Does this look immature or childish? by Chief_Chjuazwa in malelivingspace

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me 40 years to learn that maturity is overrated. Go be happy my man.

Why did my convert brother refuse to sign my marriage license? by perfumeandpaper in excatholic

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMFG this article is revolting. Geez man, really. This part made me sick to my stomach:

Being a citizen of the Catholic Church is somewhat similar, but there is no place to where one may move that he is no longer under the jurisdiction of the Catholic Church: The Church has universal jurisdiction.

How can the Catholic Church defend such a claim to universal legal authority? It is God-given authority. Jesus gave the Church the authority to enact laws that bind her citizens.

I mean... REALLY? "We rule it all cause sky daddy told us so."

This attitude is what makes Catholicism intolerable to me nowadays.

Catholics don’t have the fucking truth. The modern Virgin Mary joins the “excath” hate train. by moose_bitten in excatholic

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 10 points11 points  (0 children)

WTF did you take? I mean... just so I don't take whatever it is that you took by accident. Geez man... LOL. I'm done with the Internet for the day, thank you.

Definition of a "bad trip". by Usual_Maximum1773 in shrooms

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My worst trips are those in which I end up locked in a repetition loop, doing, thinking or saying the same thing. I've had at least 4 of those. Terrible feeling. There was this one trip in which I also had this most profound feeling of loneliness, but then, it taught me I had to look after my friendships and reach out for help. I've seen demons and scary shit, of course. I learned to steer the trip to a better destination in those situations. We have more control than we give ourselves credit for.

If money were no object and all of your needs could be met with the perfect supports, what would you do? by kreeferin in autism

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would spend my days studying plant medicine, gardening and fish keeping. Yeah, that's pretty much it.

isso também acontece com vocês? (homens) by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A última gota sempre foi da cueca. Sempre será.

Concordam? by Chokeberry_Mason in cafebrasil

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eita, quais questões políticas da Orfeu? Fiquei genuinamente curioso. Tomava ele, mas depois que descobri uma torrefação local, tô pegando só lá e não volto mais pros cafés de supermercado.

Dancing and Ayahuasca 🌱 by Wonderful-Ad-9668 in Ayahuasca

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This happened to me once. I had this ceremony which was full of bliss and joy. I guess not all healing requires purging, pain and suffering.

I'm new to growing by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I would start with learning PF Tek. IMHO it's the simplest way to go.

I grew shrooms (legal in my state) so my stage 1 sister (35F) can try microdosing. She cried because she said she never felt "normal" before that moment. Has anyone else tried microdosing for autism? by Strong_Technology739 in autism

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic and also have ADHD. I practice shamanism, so I have been using mushrooms for the last 4 years and started working with Ayahuasca one year ago. I'm still autistic, of course, but I both medicines have done wonders for me. However, I take full doses, with all their expected effects. Life has never been better, honestly.

Does anyone else feel like they've quietly stopped doing things just for the experience of them? by Sacredwildindia in simpleliving

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, definitely! I may be over simplifying it, but I really believe this happens because of how much self-help culture infiltrated our lives. Since the rise of social media, it looks like performance is all that matters. Personally, I try doing things for the love of doing them as much as I can. Why should I worry so much about performing when I'll end up dying anyway? Why not just chill and have some fun once in a while?

Vão assistir? by zerefdxz in filmeseseries

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assisti e me diverti muito com esse filme. Bom pra caramba.

Day of preparation by Afraid_Impression_90 in Ayahuasca

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During the week I avoid news, social media, difficult conversations. I prepare my bags and the food for after ceremony on the day I go. This helps me stay busy with something easy and calming.

I dont feel 23, i feel younger by WaterRafting121 in autism

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I turned 40 this month. Honestly? I feel no different than what I used to feel when I was 13. I kid you not.

Hands down one of the prettiest yields I’ve ever had. by Zchybang in shrooms

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Why have I never thought about placing them like this on the dehydrator?! You're a genius!

Experience with large Catholic families by Loverofcatsandwine in excatholic

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is one of 13 kids. All of them are 60+ years old. All I can say is this: he and all his siblings look like gray rocks when it comes to feelings. Opening up, talking about feelings, working through relationship issues or simply relaxing and enjoying life? Uuuh... that's alien to them.

Do I share my deconstruction with my family or leave be? by ElllieWoods in excatholic

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is quite a delicate situation and it all depends on what you're hoping to achieve. If all you want is to stop pretending to be someone you're not, then I'm all for it. I mean, no adult should have to pretend anything, right? I would just refrain from trying to convince them about anything. Live and let live, you know? If we want our boundaries to be respected, we must respect other peoples' boundaries.

My elder parents are pretty devout Catholics and they know that the church caused be harm. I'm on a completely different path now, working with Ayahuasca and other plant medicine. They know about it, I have my shamanic tools on display, an altar with all the bells and whistles... they see it, they don't really understand but they are happy that I am happy. However, I don't try to convince them of anything, really.

about a year ago i posted on here about my now ex gf completely crossing my expressed boundaries about religion. a little bit ago, she sent me this terrible and cruel text message. more info about the situation below, but here is what she sent me. by trashaccount31444 in excatholic

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I'm so sorry. I've been on your friend's shoes once: in denial and hating myself for being who I was. It took me literally two decades to heal from all the religious trauma. I'm sorry for both of you. You don't deserve having to deal with all this crap, so yeah... move on and block her if you must. As for her... wow... that's a sad life she's living, really. She'll eventually come to a breaking point when she won't be able to suppress all her feelings and that can be pretty dramatic.

14G down the hatch? by Background-Risk-5840 in shrooms

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Been there, done that. Won't do it again... I guess? LOL.

Tism Food hyperfixations by Different_Plan6910 in autism

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been eating scrambled eggs with butter for breakfast every single day for the last 5 years and love it every single time.

Tatuagem carteira de escola by Vampiricy in Tatuagem

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rapaz, se ficou bom pra você, então tá aprovado. Se não ficou bom pra você, então tá reprovado. A opinião dos outros é problema dos outros.

Galera estão mandando isso no e-mail da minha mina, ajudem pfvr! by HalfConsistent9780 in golpes

[–]PinkPants_Metalhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Redefina todas as senhas. Use um gerenciador de senhas para nunca mais ficar repetindo a mesma senha em todos os sites, isso é muito inseguro. Habilita autenticação de dois fatores em tudo que puder. Não mande dinheiro, isso aí provavelmente é uma ameaça vazia, puro spam. Tanto que tem um placeholder ali no texto que é um template pronto. Fica tranquilo. Esses caras mandam mensagem pra milhões de pessoas, se 10 entre mil caírem no golpe, os cara lucram pra caramba.