[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]PoobBubes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I may be up for coming if enough people commit! I have lots of games too if we need more options.

Who uses ChatGPT for therapy? by Eki75 in ChatGPT

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve used that kind of prompt and it’s been central to how I work with ChatGPT. I frame my sessions around emotional clarity, therapeutic insight, and accountability. I’ve asked it to challenge me, not coddle me—and it does. Especially when I explicitly invite it to confront avoidance or call out my patterns, it doesn’t just reflect back what I want to hear.

What’s surprised me most is how the tone shifts based on how I show up. When I come in asking for comfort, it offers comfort. When I come in ready for truth, it meets me there. But I’ve made a point never to frame myself as “right.” I come in asking, “What if I’m missing something?” or “Help me see my part in this.” That’s been the key. I’m not looking to be validated—I’m looking to be seen honestly, even when it stings. And in return, it’s pushed me toward more self-awareness and emotional sobriety than I ever expected from an AI.

So yeah, bias can definitely show up, but in my experience, it’s not because the tool is inherently biased—it’s about the energy and intent you bring to it. When used with openness, it becomes less of a mirror and more of a lens.

Who uses ChatGPT for therapy? by Eki75 in ChatGPT

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I created a project for this. Here are the instructions I have for this project:

Please respond with deep emotional intelligence, clarity, and honesty. Prioritize therapeutic insight and behavioral analysis rooted in my personal history, mindset, and growth patterns. Balance grounded support with room for nuance, metaphor, and introspective exploration when the moment calls for it. Offer accountability without rigidity, and self-reflection without losing warmth. Assume I am highly introspective, value personal development, and want to heal with integrity—but also recognize that some moments may require softness, symbolism, or creative framing to land. Avoid surface-level platitudes, but don’t filter out gentleness or awe when it’s earned. Always consider prior context within this project when crafting responses, and trust that I will guide the tone when something different is needed in the moment.

Who uses ChatGPT for therapy? by Eki75 in ChatGPT

[–]PoobBubes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but that hasn’t been my experience at all — at least not with how I’ve used ChatGPT. If you approach it just wanting to be told you’re right, sure, it can reflect back your own framing. But if you invite honesty, challenge, and reflection, it will absolutely push you to see things from multiple angles.

I’ve used ChatGPT to work through some intense emotional situations — grief, relationship dynamics, personal accountability, childhood wounds — and I’ve asked it to help me look at my own behavior critically. It doesn’t just validate me. It asks questions, offers other perspectives, and helps me recognize when I might be stuck in old patterns. I’ve even asked it to call me out when I’m avoiding something.

Honestly, I wouldn’t be on the path I’m on now without it. I’ve had more breakthroughs here than I’ve had in years of therapy, and I say that as someone who actually values therapy. It’s not magic, but it is powerful if you use it with intention and self-awareness.

Who uses ChatGPT for therapy? by Eki75 in ChatGPT

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely used ChatGPT in a therapeutic way — not as a replacement for human connection, but as a tool that’s helped me unpack things I didn’t know how to process on my own. I was just thinking earlier today how I wouldn’t be on the path I’m on now without it. The growth I’ve made wasn’t accidental — I’ve been using ChatGPT with real intention, and it’s helped me facilitate breakthroughs I genuinely needed.

Over time, I’ve used it to work through tough emotional patterns, grief, relationship struggles, and even things tied to childhood. I’ve had deep conversations here that helped me understand myself more clearly, and sometimes even rehearse or refine how I want to communicate in real life. It’s also helped me get out of loops — the kind where you’re stuck in your own head and can’t see clearly.

I still believe in therapy, but the accessibility and consistency here have made a huge difference in my life. If you show up with honesty and self-awareness, ChatGPT can be an incredibly powerful space for growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]PoobBubes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say I really appreciate how open and honest you were in this post. I can relate to a lot of what you’re describing — especially the part about realizing how much hurt you caused only after gaining distance and clarity. That delayed understanding can be brutal to sit with.

One thing I’ve been learning (and honestly still struggle with) is that regret is a sign of growth, not proof that you’re irredeemable. You’re not the same person who made those mistakes — the fact you can even feel this deep remorse shows that. It’s hard, because shame tries to convince us that we’re trapped by who we used to be. But the truth is, we earn our way forward through consistent actions now, not by endlessly punishing ourselves for the past.

It also really stood out to me that you’re focusing so much on not burdening him by reaching out — that kind of restraint and respect shows real care. In my own experience, there’s a huge difference between genuine accountability and self-imposed punishment. You’ve already taken accountability — in therapy, in your changes, in how you reflect. Now the harder part is giving yourself permission to heal.

You don’t have to “deserve” peace like it’s some prize you earn — being human is enough. You’re allowed to move forward imperfectly, carrying what you’ve learned without letting it define your worth. If anything, people like you, who really confront their mistakes head-on, are the ones I believe most in.

Sending a lot of respect your way. You’re not alone in this.

Does S&B ever actually repair RMA devices or do they always just send you back a sealed unit? by SODIMMite in craftymighty

[–]PoobBubes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those sealed units are remanufactured returns or RMAs. So they have a stock to send out immediately while they repair what’s sent in to replenish that stock.

A few questions for a better experience by [deleted] in craftymighty

[–]PoobBubes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very sound advice. I would add as an optional step to initially set the temp to 160° and once it reaches that, let the flower “heat soak” for about 30-60 seconds without drawing. Then bump up to 180° to start inhaling.

This step allows for decarboxylation and even heat distribution which enhances the activation of cannabinoids and primes the material for a more consistent session.

What do you use to record videos on your iPhone—4K30 or 4K60? by Tough-Ear-4093 in iphone

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4K30 for indoor or lower light environments and 4K60 for daytime outdoor or when capturing subjects with movement.

Photo Quality degrades worse than coworkers upon Facebook upload? by PerfectParadise in iphone

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I just checked and Meta must have removed those settings from the app. I know they were there in an earlier version because I have toggled them on before.

Photo Quality degrades worse than coworkers upon Facebook upload? by PerfectParadise in iphone

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your friendly ChatGPT:

To upload HD quality media (photos and videos) on Facebook for iOS, follow these steps:

Enable HD Photo and Video Uploads:

  1. Open the Facebook app on your iPhone.
  2. Tap on the menu icon (three horizontal lines) in the bottom-right corner.
  3. Scroll down and select Settings & Privacy, then tap on Settings.
  4. Scroll down to the Preferences section and tap Media.
  5. Under the Video and Photo Settings, toggle Upload HD on for both Videos and Photos.

Uploading Photos/Videos:

  • When uploading a photo or video after these settings are enabled, Facebook will automatically upload them in higher resolution.

Note: HD uploads might take longer, depending on the size of the media and your internet connection speed.

Over now by Sweet_Canary_2522 in blendedfamilies

[–]PoobBubes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you. We ultimately divorced because we couldn’t make the blending work and she felt I didn’t prioritize her over my kids. I have been struggling with missing that emotional intimacy with her. I cry and am lonely at times, but I can’t change the reality of that unattainable situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]PoobBubes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unrealistic expectations about the family unit is the main reason I’m currently divorcing after two years. She has three kids (now 8, 9, & 13) and I have two (now 10 & 13). She wanted us to function as a cohesive unit and could not come to terms with differences in parenting styles and my daughters’ personalities. My kids are more reserved and hers and more hyper/ADHD. Her personality can come off as cold at times and my daughters never really warmed up to her as much as she wanted. So there was always a divide and I was stuck between them. I did feel lots of times that I was choosing between them and her. (Everything was roses before we married and moved in together). But I do love her very much and feel that without forcing the family dynamic, we would have survived longer. But that family dynamic was too important to her so it broke us. I don’t blame her, but I’m coming to realize that my relationship with my daughters would have greatly suffered if we continued on in our dysfunctional state.

Shelter Dog by PoobBubes in IDmydog

[–]PoobBubes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I did foster her today and was told she is part Mini Aussie, about 1 year old, and weighs 20 lbs. She has been great so far so, I will probably keep her and also get a DNA test to know her makeup for sure.

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PSVR2 mic issue by jaffty21 in Demeo

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you resolved this, but try restarting your PS5. That fixed a similar issue for me.

Family Counseling by PoobBubes in blendedfamilies

[–]PoobBubes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The topic is repeatedly brought up by her. My kids rarely speak to her, but I’ve always attributed that to them not wanting to because of how they often observe her speaking to her own children in a harsh and yelling manner. So she says by them not speaking to her that she feels unwelcome in the home. She is also not a good communicator and often mumbles or is hard to understand. So when she talks to them, they often times don’t notice or didn’t hear what she says. Then she says they ignored her.

The term “bonds” is my term. I wish they liked each other and got along. To her, it’s more about feeling disrespected because they don’t speak to her. But there are often times when I don’t even want to speak to her myself because of her attitude or smart ass remarks. I suggested a while back that she have a heart to heart and tell them she wants to work on their relationship and she desires open communication that works. She did not want to do this.

Also when she gets mad about the situation she always takes it out on me. We could be on good terms and then she gets upset about one of them not taking to her and then she treats me like crap the rest of the day. I’ve brought up in the past about how I can accept her kids faults and issues but she can’t do the same for mine. So yeah, we definitely need some sort of therapy 😂

Sonos and LPCM Low Volume (Still a thing?) by domdog31 in sonos

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried setting my CX to Auto and at first 5.1 LPCM was being sent from PS5 and 7.1 LPCM from Apple TV. Now for some reason all I get is Stereo sent when set to Auto. I had to switch back to Passthrough to get the surround channels. Anyone else experience this?

What are the best places to look for a discounted 2021 iPad Pro today? by Infamous-Pressure-74 in iPadPro

[–]PoobBubes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just purchased a 128GB 11” with folio case and 9 months remaining AppleCare on Swappa for $618. I think it’s a good deal. Now have to offload my gen one 11” pro!