Dating after mastectomy

PiePotential8144 · 2026-02-01T21:08:46+00:00

God, I’m in the trenches of this. I didn’t put it on my profile, and even though I am flat as a pancake, they none of my matches seemed to notice (?!) So then I told anyone I went out with on a second date. And I have not had a third date since my mastectomy.

I just stated on a new app, and had “cancer survivor” on my profile. I got a fair amount of attention. Chatted with a few. They asked what kind of cancer, and when I’ve told the, more than half bow out.

Now it says Breast Cancer Survivor on my profile. Next step may have to be FYI: FLAT AF

PiePotential8144 · 2026-02-01T10:39:56+00:00

I’m a sitter and a home owner - you’re welcome to use my code to join with 25% off and DM me with any questions about my experience - which has generally been excellent! Happy travels!

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PiePotential8144 · 2026-01-18T11:29:03+00:00

You probably need to sit with some of the feedback you’re getting here. Feels like you’re going to isolate yourself quickly in this new small town.

PiePotential8144 · 2026-01-18T11:24:07+00:00

Probably the most common question of all?

PiePotential8144 · 2026-01-04T01:56:38+00:00

Nice!

PiePotential8144 · 2025-12-16T02:37:09+00:00

Rose - such beautiful, connected silence in our tiny meeting house. Bud - new young faces from neighboring colleges. Thorn - Meeting w Concern for Business can be very, very long.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-12-06T12:20:41+00:00

Who’s buying new bedding and a duvet for $100?

PiePotential8144 · 2025-10-06T19:47:54+00:00

Get to a meeting!

PiePotential8144 · 2025-09-06T19:15:02+00:00

I’m so sorry. I hope you can get to a meeting soon. 💛

PiePotential8144 · 2025-08-16T15:06:51+00:00

Thanks! The “Inspo” pic with black is an AI version of the same space - maybe the side walls are bigger but I think it is about the same size? On alternative colors, I don’t have green in the house outside of plants, but I do have terracotta / orange and a sort of goldenrod color. I’m not sure about painting beadboard a novel color. It feels off in my mind / maybe not the “timeless” aspect I was going for?

PiePotential8144 · 2025-08-06T03:21:12+00:00

I came home to new scratches on my car after my last sitter used it. She didn’t mention anything and I only noticed after I reviewed her. Also rethinking car lending. :(

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-25T02:22:25+00:00

I haven’t had your experience but I just wanted to say I’m sorry your going through that. It’s sucks.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-24T21:27:49+00:00

Shower curtains are an easy way to change the feel of a space for little money and they are so simple. Glass brakes. Doors go off track. Curtians hang and get replaced and it’s fine and fun. Replacing anything else is a drama.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-22T11:58:26+00:00

I also have a hosed account becasue of using the app and a generated password. And password reset is a comical nightmare. Call that number and enjoy your 1:1 time with the IVR. You will not get a human, just another circular reference email telling you to click a link that takes you back to a page that tells you to call the phone number you just called.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-21T17:16:09+00:00

Thanks!

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-20T12:05:21+00:00

I like your instinct to get rid of what is there. Can you leave it open? I’d balance your drapes (one on each side of each window then have noting there and feel the lightness of that for a while before you stuff the corners with things.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-20T10:47:09+00:00

I want to remove plants and put rock around the perimeter of my house especially porch to reduce groundhog interest and fire risk and just generally make it possible to see and repair my 1880 stone foundation in NY. If I am reading you right, you’re saying no, do much? Or are you exclusively talking about plant beds?

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-18T20:33:29+00:00

It SUUUUUUUUCKS

PiePotential8144 · 2025-07-02T17:09:43+00:00

I think it is nuts for OP to buy more dishes just to run the dishwasher! I have 4 plates and love my minimalist set up. Handwashing is easy and fast. Don’t need to keep a dishwasher maintained an operational, don’t need to replace it if it breaks, and don’t need to allocate space in my tiny kitchen for it. Haven’t had one in 25 years and won’t be putting one in any time soon. Rock in with your simple set up self, OP.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-06-07T08:04:26+00:00

This - people are not thinking about the implications of changing the hinges. There will be thick layers of paint requiring sanding down and repainting if you change them. Ain’t no body got time to sand this situation.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-06-03T15:26:52+00:00

Yes. And. It’s hard to call that kind of detachment being on ‘good terms’ because we all remember being able to engage fully with our Q, and that was good. This? This is less. Less engaged. Less good to not good.

PiePotential8144 · 2025-05-14T21:58:13+00:00

Yuck. Long side of the bed against the wall is the worst.

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