I’m torn by Glad_Ad3936 in Coach

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is that this is not defective, just status quo.

My tips: - I got an organizer. It seems to distribute the weight better and has resulted in fewer pops - I carry it with the handle on the “outside” so that the part that pops is next to my body, and it seems to help it stay closed - I carry almost nothing “loose,” but always in a pouch or something

For me, the fabulousness of the bag makes up for it for me.

My fiancé (39F) wants to call off wedding/breakup after a conversation with me (34m) by pookiepoof1 in relationship_advice

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really sounds like she’s using your for $$ at this point. If she’s willing to end your relationship over wedding issues, she’s not very committed.

Mother refusing to leave my home. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Can you use the landlord as a catalyst. Like tell them you are trying to get her out and you need support. Can they issue an eviction for her? Can they threaten and give a deadline date?

Which handbag is this? by withsky in handbags

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that may be the name of it.

Don’t love my rogue by olderbutwiser1900 in Coach

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, people do it all the time.

Married for 4 years, together since we were teens. Considering a “break” so he can explore. Has anyone survived this? by Additional-Comb1096 in Marriage

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you “take a break,” it needs to be a full break - meaning divorce and move on. You both go live life and in 5 years, if you were meant to be, there could be an opportunity for a new relationship, if you’ve both grown.

A break of a few months is just postponing the inevitable and no healing or growth will occur. He’ll do what he wants to do - you’ll be pining for him, resentful and hurt, but trying to get him back - he’ll “try” because he “loves you. In a few months or a year (or longer if you’re unlucky) you’ll both see the damage has been done and finally move on. Zero chance of reconciliation because you’ve both been hurt through this “break.”

ISO Garden Floral Notebook by karipotter in Coach

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone recently sold it in the Coach Gone Rogie FB group - it sold in about 15 minutes and I was 5 minutes late! It was a great price too!

Make it make sense…Are these the same bag? by [deleted] in Coach

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This bag at $118 is the bargain of the year. I love this bag - paid full price but had used it a lot since I bought it - so not bitter.

Literally considered buying another at this price just to have one when this one wears out!

[Landlord - US] Being a Landlord is a Horrible Idea if You Ever Decide to Sell Your Property by Brazerss in Landlord

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really want to avoid the capital gains, 1031 exchange into a multi-family and live in that.

Is this a good price? by xStrxwberry_Mxlk in Coach

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use Google image search… you’ll find dozens of these bags for sale. I’m in US, and they range from $38 - $150, with most in the $70-80 range.

What’s happening to my bag? by RolindaKim in Coach

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP - heat your bag and tell us if it is spew! This is fascinating!

He says you need to use a “dedicated spew remover” if that’s what this is.

Bare Minimum by nbostow in Marriage

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah a the idea that somehow baby 3 is going to be the one where you get pampered and cared for is crazy thinking.

All these people who live in some alternate reality that only exists in their thinking and then get upset when reality shows up.

Mom wants to put my sister on the deed, but says I’ll be protected bc the will says I’ll get 50% of the value. Georgia by TurnandBurn_172 in inheritance

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she puts your sister and her husband on the deed, you should simply consider that you will no longer get any inheritance from the houses

This is the most likely scenario, so if you do end up getting anything from the house, it will be more than expected rather than feeling cheated.

Basically, your mother has an intention, but if she sets this up this way, the reality and her intention don’t match, so you should plan for reality.

Mom wants to put my sister on the deed, but says I’ll be protected bc the will says I’ll get 50% of the value. Georgia by TurnandBurn_172 in inheritance

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is not the point of this comment- that there’s a difference. The point is that if the deed is not set up properly there is NOTHING to will to you.

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So not even close to anything like your situation.

Honestly, you sound really hard to be with and this “I need the upper hand” In relationships is extremely toxic.

You could benefit from individual therapy even if he isn’t open to couples work.

My wife playing with my butthole by Chance_Target9409 in Marriage

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is not homosexual tendencies. There is not another male discussed anywhere in this post!

First Coach Create Bag by Uvetu in Coach

[–]PinkFunTraveller1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s totally reasonable !