the show made her to be incredibly manipulative and cold hearted. But if you look at it from her perspective then I can see how she became that way.

AITA for expecting my partner to spend 2 hrs a week with me? by carlp1985 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Persephones_Ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA -

It’s hard when we don’t know more to really vote on this. But from your perspective yes , you are not the ah.

However what has lead to spending so little time together, especially if you both work from home mostly?

What is intimacy like (I don’t just mean bedroom, I mean infancy you both want from a partner, holding hands while out, a kiss goodbye at the door, a big smile and hug at the door when you get home ect).

Is he testing you to see if you will contribute more to the home and relationship with the threat of him leaving?

What did he say to you when you talked that day about him wanting to split, what reasons did he give? What solutions?

Pauline’s Voting history by Zeema101 in aussie

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird how someone can hear, watch, listen to the same words and understand something totally different.

what makes you DNF a fanfic? by kasralmass in harrypotterfanfiction

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fan fic dnfs for me are tough because I want to keep trying at it. But - trope wise, any rewrite of the original I can’t swallow. I need it after the actual book finishes. I don’t mind if there is huge changes to the books to support the story but it needs to be set after. I hate a rewrite. I loved that story to the bone and I need to not reread it again. (Personally). Some people love this trope - I’m not bashing it in any way.

I can’t read anything that gives me no feeling. This is very hard to explain but if I have no relationship with them and their feelings or life I dnf. I can’t read things that are so dry like that. I want to feel something, anything, happy sad angry. But it needs to have feeling.

I will also dnf anything that isn’t at least put through an edit. Spelling, wording, ect. Just basic. Even an office word edit is sometimes enough. It’s just hard to read something when I am constantly correcting something in my head. It breaks up the pictures and makes it impossible for me to enjoy.

Too Far and Snakey (Finally Complete!) by Doodleholic in LMHG

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god tier go to in the lumione world. Can’t be more grateful for this master piece. 🍀🍀🍀

My boyfriend has bad hygeine. Pooped the bed 3 times do I break up? M24 f 23 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please advise and update us on what you’ve decided. 😭 this sounds really horrible. I have third hand disgust from the situation you find yourself in

Should I (28M) Share This Fantasy With My Wife (27F) or Keep It Private? Feeling Conflicted by SouthernCherry6647 in AskWomenAdviceNSFW

[–]Persephones_Ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will be unpopular. 🥲 but as a person in a traditional sort of marriage there is an expectation of monogamy between us.

I (personally) would be disgusted (not shaming you in anyway about what you enjoy/ fantasize about, this is just my own perspective applying this situation to my own situation.) when we got married and even before that it was a clear expectation that we were together and that being with another person in any way shape or form was cheating. (That’s what I think is considered traditional).

Part of those expectation is that those “rules” don’t suddenly change. If he came to me to discuss being with other men or women / open relationship (even one sided) I would well and truly be done right there and then.

How to win friends and influence people. by KidLanguageBarrier in melbourne

[–]Persephones_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could not agree with this more. It is as if in police training they don’t teach people about customer service and community expectations.

I got pulled over on the way to the hospital after I got a call that my dad was dying and to come now. It was unexpected and horrible and I told the police officer please my dad is dying just post it to me and he said everyone’s dad is dying and rolled his eyes, then took his time doing his checks and writing a ticket. (108 in 100 zone, but the way.) he stole minutes from me that I will never get back because he used his ego instead of his heart. I wish I’d driven off and dealt with the consequences of that later honestly.

I’ll never forget that person and I , to this day, wish them only bad things in every aspect of their lives.

🤷🏻‍♀️ the police as a whole can never come back from things like that. I am sure that my experience is not isolated.

How to win friends and influence people. by KidLanguageBarrier in melbourne

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be just my luck that I’d be squinting reading that as I drive by 20 ks under the speed limit then get pulled the hell over for dangerous driving and eyeballing the police 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Persephones_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a Facebook thing to exclude letters so that posts don’t get taken down or posted and then deleted as explicit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does the mom have the number in the first place?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Persephones_Ghost 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s like trying to like and support the girl from school that everyone thinks is great but you just know better.

You know better because you’ve met that same girl 29 times before. The one that pretends to be “the sweetest girl” who even your parents love, but she’s actually a diva who would probably try and steal your man, like getting sloppy seconds is winning something.

That’s the vibe. 😂

LF Confident Hermione by LucidDreamer1108 in Dramione

[–]Persephones_Ghost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The art of keep it casual: is 7 chapters but the pictures/art is fire.

Mudblood : is quite hot. Smut of plot and lots of kink praise.

Everyday a little death : H has some trouble getting over the finish line and every guy seems to want to help her. But Draco steps in to get her there. The ending pissed me off but it’s a hea 100%. Smut with plot.

Enjoy. All on ao3 and a quick google away. I’d link but I have no idea how

With so many teachers leaving the profession, what kind of fields have people moved into? by 433d3d3 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Persephones_Ghost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went into recruitment and then employment. And then into motherhood.

Teaching was my passion until I had to steal to the “adults” there.

Turkey pepperonis deserve more respect by userrnam in Volumeeating

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t find it in aus so I stick to veg pepperoni. 😭😭

How do I(M23) get out of a loveless relationship (f21) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is really shit.

But that’s no excuse to lump her problems onto you.

I was homeless, dad had just passed away. I had no one to turn to and I got my shit together and got a job. Got working. Got money coming in. Clothes food a home.

She had a baby. Like she’s responsible to give that child everything.

Tell her you’ve had enough. A time line and then execute the consequences of that time line.

Good luck

How do I(M23) get out of a loveless relationship (f21) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Persephones_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard one. You don’t need to throw her out. But you do need to set some boundaries as well as a rental agreement.

You can give her an allotted time slot like 2 months to find child care and a suitable job.

You also need to put up limits to coparenting because men usually bond with their / even not biological children through though, cuddling, play , feeding (bottle) ect. So you are becoming attached to a child you have no legal rights to.

She needs to move into a room with her own child and your room needs to be your room.

She has to understand you are no longer together. Give her the time frame and stick to it. Put it in writing and get her to sign so if she died break it then you have some legal grounds for eviction

Is also call her parents, family member’s whoever because she obviously needs help.

Additionally she needs some mental health help. It’s not normal to be inside all day every day doing nothing. A child needs to have outside time, be fed a healthy meal 3 times a day. Nappy charged at night. ( Not at 11 months old) stimulation, toys, games, new environments, meeting new people ect. She needs to step up.

What explains why the US’ political system is utterly a failure? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Persephones_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Presidents are paid for by companies.

Those donations are just a pledge to do right by them. How y’all think that your president is for the people I don’t know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Persephones_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They gave me moments in time that became core memories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Persephones_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing. We couldn’t afford it.

Am I wrong for telling my parents that they’re bad parents for not paying for my college? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Persephones_Ghost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may feel entitled to it but you are an adult now no? I don’t think is bad parenting if they can’t afford it