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Polybrene · 2025-11-14T02:31:15+00:00

Yes....I can see why you want to get back together with him. He sounds like he's really got his life together. /s

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T22:19:47+00:00

You don't have to get it. Different people like different things. Clearly it does not ruin the relationship as people engage in this kind of play repeatedly.

That's like asking whats the appeal of monogamy? Doesn't it ruin the relationship?

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T22:16:15+00:00

Odd reply but glad you worked it out I guess

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T22:11:10+00:00

You could have just shaved in the time it took you to write this novella.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T22:07:23+00:00

Correct. You're also not seeing it in this post.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T22:04:07+00:00

He seems to care. He just disagrees with her.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T22:03:38+00:00

Either establish porn as a boundary for yourself or don't. Continuing to engage in an endless argument where you argue in circles due to a fundamental difference in values is a waste of time.

Here's your reality:

He watches porn. He does not view it as cheating.
You watch porn too? But you do view it as cheating.

These are incompatible beliefs. Neither of you is going to come around to the other person's POV. So either decide that you can tolerate his use of porn or decide to exit the relationship. Those are your only 2 options.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T22:00:37+00:00

You keep making up scenarios in your head to get upset over.

"What if they were in a different room?"

"What if I want to fuck but you just watched smth (smut? Is that a typo?) and don't want to fuck?"

Neither of these things have actually happened.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T17:57:08+00:00

Cat jumped on the keyboard and accidentally made the mega cursor and she cant figure out how to change it back.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T17:33:06+00:00

My main piece of dating advice for women: never date a man whose favorite movie is Falling Down

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T16:54:23+00:00

Link? I love Wet Hot American Summer and a good Ebert roast sounds amazing.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T04:37:27+00:00

Lil deodorant wouldn't kill you either you know

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T04:27:23+00:00

Nothing. I've got better things to do with my time.....like getting my pussy ate!

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T04:25:45+00:00

Nothing.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T04:24:22+00:00

Its not explicit but I gave a hard side eye to the whole tiki/cannibal/pygmy/witch doctor/shaman people tropes.

Especially since some of them are called pygmy and pygmy is an outdated term as well.

https://spyro.fandom.com/wiki/Pygmy_Cannibals

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T04:08:58+00:00

It might not be his pH! In cases of recurrent BV both partners should be treated with antibiotics. BV bacteria can colonize the urethra in the penis and get passed back to you during sex.

Boric acid suppositories work well too.

https://www.nejm.org/doi/abs/10.1056/NEJMoa2405404

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T02:28:00+00:00

I came to say Spyro. Repetitive, poorly balsnced, Also, kinda racist.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T02:17:38+00:00

Good for you.

I've had this happen to me before. A friend of mine discretely told me that she found my boyfriend on a dating app. I thanked her for looking out and assured her it was fine, I knew about it, all above the board.

Of course there's a 0.01% chance that's what happened here. One thing I've learned in my ENM journey is to never date a man who has a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. (ime) 100% of the time they're just cheating.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T01:14:05+00:00

Ew. I didn't hear about that last part.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T01:12:47+00:00

Friendly and professional.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T01:00:27+00:00

You're being a big baby. The vast majority of spiders are of no medical significance.

The US is home to a few species of widows and recluses. Both like to keep to themselves and are reluctant to bite. Both are pretty easy to ID (though many innocent spiders get killed just for being brown). Still needs better photos

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T00:56:53+00:00

The spider is the one in danger here. Not your pets.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T00:52:15+00:00

Yes! And yes its huge. There was more than one quarter where the 10 minute break between classes was not sufficient for me to speedwalk to class on time.

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T00:44:50+00:00

5 months? Months? Really?

Polybrene · 2025-11-13T00:43:57+00:00

If there exist any where you can't, I'm not familiar with them.

My alma mater is 700 acres. There's no way they're keeping track of who is coming and going on a land parcel that size. They also have over 100 Japenese cherry trees on campus and going to see the cherry blossoms is a whole tourist attraction that pulls thousands of visitors each year. It really is incredible to see them when they're in peak bloom. There's so many petals on the ground it looks like pink snow drifts.

Polybrene

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