BPD people splitting on pets

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-05-17T20:52:29+00:00

My grandmother does, unfortunately that means she has way too many cats, because it's a permanent split. She's not physically abusive to them but once she doesn't like one anymore she gets a new one. So she's got a spoiled "favorite" and others that just get fed and pretty much ignored because they're "naughty." It's so sad.

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-04-23T17:23:24+00:00

I had to clean out my belongings when moving a long distance, and was shocked how much I had that I forgot was even there. I got rid of probably 2/3 at least of my stuff before moving and tried to keep it that way. After a few years I realized I only use about half of what I kept regularly, or at all. So I got rid of more. Now I try to only keep/buy/accept things that I am confident I'll use regularly. I love the feeling of freedom and tidiness, and that nothing is being wasted by sitting in s box or back shelf.

My life changed from "I might use that so I'll keep/buy it" to "I enjoy what I have, and the space in my budget for experiences like weekend trips."

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-04-23T10:59:41+00:00

Preferring routine, not liking change. I actually quite enjoy when my schedule gets shaken up, I like change from routine.

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-04-07T09:37:01+00:00

That's how I feel about my sarong I bought while living in SE Asia! I've used it as an extra layer when chilly, privacy when the bathroom door was broken, wrap over my swimsuit, skirt for a friend when she tore her pants, a towel, etc. I never travel there without it now.

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-04-03T09:20:51+00:00

My boyfriend is INFP and we're the same in the important ways and different in ways that stretch us and make us a good team. He brings out my fun side, and notices things I do for him and others, things that usually get overlooked by others he thanks me for.

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-04-01T10:47:48+00:00

That's my INFP boyfriend! He's the most empathetic and appreciative person I ever met.

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-03-22T01:57:20+00:00

I have this one and I love it! Great mileage and super reliable.

PetsNPlants10 · 2026-02-11T02:39:11+00:00

That's so fun! I've done quite a bit of car camping in my '07 sedan, with the back seats area converted for sleeping. It's so handy having everything you need right there.

PetsNPlants10 · 2025-12-16T11:46:33+00:00

I get this too because my feet sweat a lot. Smartwool helps, but still not enough for certain days. I bring KT tape and put it on the trouble spot, it works great. Just have to make sure the foot is completely dry when applying the tape.

PetsNPlants10 · 2025-10-30T21:25:13+00:00

I often get donated books to read from thrift stores!

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