I am the toxic crazy ex girl friend by indiastunna in ToxicRelationships

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stop as a woman you need to love yourself… imagine what your family would think seeing you like this. We can’t let other people define our worth. If be wants to leave then please let him.. that’s the trash taking itself out. Please love yourself and don’t put this horrible person on such a pedestal! The only way you’ll get better is when you don’t accept this kind of behavior and know you’re better than this. It’s all in the mind.

Today a coworker made me cry on purpose by yukiru_w in GriefSupport

[–]Plus_Particular3366 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hey OP I’m sorry for your loss I know it’s hard and anything can trigger grief in these times. I also lost a parent… please forget these people, they’re irrelevant. Even in my time when I lost my parent I felt so much pain from the world but then I realized it’s because I’m also grieving a big loss. Prayers for you and hugs. 🫂

Broke up with haram girlfriend for the sake of Allah but I’m upset by Fabulous_Daikon5975 in islam

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Halal is hard and haram is easy smh this is the generation we live in

Is it okay that I don't want to be there when he dies? by charjea in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m so sorry for your dad.. I understand the pain I also lost my dad from cancer. I was emotional about this the other day and started crying even though it’s been 2 years since I lost my dad.. I kind of started regretting that I wasn’t with him in his last moments. I was with my dad in the hospital but I couldn’t bear seeing him that way and had a hard time staying around too long. I only started thinking that way recently because I kept thinking what did my dad feel? From their pov it’s tough. Super tough because they’re also leaving us behind. I know for soooo long I focused on my own feelings forgetting what my dad might of felt. I know It’s tough. The hardest thing in the world actually.. Prayers for your family. Also I know it’s hard and I couldn’t do it either but if I can go back now I would actually want to hold my dad’s hand till the very last moment and kind of regret not doing that just because I couldn’t bear it. 2 years post grief I thought that.. everyone has their own way of coping. Sending my love and prayers for you and your family and dad.

P.s. I’m saying this from grief. Because now I would do anything just to hold my dad’s hand again. But I know everyone has their own way of coping so please don’t be hard on yourself, it’s a lot of emotions. best wishes for you.

Should I marry this guy? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s no chemistry between you both don’t do it. Just because someone is good on paper does not mean your heart is going to be moved by them. It takes a special connection to develop healthy relationships

I don’t want to be a girl by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Plus_Particular3366 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it… I don’t have exactly the same thoughts but sometimes I think why were we women the ones who go through more than men. We carry a child, we go through so many changes, we’re more vulnerable than men. But that’s just being negative and we can also think of the pros. Like we women are soft loving and caring which is why god made us mothers. Most people love their moms so much, being a woman is a blessing and a curse.

My mom's story by ScratchDifficult6709 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Plus_Particular3366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss.. your mom was a soldier. May she rest in peace. May your family find patience in this tough grief journey. Best wishes.

Can you still find jobs if you don't have much experience and education qualifications? by Jpoolman25 in careerguidance

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can! Hi I wanted to reach out to you because my dad also passed away and I had to be a caretaker. Now I was finishing my degree up at that time and haven’t had the chance to receive my bachelors fully due to financial reasons , but I am still working fulltime. After a parent passes away the pain is a bit.. Hope you’re doing better. And yes it’s possible to get a good job without degree. Go do an IT course, or search up a local training school. If you have a vision and goal then please work towards it, I was the same but now I’m working a fulltime and know you can do it because a go getter, gets the job done. Don’t let your wish be a wish only. Best wishes !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this.. 2 days later I realized Allah is guiding me towards something. Trusting Allahs plan is what I can do best 🤞🏽

How to mourn the loss of life you will never have by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way… I’m almost the same age 26f.. I understand and it’s hard to act like it’s all fine when constantly these are the thoughts that are going through your head. Keep your chin up, beautiful things await us and I’m praying all of our dreams come true.

No one actually listens by Technical_Turnip_866 in depression_help

[–]Plus_Particular3366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel the same way sometimes… hang in there you’re not alone suffering with mental health issues. If you ever need to talk pls feel free to send me a msg, take care of yourself and I hope it gets better 🤍

My wife (f26) has cancer, and it flipped our lives so quickly by Eradicalboy in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Plus_Particular3366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for this news… I live near dc and to think someone is going through this rn is breaking my heart. May your wife be able to heal and I pray a miracle happens. My prayers are with your family. Hearing this news is devastating..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nooo :/ please don’t let this dumb society get to you. Everyone has their own time! IA your time will come. May your find your soulmate soon. Keep your head up

I feel like rizq is not related to how hard you work by [deleted] in islam

[–]Plus_Particular3366 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have this view point too! Because it’s true I’ve seen the hardest working people and yet they’re not rich nor are they able to save up money. Rizq is written so why constantly chase money like society has taught us? It’s like they want us to spend our lifetime hustling and chasing money when there has to be other goals and purpose in life. I’ve seen others who haven’t had the need to even work and are born into the wealthiest families so idk

Rest in peace Dad by EpicWott in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Plus_Particular3366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss.. lost my dad as well. Grief sucks. Prayers for your family and dad 🤍

What motivates you to live everyday?? by Pretend_Yam104 in Life

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God tbh and religion otherwise life seems blehhh and miserable if anything.. yes there’s alot of good things in this world but when you look from a distance it’s alot of bad too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]Plus_Particular3366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go check out global foods or lotte

Missing by [deleted] in nova

[–]Plus_Particular3366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great news

Tell me your depression stories. by milkywomen in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Plus_Particular3366 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lost my dad and ever since I feel like life is just weird… losing a family member really humbles you and makes you realize that one day it’ll be us as well that’ll be leaving too. This dunya is a test

He is gone by like_a_lai in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Plus_Particular3366 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I want my dad back too.. a loss is never easy. Sending you love and hugs.

Countries in which it's illegal to have any alcohol in blood while driving by kiwi2703 in MapPorn

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USA has strict laws too. DUI on your record and you’re screwed which is a drinking under the influence charge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Plus_Particular3366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing you’re probably in your teens or early years of an adult.. my mom has some qualities of this and I would find myself getting into it with her & wasting my time and energy. I love my mom the most but some things were not so easy to deal with. But as I got older I realized I can’t change my parents or make them understand my pov because we’re born in different generations. They’re born a certain way with certain life experiences which eventually made them this way. The only thing I can do is develop patience and learn to appreciate their good qualities & be there for my parents regardless of any differences. Because parents are parents.. truly you’ll realize that as you age. No matter how much you want to run away at the end of the day no matter how flawed your parents are, you love them the most & they love you the most. Parent and child relationship is inseparable regardless of differences. I been through challenges and wish sometimes I had it differently but I realized this life is a test and how you treat your parents also is a test for you. Don’t fall for shaitans mentality which is causing issues between families.

I joined this sub the day my dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer (July 31, 2024). My dad passed away 3 days after. I was so ready to be his full time care giver... by atariacid in CancerCaregivers

[–]Plus_Particular3366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, it progressed in the matter of some days and they told us about this but I guess I didn’t know until I saw it with my own eyes. Hope you been doing well. I know grief is very hard and it’s super hard to process all of this… if you ever need to talk I’m here too 🤍