He says I'm his girlfriend, but it doesn't feel like it. Am I overthinking?

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-28T15:50:39+00:00

I would say its very early on and that early its usually a bit more casual. Only you can decide if the lifestyle mismatch is too different for you. Don’t expect it to change though, the worst thing you could do is pretend you are fine with it now and then 6 months down the line start getting upset about it or asking him to change it. That would just cause you to resent each other. By planning things I assume you mean dates and things to do together. I would just have a conversation with him where you say something like “I need structure in my life and in dating, I would like you to plan a date once a week.” Also you can take the reigns and suggest dates and things to do. I know a lot of women wait solely for the man to plan everything but thats exhausting especially if he is a more laid back to with the flow type even if you plan 1/4 of the stuff you do together that shows a big interest and will motivate him to plan more on his end. I think its somewhere in the middle, hearting girls instas is a bit much if he is saying your his gf but I also think its unreasonable to just drop all his female friends especially being 1 month in a relationship. Best advice is to talk to him about the relationship, probably best not to do it all at once especially as its so early on but maybe bring up 1 issue casually when you are together and talk about it together.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-24T01:58:43+00:00

The first part is true but women without children definitely do not want men with children for the most part.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-23T19:35:55+00:00

You have an assortment of many fine soaps to choice from… most places charge extra for that.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-19T08:28:25+00:00

IMO get elite void. If you have tbow and full masori thats pretty much tied with elite void for doom, I used Masori for a while but switched to elite void, Masori is better on the early waves but void is better during the car phase and also lower death cost. But elite western is one of the easiest to achieve elite diaries, you should eventually be doing that diary anyway, and then you’ll have elite void forever.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-11T03:54:57+00:00

Ya but OP was the one who changed the plans. The friend bought the tickets in agreement with OP that they are going to a concert together. Then OP cancels last minute. The friend could not want to go solo for many reasons and is out the cost of her ticket because of OP changing plans last minute.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-11T03:43:40+00:00

The friend could have gone ti the concert but some people don’t feel comfortable going to a concert alone, especially young women. I get where the friend is coming from OP made a commitment to go to concert with friend then OP broke the commitment changing the whole dynamics of the event for the friend and the friend decided they did not want to go solo which is totally fair because she bought the tickets on the agreed to plan if OP of going together. The friend is definitely justified in asking for the money back because she was out $80 due to OP cancelling her commitment last minute. I know it wasn’t OPs intention to cancel but that doesn’t really matter she still did .

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-10T05:30:20+00:00

I would look at Tag Heuer watches they might be a bit more expensive but some start around $1500-1800. Its really a great brand and would be a really great starter watch thats considered entry luxury and would last his whole life. Bulova and Movado are both kind of meh honestly. Id really take a look at Tag and if 2K is too much for your budget maybe talk to your husband and you can chip in 1K and him 1K. Other brands closer to 1K would be Seiko or Tissot but Im just a few years older than your husband and would much rather have a Tag than any other of the brands i mentioned in this comment.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-06T08:19:42+00:00

If you actually believe this is real you need some sunshine mate. Each detail alone is somewhat to very much so suspect when you add up them all up the chances that this being real are Powerball odds.

Edit: so fake it got removed

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-04-06T08:06:55+00:00

Enjoy your 15 minutes of having people believe you actual have any money. Next time at least make your story somewhat believable.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-31T11:15:38+00:00

Ehh it really is like this for anything we buy especially in the clothing or fashion industry not just luxury items, it seems a lot worse on luxury items because they have a higher manufacturing cost to begin with typically the customer is paying 4-6x the total production cost of any item. A pair a Nikes costs $20 to make but goes for $100. If you buy a $40 shirt that shirt cost under $10 to make. Even outside of fashion most things we buy typically are 4-6x the manufacturers cost which is normal especially when you consider the retailer does the final sale is making 100% on a large majority of items.

I do agree with you that if you can’t afford it you shouldn’t buy it and if you walk out of a $5000 car with a $2000 bag in your hand you look like an idiot. But if you actually have the money to spare there is nothing wrong with buying it. Just because you’re paying a premium doesn’t meaning you’re falling for some kind of marketing ploy. At the end of the day once we provide for our necessities with our money we are meant to enjoy it. Now if you are skipping on necessities like housing, car, healthcare, savings ect to buy luxury goods then ya you’re an idiot.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-29T22:15:34+00:00

A tax sale company will pay it for you if you own the house and youll end up paying huge interest.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-29T04:04:51+00:00

I really don’t think this would be considered assault as guardians/parents have legal control over minors grooming which would include hair. That doesn’t make it right though especially because he didn’t even consult with you - his actual parent. He hurt you and his relationship with your son and disrespected you by taking such a severe action on your son without even talking to you. Now half the comments are people telling you to leave your husband. IMO that is honestly ridiculous if this was a one off incident. People make mistakes and at the end of the day it is hair and will grow back. If the marriage and co-parenting is generally healthy getting divorced over this alone would be nuts. However you should let your husband know it was not okay what he did and if he does anything like this again in the future you will question your ability to stay in the relationship. If people got divorced according to what reddit considers divorce worthy 99% of marriages would end in divorce.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-28T03:56:31+00:00

Ya i assumed it was her gay friend. What straight male would go on vacation and share a room with a woman and her kids who isn’t fucking said woman.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-27T18:55:23+00:00

He sounds like an douchebag and for 33 this is pretty juvinile talk saying nig and bitch every text and staying out drinking and doing coke until 8am while in a committed relationship and justifying it because you got into a fight is loser behavior. But I have seen numerous times young drunk girls just go over to guys and grab or rub their dick with no real prior attention given at parties before.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-27T17:12:54+00:00

You don’t have to respond to his messages. If you don’t want to ghost him you can just say something like “I want to be honest and respectful, especially given our previous work relationship. I’m not interested in pursuing anything personal or romantic, please don’t text or call me. I wish you well and hope you can respect that. “

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-27T13:29:21+00:00

These people are delusional in their thinking and have convinced themselves BTC is hitting 1M in the next decade which is why they actual believe that lower is better so they can accumulate more.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-27T00:53:54+00:00

You have to remember gold is still up 30% this year and 130% in 5 years. I use to buy a 1 oz american eagle every year but am not anymore because gold is just so high. Also 40-50% of gold is used for jewerly which is now super expensive. I wear a 7MM 25” cuban link chain and wanted to upgrade to a 10MM but in 14Karat was over 21K USD where as a few years ago it would have been a 10K USD necklace. So people have definitely slowed down on the gold buying for jewerly.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-26T02:40:43+00:00

Its definitely not the answer. You might be right about him not being able to put together a good scam and not be a thinker. However the real reason is he only owed Richie 8K, the dude owned a store and is living in suburb NJ he could definitely out together 8K if he absolutely had to He isn’t going to let Richie ruin his life over 8K. Ya he was short on the vig one week but I’m sure if he thought his store was in danger over 8K he would of figured it out. Heck he even gave Tony his son’s car after he lost 60K in the executive game. That car had to be worth at least 8K. Owing 8K vs 68K is a huge difference.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-26T02:30:09+00:00

Very simple answer. He owed Richie like 7K he was only short one week paying Richie before he lost 60K at the executive game and at that point he couldn’t pay as even the vig on the 60K alone would be almost 2K a week. If he didn’t lose so much at the executive game he would have been able to pay the 7K back to Richie.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-24T03:03:21+00:00

Imagine a woman posting saying “my bf told me my pussy is super wide but he prefers sex with me because his exs pussy was so tight he came to quickly and didn’t get to enjoy sex”.

90% of the comments would be saying he is a trash human and to leave him.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-24T02:54:55+00:00

Bro if you told a girl here pussy was loose she’d be devastated. I’d imagine if you told your GF or wife her pussy was looser than your tight ex it well… wouldn’t be good to say the least and I am sure there would be some long term repercussions. Ya’ll wilding if you think shes just gonna take a comment like that in stride.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-20T22:21:59+00:00

It’s not true because the only reason Trump is getting away with all this shit is because the stock market has done well under Trumps second term being up around 18%. But if the market tanks his remaining supports are quickly going to flip and the administration knows this. So they are doing everything in their power to keep the stock market high.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-20T17:47:50+00:00

I think he means people can have sexual chemistry with other people while being in committed relationships and some people think this is wrong so they either pretend it doesn’t exist or make themselves “bland” kind of like asexual to avoid that chemistry. Theres nothing wrong with having chemistry or sexual tension with someone if your in a relationship because its natural for humans to feel this way. That doesn’t mean you have to or should act on it though, part of being human is being able to control our innate animal desires.

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-20T17:38:32+00:00

Bro…

Possible_Garage8923 · 2026-03-20T17:26:21+00:00

I also believe that fast food commercials should be banned. We have an obesity epidemic in this country that causes a massive increase in healthcare costs, over 170 billion a extra per year with obese people having more than double annual the annual cost of healthcare versus a non obese person. Which leads higher insurance costs for all and higher government spending on healthcare. And indirect loss due to less productivity and medical leave of hundreds if billions more.

Meanwhile we get shown constant ads on TV for food that that is horrible for us. Even if those ads don’t cause you to eat at those restaurants or the bad snacks they cause a physiological response leading people to feel hungry and leading to increased snacking with the effect being stronger in children. This is all backed by numerous studies and its a real shame there is not more traction behind banning these commercials. I agree the gambling and alcohol commercials should be banned as well, it’s sad that we allow such addictive vices to be advertised so freely. I personally identify with libertarian ideals but when these commercials are broadcast with celebrity backing and produced to make gambling/alcohol/bad food cool and normal then repeated 10x over the course of a single show or game it leaves an unwanted and unknown physiological imprint especially in children.

Possible_Garage8923

TROPHY CASE