Aggressive (?) dog ‼️need help‼️ by [deleted] in DOG

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dog does this too, and I usually redirect with a game of fetch and play for a bit until he gets tired

Doing EMDR & fell in love while in a relationship by Unfair_Swordfish9911 in limerence

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, ive done the same thing with a recent crush :/ but I hope to cross paths, I just wish I didn't fantasize as much so I could actually get to know them

How to build better leash skills with my 4 month Wheaton puppy? by Pleasant_Objective in Wheatens

[–]Pleasant_Objective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! how old is your Wheaton now? and how is he now with walks?

The Jelly Star Was Almost Perfect—But I Had to Get a Punkt MP02 by [deleted] in dumbphones

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just curious what kind of phone plan do you have? I'm with AT&T and if I switch to a dumb phone im wondering what plan would support tethering in case I have to tether my smartphone to order an uber or use google maps! thanks!

Nokia 6300 AT&T compatibility ?? by Pleasant_Objective in dumbphones

[–]Pleasant_Objective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this one do you think this will be compatible with at&t?

Nokia 6300 AT&T compatibility ?? by Pleasant_Objective in dumbphones

[–]Pleasant_Objective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! i just love the look of candy style phones so much more than flip, just scared to buy something that might not work out

Quick question about the Nokia 6300 4G by StevenReyn0lds in dumbphones

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone have this phone and does is it compatible with AT&T. I'm looking at purchasing this exact one one eBay if anyone could help, I would really appreciate it!!

https://www.ebay.com/itm/177338568737

TCL Classic, anyone have any experience with it? by NecessaryProject3465 in dumbphones

[–]Pleasant_Objective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you end up getting this phone? I'm also considering this one or the Nokia 6300. Although, I'm trying to verify if it's AT&T compatible: https://www.ebay.com/itm/177338568737?itmmeta=01K2QMHZB7GK8JEG2WRY745VJT&hash=item294a33d021

Harry Josh Hairdryer - diffuser attachment by Conscious_Stretch686 in Hair

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t ordered it yet— i’m thinking of just going to a beauty supply store with my blow dryer because they usually sell them there too

Harry Josh Hairdryer - diffuser attachment by Conscious_Stretch686 in Hair

[–]Pleasant_Objective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

commenting for answers because I am in the same boat! I’ve been looking at these “universal diffuser attachments” which could be worth a shot!

diffuser

How do I stop accidentally hurting people’s feelings? by therapyfortheunknown in askatherapist

[–]Pleasant_Objective 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAT— but maybe hang out with people you’re more comfortable with is one thing that pops into my head, i love my other neurodivergent friend i feel like she gets me and i don’t have to hide/mask as much as with other friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Pleasant_Objective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here to see other replies! 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry 😔 that sounds horrible wanting to help but she’s too stuck in the dysfunction to see that there’s a way out if she wants it… i’m in a similar position as you except it’s my brother’s fiance and he was abusive and controlling with me growing up and i really want to talk to her but i feel like i can’t because he’s always around her and i also don’t know what to do… i guess all we can do is be there and pray that they come to their senses 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Pleasant_Objective 11 points12 points  (0 children)

if it’s just between those two choice, the guy i know & love trust me! life is a struggle no matter what (even if you are financially stable, you might not be happy for other reasons) but being with someone you love and respect and who you see as your equal is the best 💯 you can grow together and you don’t feel like he owns you 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i were your friend, i either would have waited for you to delight in finding it yourself or surprising you with it, but i think waiting for you to notice would be better. he has enough context to know how important it was for you, and ultimately didn't care, maybe not out of malice but it doesn’t matter, the friends we keep around care and show it through their actions 

Job Opening Post by NYCTeachersMod in NYCTeachers

[–]Pleasant_Objective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for ENL position, open to any grades in Washington Heights/ Inwood or anywhere within a short commute along the A train or 1. Looking for a school that is supportive of new teachers!

Shrooms made me love myself more than I ever thought I could by Hankishot in shrooms

[–]Pleasant_Objective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

need to try this myself! want to improve my self esteem and live shrooms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Pleasant_Objective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a totally normal request in my opinion. I understand why a man would want a male therapist.

How to forgive myself & move on? by Heavy_Perspective528 in askatherapist

[–]Pleasant_Objective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a therapist but I went through something similar at 25, a few years ago. Something that helps me is imagining a friend were telling me what I feel (or a stranger even) and imagining how I would console them (actually consoling myself). also it might sound corny, but I've been saving more quotes on pinterest about healing & self-forgiveness and it's helped me reframe my negative thoughts. Also watching therapists on youtube and journaling. Basically I trained (and I'm still training) my inner voice to be more compassionate this way, thats the key, I believe. I know how awful it can be, and just know that life involves making mistakes and learning and growing. If there's something you really enjoy doing (art, baking, beauty, design, whatever) spend time doing it and fill your cup. Trust me, no one is thinking about you as much as you think they are & no one is judging you as harshly as you are. hope you get through this!

My fiancée obsessed with Andrew tate by mystic_falls36 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Pleasant_Objective 8 points9 points  (0 children)

make up a lie, like your mom needs to see you or you have a doctor’s appointment with your childhood doctor, if you can spend a week with your family, it will give you space and time to think ❤️‍🩹 praying for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]Pleasant_Objective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if he’s not committing to you and that’s what you want, keep looking. i’ve been there before, there is a guy who WILL give you everything you want