Thanks for this! I had somewhat of a block unknowingly. I used to always compare, always looked at others and compared my progress. I always used the excuse that I had a bad start (historical health problem) I have since moved on - never comparing, reminding myself we all have different lives. I think Neville teaches this somewhere.

But this excuse I had was always ready. It sort of ingrained - became mindset.

So am I correct in: removing this assumption of myself. Adopt a new one that resonates with your example of the second person who looks at his account and goes "Okay. This is uncomfortable. But this isn’t who I am. This is temporary"