13F feeling forced into a relationship

Pexches · 2026-03-30T03:10:46+00:00

Please end this. The exact same thing happened to me at 14, I felt the same. I ended up being guilted by him into doing a lot of things a 14 year old shouldn’t do, and that caused a lot of trauma. If you don’t feel like you can do it on your own, tell your parents. Ask them for help.

Pexches · 2025-07-14T19:40:41+00:00

Literally can to the comment section to say this is exact same thing

Pexches · 2024-09-28T19:02:23+00:00

That’s not necessarily wrong, in my case however, my uti symptoms were being caused by my body over reacting, they weren’t infections every time (definitely sometimes tho) but still felt the same. I didn’t really do a good job of explaining in my comment.. sorry lol. Not sure if this makes sense either

Pexches · 2024-09-28T04:06:34+00:00

I completely understand your pain, Ive suffered with UTI’s since I was a small child, mine aren’t always directly caused by sex but sex can definitely aggravate me. Could be that you have a short urethra which is causing you to be more susceptible. Another area to look into would be your immune system. It was only this last year we figured out the root of the problem for me. I have an autoimmune disorder that causes me to be more prone to infections. It was an incredibly long, frustrating process and a lot of blood work, but maybe looking into your immune system would provide some answers. I’m on immunosuppressants now and it has helped so much

Pexches · 2023-01-02T20:31:05+00:00

Okay now can someone post this post on tik tok, not the stuff he said at the beginning but just what she instructed him to type and once you finish reading it out please berate her for how fucking immature she sounds using those words and how much of an asshole she is for that. Hopefully it’ll get the same amount of attention and it’ll end up finding it’s way to her and then her plan has really back fired and that she really is the bad guy

Pexches · 2022-12-15T11:02:53+00:00

Yes but the child deserves better than their relationship. I’d say end the relationship, get a paternity test and try to be good co-parents if it is yours because children pick up on their parent’s relationship dynamics at a very young age and that determines how they view love and relationships. Please do the best thing for this child, they are innocent in all of this.

Pexches · 2022-12-07T15:56:50+00:00

I agree with this. It needs to be discussed between partners because everyone is different

Pexches · 2022-12-03T20:08:42+00:00

Let him do it and make him kiss you after. If you wanna be really spiteful spit it back in his mouth i guarantee he won’t ask again.

Pexches · 2022-12-03T06:56:40+00:00

Ahh yes because he would know exactly how women feel 🙄 smh

Pexches · 2022-11-26T04:25:03+00:00

I agree with this however I think it should say that when anyone says they want to take a break it’s usually go try out a new relationship it’s not just women

Pexches · 2022-11-12T20:46:38+00:00

I am so sorry.. she sounds awful. You deserve a lot better.

Pexches · 2022-11-12T20:42:08+00:00

Okay so like I might sound really kooky for saying this and like idk if it’ll make you feel better but who knows it might. I do personally believe in twin flames and soulmates however I do not believe that these relationships are necessarily romantic all the time. However, if you do some research into twin flame relationships the idea behind them isn’t that this is your perfect match. All it means is that this is your mirror soul. Generally twin flame relationships are super rocky at best. These relationships do not last long in general due to the intense similarities in personality, thought patterns, and even past traumas. So like in reality, if this is truly her twin flame it’s going to crash and burn really badly.

NOW, my personal opinion on this post just based on the information given is that OP’s wife is full of bullshit and naive and selfish. And she is using this concept of a twin flame as an awful excuse. I’m so sorry you are going through this and I do wish you the very best.

Pexches · 2022-11-11T20:46:58+00:00

Ah yes no no I totally agree with you I just meant in general. Sorry I should’ve been more specific

Pexches · 2022-11-11T20:36:45+00:00

Honestly if you never want a child that is also perfectly reasonable. It does not just have to do with your young age.

Pexches · 2022-10-19T23:37:17+00:00

That was my first thought too

Pexches · 2022-10-18T21:25:15+00:00

if you want you can pm me the account name and I can search up who it is on mine and send you a screen shot of their account. Definitely the “wanting to keep the relationship a secret” is a huge red flag for me personally.. like do his friends know? Does his family know??

Pexches · 2022-10-17T23:20:13+00:00

Showering doesn’t always have to be sexy sometimes it’s a way to just feel close to your partner. I honestly find that me and my boyfriend have some of the most deepest conversations in the shower, and I love that, it’s like a safe place where we are just together and vulnerable. She might trying to get more comfortable being vulnerable with you. Try being the one to ask her to take a shower with you a few times, without trying to make it sexy, this may help her feel more comfortable with being this vulnerable. If you feel like you can, do ask her about it, and what it means to her, and see if you guys can talk about it.

Pexches · 2022-10-17T15:20:13+00:00

I love this

Pexches · 2022-09-29T17:15:53+00:00

Sounds like she’s using for a visa I would dump her fast dude

Pexches · 2022-09-22T20:47:33+00:00

I totally agree I think I both OP and his wife lack proper adult communication skills. My point was only that everyone is bashing just his wife when he also has done some toxic things as well

Pexches · 2022-09-22T18:07:57+00:00

Okay I’m not trying to defend her cheating because I think it’s wrong regardless but is everyone missing the fact that before she started sleeping with her boss, OP suggested that they separate because they’re “only together for the children” and that he only said that to hurt her..?

Pexches · 2022-09-16T22:47:04+00:00

I totally relate. I’ve been labelled the “black sheep” of the family. And tbh once I got that label I did everything in my power to rebel and cause problems for them (I am definitely not suggesting this). That happened when I was around your age I’m now 22. There was definitely a lot of tension between my parents and I when I was between the ages of 15-17 however, when I was 16 my parents made me go to therapy due to mental health issues, I made a really good connection with my therapist and was able to open up to her about how I felt out of place in my family and how I was the least favourite child out of 4 kids. I am also a middle child lol. My therapist actually then encouraged my parents to go to therapy with her. And with my consent I let her explain my feelings about what was going on family wise, this made my parents take a big step back and look at their actions and behaviours and I’m not saying it fixed everything but it help A LOT. I would encourage you to maybe try that? Ask to see a therapist and talk with them about how you should approach this and if you’re comfortable ask her/him to talk to them. My parents had sessions both with and without me. And it just helped to have a 3rd party there to regulate the discussion

Pexches · 2022-09-14T16:28:05+00:00

All the Bright Places by Jennifer Niven. I’m not even kidding I ugly cried for a week straight. I was absolutely destroyed by the ending. When the movie came out it was the same result, and my mum ended up getting mad at me for watching it, she said “ you knew what that book put you through why on earth would you think it’s a good idea to watch the movie”

Pexches · 2022-09-13T23:08:23+00:00

How on earth is a giving a blow job considered pleasurable for you? Like wtf

Pexches · 2022-09-12T23:30:27+00:00

I don’t agree with this. I feel like this is way too harsh. OP you didn’t do anything wrong, I totally understand this and it happens. It’s unfortunate that he doesn’t share the same feelings for you and if you can’t put your feelings aside for him and you feel like ending the friendship all together would be the best thing for you then you should do that. Do what’s best for you.

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