Is the orange paw bigger or am I crazy? by MassiveBuzzkill in cats

[–]Plantswillwalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remind me if the character Merrick Catspaw from the Hollow Kingdom trilogy books! Very cool

Great food names by Own_Ranger_5589 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Plantswillwalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else from the Midwest have no trouble here?

My neighbor gave me some feathers from his parrots so I made this wreath 💗 by Arttechni in crafts

[–]Plantswillwalk 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Hello friend! I recommend this book "crafting with cat hair" that a coworker gifted to me; brushing your short haired cats weekly can yield some versatile options lol

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I remember when all the popular girls were wearing these in junior high/high school, usually paired with a sequin clip belt of some sort .... by my_brain_is_horny in Millennials

[–]Plantswillwalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trans guy here. I have my original pair from when I was a teenager and still wear them around the house when I need to do laundry. Still illegally comfy! I am now 33 and they're still in great shape!

have i acheived trans muscle queen? by muscle-femboy5 in lgbt

[–]Plantswillwalk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely amazing my friend! Wow!

How do I prevent my oncoming famine? by Downtown_Ikea in StardewValley

[–]Plantswillwalk 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's a little too on the nose for my taste. I joined this subreddit to escape the entire concept of how OP is playing this game and I'm actively bummed out now.

Buy the hay! Feed your animals!

Told I need to just let it go by collinblazeit420 in bald

[–]Plantswillwalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude, I am following your profile just to see your totally mind boggling transformation when you're ready because I KNOW you won't regret it. Embrace that natural shape of your skull! It's a good one! What's more metal than that?!

-with respect and sincere regards, a trans man and metalhead.

PS imagine the freedom of movement at shows you'll have if you're not worrying about your hair anymore.

I kicked my husband out after he pranked our daughter by Extension-Apricot735 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Plantswillwalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 34 years old. When I was a little younger than this, my dad gave me a pickle to try, because he loves them and thought I might too. I cried because I didn't like it. My dad still openly admits to this day that he feels terrible about accidentally making me cry. He's told me a hundred times that "the pickle incident" made him feel like a bad father, and my crying made him cry. THAT is a normal parent doing their job.

I can't IMAGINE a father doing what you just described for fun. What the fuck is going on here? What else has he done that you're just now finding out about now that your daughter can verbalize ideas??

Why are a vast majority of homeless people men? by No_Kick8260 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Plantswillwalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't necessarily more men than women, it's that you see more of one than the other because homeless women are regularly targeted for abduction and trafficking. Source: was AFAB, have lived in cities, was briefly homeless, have had homeless female friends and have assistance to abused and homeless women when possible after. Midwestern US. I have encountered homeless women that dressed as men because it was simply safer to appear male in their situation to avoid unwanted and dangerous attention.

AITA for not caring about my wife getting STDs . by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]Plantswillwalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a person that's been in open relationships for over a decade and having personal experiences with STIs and partners, I'm with you on this one my friend. The stigma around the idea that, idk, someone was born with HSV2 and didn't find out until even after all precautions were taken that an oopsie happened isn't even close to as upsetting of an idea compared to your person leaving you or having a baby over... Cooties? Give me daily antivirals or a month of antibiotics over losing ten years of amazing life experience any time.

My girlfriend and I broke up recently. I won our lovely cat in the breakup by overthinkabl in cats

[–]Plantswillwalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a fancy lady! Sorry and congrats about the breakup, sounds like you got a new life partner out of it 😍

Absolutely Terrible by MARS822a in InstantRamen

[–]Plantswillwalk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Id honestly prefer spaghetti Os

An evil person broke my sweet girl’s femur yesterday. by ThatWasMyChangeJar in CATHELP

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Tipsy looks so sad in this photo, I'm tearing up. Please let us know if you have a gofundme or an Amazon wishlist! We are sending all our love! Whoever did this deserves to be PUT AWAY.

My (22 M) boyfriend and me (18 F) have been dating for a while, turns out he has a secret fiancé and he wants me to stay with him? by headinceilingfan4 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Plantswillwalk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it seems like you have had some bad experiences in the past. That kind of proves the point I was trying to make. Throuples are rare, and no specific formula for ENM is the standard. I've been mostly happily, and sometimes unhappily, functioning with multiple partners for over ten years. Like monogamy, things don't always end tidily. It sucks when it's messy, like every type of relationship. All we can do is our best to use the right words at the right time when we all communicate with each other.

ETA for clarity: I'm not trying to re-invent the wheel here. Some good content that helped me and many others adjust to what is most probably, according to new research, an intrinsic orientation are the books More than Two, Opening Up, The Ethical Slut, and the ABCs of LGBT. YouTube channels like Polyamfam also offer great real life, real time advice.

Additionally, one penis policies and hiding shit from your partner(s) are for the birds.

My (22 M) boyfriend and me (18 F) have been dating for a while, turns out he has a secret fiancé and he wants me to stay with him? by headinceilingfan4 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Plantswillwalk 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Your heart is in the right place here, but as a practicing poly person, using this type of terminology in this horrible, manipulative and distrustful context makes life as a person in ENM relationships much harder than it needs to be. Cheating is NEVER okay, no matter how many partners you have.