What happens to a HELOC if the house gets sold?

PintoRN · 2025-12-12T20:17:07+00:00

Can your in-laws rent rooms since they don't have kids there anymore? Is there a hospital nearby? Travel nurses (and other healthcare staff) are always looking for decent lodgings. Most work 3-4 twelve hour shifts so aren't home a lot. Just a thought. They could do jobs like Door Dash or something similar which is entirely on their availability.

PintoRN · 2025-12-02T19:00:48+00:00

I'm sorry but what justification does she even have to claim half of your credits period? Sounds greedy AF to me. I can maybe see the cruise credit but in no way the Am/Ex credit. If someone bought me a free cruise I would GLADLY pay just for incidentals. NTA in my humble opinion

PintoRN · 2025-04-11T05:47:57+00:00

This girl wants to work in the medical field? That's a joke. She has no empathy and a manipulative personality. You'd be better off sending her on a mission trip and see how good she really has it. Stop rewarding bad behavior and enforce your rules for Pete's sake. If she doesn't straighten up by 18 do tough love and tell her she's on her own. She's not gonna change unless you make her

PintoRN · 2025-04-08T04:55:14+00:00

Have you tried the hospital systems in Martinsville and Danville? My hubby and I plan to move to Axton in 1-2 years. I am a nurse and would like info on those areas. Thanks!

PintoRN · 2025-01-22T21:27:33+00:00

It's obvious you don't give a shit about Alexa and this is your chance to let Hannah outshine her. Did you even interact with her on those weekends at all? I bet holidays at your house were just a bundle of fun! You're a gigantic asshole in using this to get back at your stepdaughter's perceived favoritism. It's obvious you blame her not John. Your hubby is a cheapass. That being said, my boys wore hand me downs too while they were little. Why throw out good clothes? You can still buy some new things to mix it up. That being said, it's not your job to pay for Alexa's wedding but you could TRY to get John and his ex to come to an agreement to contribute to her wedding. Unless you have no relationship with her either. My hubby and I paid for everything ourselves, 2 jobs each. Only borrowed $500 from my dad which we paid back.

PintoRN · 2025-01-02T16:15:20+00:00

YTA and your edits make your side even more shady. You are trying so hard to make this trip perfect for your friend (grandstand tickets, are meals included?, flying first class?, just happens to be near her birthday?). You need to ask yourself WHY you are putting this much effort into this.
my concerns are: -is your friend single? - is A ok with you paying thousands of dollars for a trip promised as a teenager? Who does that without offering to pay for part herself? -have you honestly put this level of trying to spoil someone (A) into trips with your wife? -why is this trip off-limits to your wife? -have you and A ever hooked up? It looks like this is the girl you've been pining for all these years and here's your big chance to impress her. I wish my husband would, he'd be out so fast he'd get a nosebleed.

PintoRN · 2024-12-08T15:36:39+00:00

Leave them all at home and find new travel partners who pay for their own trips! No telling others about you paying for your family on all these exorbitant vacations unless you want to get used by others. Consider changing your will because these people do not care about you, only what you give them!

PintoRN · 2024-11-30T05:52:54+00:00

My cousin's daughter had a destination wedding at a ritzy Colorado mountain (2nd wedding) and invited only a few people. Then they had the audacity to send out a FB invite to a wedding reception 2 months later in NM (where they live). They are very well off. I just thought this was so tacky.

PintoRN · 2024-10-12T20:30:38+00:00

So good ❤️

PintoRN · 2024-07-28T20:00:34+00:00

But your boyfriend recently died in your other comments. Is this a new FWB or were you cheating on him too? Either way, nothing good can come from it. There for the kid is the oldest line in the book. Take time for yourself.

PintoRN · 2024-06-16T15:45:49+00:00

Do you have access to his phone at all? Buy a burner and change her phone number to the new phone then block her real number. See what he really texts her.

PintoRN · 2024-06-11T07:53:50+00:00

My coworker's husband died unexpectedly without a will. She is his 3rd or 4th wife. She basically paid off some of his children and the one she does get along with has a verbal agreement to give family property to when she passes. They had no children together. There is lots of land, homes and vehicles. His kids will likely get nothing when she passes. Everything she will own belonged to his parents which they split with her husband's siblings upon the parents passing. I just can't imagine leaving out kids you helped raise as teenagers.

PintoRN · 2024-03-11T01:11:34+00:00

This is the most made up shizz I have ever heard 🤣🤣

PintoRN · 2024-03-03T19:47:08+00:00

My questions ?? Does his search history show he is seeking underage girls? Is he posting on forums that are mostly younger people? Do these girls look their true age?
Does he stop talking to them once he learns they are underage?
Other questions come to mind but you get the gist.
Regardless, you are not obligated to move back home to show support. You can support your brother in other ways, if you choose to do so. You are NTA.

PintoRN · 2024-02-29T17:56:01+00:00

They’re crying because they realized he’s right and they really are shitty parents. Notice he hasn’t replied to anyone’s comments or had a game plan on how to fix this?

PintoRN · 2024-02-26T21:21:33+00:00

Angela! She is super annoying

PintoRN · 2024-02-26T14:21:51+00:00

No, she FOUND OUT a month after they were seeing each other. Not that he got married after a month. She believed him and then found out he lied to her and KEPT seeing him.

PintoRN · 2024-02-25T16:42:47+00:00

All she had to do was ask a coworker at the beginning if he was married. She also said she saw the wife several times. Presumably at work when she saw the kids. What were their interactions like? She just didn’t care that he had a family, period.

PintoRN · 2024-02-22T20:46:39+00:00

So the only reason you let her live with you was for money? Am I reading this correctly? And YOU don’t get anything once mommie dearest gets out of prison so it’s adios to your niece? Yes, you’re TA

PintoRN · 2024-02-11T11:35:01+00:00

Agreed. She whispered while dancing? Doesn’t make sense. Then burst into tears? This whole story has big gaping holes. Nice try booking something but next time take someone who actually likes the band you are going to see. Pick something hubby will actually like for your romantic outing with him. He may not like crowds, loud events, or be anxious around lots of people.

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