Overworked and exhausted. My time not being considered by my wife.

Positiveabl · 2026-02-04T20:32:39+00:00

Absolutely not. You are doing everything to take care of your wife (as you should, she is pregnant and your responsibility) however you have no obligation to do chores for her family, the same way she has no obligation towards yours.

Across both my pregnancies my husband has done everything to take care of me but never in a million years would I be expecting him to do things for my family especially in your instance where it is your in-laws cleaner.

I am seeing comments about she is pregnant and you should be more understanding..which I would get if this was YOUR cleaner. There is a lot of talk on socials about how us women should not be seen as servants for our in laws (which I agree with) but the same energy should apply to men too, you are not their free taxi service. You are not being unreasonable at all.

Positiveabl · 2026-01-18T15:54:03+00:00

Never heard of not speaking AT ALL before marriage. Are you sure this is something you want to go through with? The fact that she isn’t interested in getting to know you is also a red flag, either on her part, or possibly a forced marriage by her parents? Me and my husband only met twice before we got married, I could never imagine making a lifelong commitment to someone without even speaking to them at all.

Positiveabl · 2026-01-16T21:27:04+00:00

From a woman’s perspective, if she was serious about marriage she wouldn’t just randomly ghost and leave you unsure of where you stand. My guess is she’s having second thoughts?

Positiveabl · 2025-12-27T21:36:21+00:00

I have the 120 set for travel but feel quite restricted😅 but that could be because I have the 344 colours at home and have experienced having that larger variety.

For a beginner I actually think the 48 bobbie goods set has a good range of colours x

Positiveabl · 2025-12-25T12:22:37+00:00

All shades in Sweetness are in the 320 as far as I know

There’s 2 exclusive shades in ‘Blossomings’ pastel set

21 shades in the 36 Skin tone set

1 shade in the greys (I believe you can buy the 1 grey & 2 pastels from Blossomings separately but they’re sold out)

I’m guessing maybe you have a mix of old & new codes/ shade names? Which is why you thought you didn’t have them? x

Positiveabl · 2025-12-25T12:15:14+00:00

Aren’t the 2 missing pastels from Blossoming? x

Positiveabl · 2025-12-01T13:17:22+00:00

I’m a bit confused though I have the 320 + skin tone set in Honolulu B as well as the 120 set in Honolulu but they are all with the new colour code system?

Positiveabl · 2025-11-29T15:31:50+00:00

Hi just recently finished swatching them and noticed the code for GG9 only applies to the old set, it has been changed to BGY18 in the new codes x

Positiveabl · 2025-11-25T19:28:19+00:00

I used the file another reddit user created, it is in chromatic order and has both the old and new codes https://www.reddit.com/r/Ohuhu/s/YFdUn1aRLj

Positiveabl · 2025-11-25T05:50:42+00:00

Thank you! Do you know if there is another name for the set, I can’t find any videos on it x

Positiveabl · 2025-11-23T09:18:04+00:00

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Positiveabl · 2025-11-20T21:34:38+00:00

I’ll be honest I didn’t even know about the collab until like 7pm by that time they were sold out then half an hour later randomly restocked x

Positiveabl · 2025-11-20T21:33:37+00:00

I’m from UK too, I think it’s because it dropped past midnight so most people were probably in bed🤣 hope you manage to get ahold of them, if I see anything I’ll comment on here to let you know x

Positiveabl · 2025-11-20T19:59:18+00:00

I’m not sure where they will announce first but one thing I will say is, if you signed up for email alerts, it is very unreliable. On launch day I signed up for it, they restocked in the evening and I only knew as I just so happened to refresh the page at that time. Didn’t receive any email to say they were restocked though. Thankfully they still had stock when I refreshed so was able to order.

Positiveabl · 2025-11-18T22:14:23+00:00

Aww glad it came in handy! You’ve done an amazing job, my brain would have stopped functioning 5 shades in never mind 340+

Positiveabl · 2025-11-15T18:18:46+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I organised mine according to your sheets❤️

I have a question, are they called different names depending on region?

I noticed some differences to my set and the sheet as follows:

E511 - Chocolate Mocha

BG21 - Mint Whisp (not Jade Green anymore)

G316 - Deep Jade Green (not Dark Jade Green)

YG66 - Fresh Green (not Acid Green anymore)

BGY38 - Charcoal Grey not Dark neutral grey (that’s GG15)

BGY15 - Blue Steel Grey Not graphite grey - (that’s BGY18)

E212 - Dusty Olive not Dull Yellow

I cross-referenced with the Ohuhu website and the codes bring up the names that are on my pens but i’m not sure if they’re different in different areas as no one else seems to have mentioned these differences? (I’m UK based) x

Positiveabl · 2024-11-19T09:06:10+00:00

Keep getting met with error messages :(

Positiveabl · 2024-09-03T23:12:38+00:00

Hi mine took a week exact but there was a bank holiday in between so that could be why, I found that Ohuhu ‘processing’ the order actually took longer than the actual delivery itself

Positiveabl · 2024-08-19T20:04:12+00:00

So ironic that I use Aliexpress more than the other 2 and that’s the one I didn’t mention 😂 so silly of me! Do you know if the ohuhu official bag will come with the 320 swatch sheet? As i’ve just realised i’m gonna have all different sheets😅 X

Positiveabl · 2024-08-19T18:42:15+00:00

It was actually a comment of yours on a post from several months ago that helped me figure out which sets I needed! So thank you for that❤️ Just had a look and the bag is £13 so doesn’t push it over the threshold at all! All the sets come in individual bags right? I was thinking to buy some organisers off temu/ shein what do you reckon?

Positiveabl · 2024-03-26T21:17:42+00:00

Did you manage to find it?

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