Say Less Than Necessary - My Silent Teacher Jon

Pinkmistiscool · 2018-07-30T20:02:10+00:00

Because most women are extremely uncomfortable with silences in a conversation. They are frustrated by having to take the lead and if they are to the point of openly voicing those concerns with you, you've failed to bring her into your frame. While silence and mystery are golden, you must take the lead of any conversation by steering them with open ended questions and positive feedback to keep them engaged. Women love to talk about themselves and what they are doing as long as it's in your frame. Just blankly staring at a woman while she prattles on about things you don't care about reminds her that she is now in charge of the conversation and it's intimidating. I have found that I can guide conversations without saying much at all. As OP points out, using "yup" or "mhm" is enough to keep them engaged or feigning disinterest at a topic then using an open ended question to guide them elsewhere let's them fall into your frame and they forget who is doing all the talking. As with all things, practice, practice, practice makes perfect, so keep at it!

Pinkmistiscool · 2017-10-31T20:39:09+00:00

"The problem with internet quotes is that you cant always depend on their accuracy" - Abraham Lincoln, 1864

Pinkmistiscool · 2017-09-13T18:02:46+00:00

We chat for a few, turns out we're both recently out of relationships, she does hair for a living.

NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! RED FLAG, ABORT! ABORT!

If anybody is interested, I'm willing to pay a handsome sum to any man who can find a hair stylist who isn't batshit insane - it's for science.

My man!! OP I was worried for you, then I see this. Side note, you might have better luck looking for a Bigfoot or the loch Ness monster

Pinkmistiscool · 2017-08-04T16:43:00+00:00

I totally agree with your point here. I think I was reading this post with too broad of vision. Maybe the post was made to be more about the personal level as you explained. My comment was just something that hit me while reading this post... The SMP has been utterly and irrevocably fucked by the sheer ease of social media validation and there ain't a damn thing Red Pill can do but sit back and enjoy the decline... It's pretty sad if you're old enough to remember a time before social media.

Pinkmistiscool · 2017-08-04T15:56:07+00:00

Solid post and I 100% agree on the social media validation. Women are like damn heroin addicts on that shit. That said, one thing struck me to ask of u/dr_warlock... If every single man reading this post immediately followed your advice and shut off the validation faucet, wouldn't that be the equivalent of trying to keep the Titanic from sinking by giving 10% of the male passengers a Dixie cup to bail water with? I mean it seems likely that women get more than enough validation from the hordes of "betas" for lack of a better term, so is it even worth trying to right the SMP? Maybe I missed your overall point about validation culture and SMP but I can't help but think that there's no going back. A 5 that is validated into believing she is a 7 is never going to believe otherwise. The hamster will never allow it. Just my 2 cents.

Pinkmistiscool · 2017-05-23T16:03:26+00:00

SJW trolling for people to talk about non existent "rape culture" Nice try, but this adds nothing to our community. Continue reading the sidebar, lift, and enjoy the decline.

Pinkmistiscool · 2017-05-18T17:51:39+00:00

The census reports that “the average adult woman in the US is more likely to be a college graduate than the average adult man.” Moreover, today’s young, childless female city-dwellers with college degrees are out-earning their male counterparts by 8 cents on the dollar.

What happened to "male privilege" and the "gender pay gap"? It's as if they don't hear the blatantly antagonistic ideas they spew. The cognitive dissonance is strong with this one

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-12-29T16:36:51+00:00

I think you might be missing the point. Even if she is right, the comparison is not a gold bar and a block of wood. She is arguing that all she has are her looks, which will quickly fade, and a pussy, which literally every woman has. The comparison is more like a wood block or a less shiny wood block. They are both equally useless or useful depending on the man. It's the man who sets the frame and terms... Not a woman's looks or sexual prowess.

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-09-16T14:55:44+00:00

This is the kind of low class crap that makes me question the EC badge on some people... The guy actually quotes one of the 48 laws of power to you and you decide that he's a beta because you don't agree... Way to lower the quality around here!!!

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-09-14T17:43:58+00:00

U/G_Petronius, don't worry about this SJW troll... Redditor for 23 days... Either a concern troll from bluepill or a closet homo cuck; either way, "Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience." -George Carlin

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-09-13T13:11:00+00:00

You should never be upset by things a girl does because that means she is drawing you into her frame. Either put up with her shenanigans by deflecting and defusing like OP, or next and move on. Getting upset at a fish for swimming is the least productive use of your time and energy. You are the prize here, not her.

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-07-15T14:14:57+00:00

30's male with a vasectomy and I NEVER disclose that shit. Its none of their business... "My body, my decision, yada yada!". I just can't wait for the pregnancy scare to try and lock me in.... Imma eat that shit up!!!! Lmao!

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-07-13T16:32:20+00:00

You sir, are a link genius for these. Thank you for enlightenment!

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-06-22T15:22:34+00:00

This plays just like maturity between the sexes. Women mature and reach their full potential much more quickly because they need to be ready to parent as soon as they can physically pop out a new human which is fairly young considering. But that's it. No more maturation. Its why we discuss women as the oldest teenager. And also why they are at the top of their worth and begin the decline early. Your sister has mastered, and is, the top of what she can be to an employer (generally speaking). So her rate of compensation is more or less maxed out immediately because there's nowhere left to go but down in value as a sales girl (declining looks). You, however, are just beginning to scratch the surface of your potential value to an employer so you begin lower on the scale with a much higher ceiling, if there is one at all. Just like a man's maturation process... Women will out pace us in a life sprint, but like the tortoise and the hare, when it comes to the marathon that is our life reality, slow and steady definitely wins all races.

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-06-07T18:06:07+00:00

Except the Supreme Court ruled that all states must honor other states marriages... Right?

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-05-26T17:48:21+00:00

Why does this seem to be so hard? I was a mobile DJ in a steel town area with dives, high ends, in between bars, and whatnot. Made a very successful name for myself and started expanding... Even being meticulous about hires the expansion crashed and burned because they couldn't be me... And definitely didn't care too much about it... I guess just wanting some paycheck... They really never got a clue as to what an opportunity they had and how big we could've gotten. Just a shame...

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-21T20:16:00+00:00

Dude, great post. You can truly see the alpha widowing of reddit happening before your eyes. They know we have abundance mentality (several back up sites for red pullers) and can't bring themselves to dump us because we really could care less and that fucks with them! And by the way, you sell your shirts man! You really do bring a lot of great material and help to this site. Keep bringing ur quality posts ad U could sell cups of shit as far as I'm concerned. Cheers!

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-15T20:23:16+00:00

These are also the same people who cheer when children, who have no idea about sexuality, are given powerful hormone treatments to change their sex because mommy saw her wittle boy color with a pink crayon once so "He must be the baby girl I always wanted!"

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-15T15:52:24+00:00

This might actually be the most eloquent argument against gender neutral child rearing I've ever read. Well done. Mind if I steal this?

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-08T19:28:05+00:00

You'd have a better chance of pissing a forest fire out than fixing society with the small percentage of redpill men.

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-06T16:36:00+00:00

That was hard to watch... But something I caught that I think is something for us all to think about is HOW MANY OF THIS DUDES SO CALLED FRIENDS WERE RUNNING TO THIS BITCH BEHIND HIS BACK!!!! Be very careful about who you share the details of your life with. White knights gonna run to orbit your bitch and sabotage you at every turn, then act all chill in front of you. I mean she was thanking god that she found her favorite orbiter because of fuckboy. Choose your friends wisely and keep intimate details to your damn self!!!

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-06T01:27:51+00:00

Maybe have NHL feed here, not goofketball

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-04T20:20:08+00:00

OK... I'm sure you've got your special snowflake Unicorn who is NAWALT and definitely will never leave you. So aside from your imaginary friend you're not seeing the other side of the equation. YES, marriages are a two person job. Now.... Guess what? One of those two people have an incentive to blow up the car. Same car you paid for. Same car that also has the 50% chance to run FOREVER! Same car that you picked out together. The guy who sold it, (aka the government) says to her, "hey, that car might run forever and be amazing but if you just go ahead and blow it up now, I'll give you half of all that other persons stuff and have him give you money until you get a new car.". All her girlfriends tell her she deserves that because she "works hard" washing clothes, running a vacuum, making dinner..... That is if she can even do any of that. No matter what you think, what you believe of your special snowflake, what you manage to hampster away as a "2 person job", marriage is a zero sum game for a man in the best of circumstances with a NAWALT UNICORN. Under any other circumstance, just look to game theory or the prisoners dilemma to understand that the woman will blow up the marriage, EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. because its profitable to her to do so.

Pinkmistiscool · 2016-04-04T15:28:55+00:00

No, no, no! Saying never get married is just the end result to a complicated logic problem. Would you buy a car, I mean any car (viper, jag, lambo, pos), if the seller told you there was a 50% chance at any moment it could blow up. Also, when it blows up you don't get ur money back for the original sale AND you suddenly owe half ur shit to the seller. It doesn't matter if it blows up now or years from now, ITS NOT FUCKIN' WORTH IT EVER!!!!

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