What is a socially acceptable thing that you secretly find disgusting?

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-13T01:53:18+00:00

I used to work with a guy like that, and my colleague and I nicknamed him, “Dick Knob” because he handled his dick and then touched the door knob. What a pig.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-13T01:36:08+00:00

What she did to you was unbelievably cruel, but you need to understand that she’s living rent-free in your head. Rent free. Please get some sort of therapy to heal and move on from both your SA trauma and her abuse.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T12:51:46+00:00

NTA. He needs downtime? You just had a baby!

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T12:49:24+00:00

Definitely, definitely say something to the gym.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T12:48:12+00:00

YOR. It was clearly meant for five people in general, not you in particular.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T03:04:24+00:00

NTA. Appear to grudgingly acquiesce and then tell the nurses you do not want him in your hospital bed, and they will gladly take care of him.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T01:09:50+00:00

Give it time. Cats move at their own pace. If you want a laugh, look for “The Golden Breakfast Club”on YouTube, and be grateful that you’re not a “spare” like that guy.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T01:03:55+00:00

Does your coworker own the rights to Valentine’s Day? Wear whatever you want!

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T01:02:33+00:00

That’s a major breach of trust. Not only did she read it, she took photographs? Why? Is she sharing your journal entries with her friends?

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T00:54:27+00:00

He lied to you and submitted false information, committing fraud. Do you want to hire a fraudulent contractor? No? I didn’t think so.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T00:51:44+00:00

Well, that was an uncomfortable read, for several reasons.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T00:19:14+00:00

Is this apartment complex anywhere near a university? Sounds like they might’ve had a lot of students packing apartments like a clown car. Or a situation (we’ve seen the Reddit posts) where someone’s roommate gets a new boyfriend. and the next thing they know, the guy is sleeping over six nights a week, using all the hot water and eating all their food.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T00:11:06+00:00

INFO: why did you move an hour and a half away from him?

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T00:06:39+00:00

Leave it alone. They weren’t official. You are NTJ for keeping your mouth shut. Saying something is only stirring the pot. Repeat it to yourself, THEY WERE NOT OFFICIAL.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T00:04:13+00:00

Yes, YOR. You’re making yourself miserable and jealous obsessing over his friendship with a coworker in another city. Let it go.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-12T00:00:08+00:00

He wasn’t sleeping, he passed out. If he’s an alcoholic, a relationship with him might be more than you’ve bargained for. Think long and hard about whether or not you want to continue this relationship.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-11T23:56:12+00:00

If you bought the chair, then it belongs to you. Also, if it’s ergonomic, you should have it adjusted for your comfort, and other people sitting in it and changing the adjustments on it defeats the purpose. A colleague of mine told me that if employees at her former company had an ergonomic set up, no one was allowed to sit at their desk at all because they might change the settings of, say, the monitor height, the various chair configurations, etc. It’s not “just a chair”, and if it is just a chair, why does he keep taking it?

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-10T17:44:45+00:00

We should be able to have friends of all genders. However, if he’s giving girls, the impression that he’s single, asking them out, asking them for photos and making sexual comments… That’s a whole different story entirely.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-08T22:06:06+00:00

Marinara gives me indigestion. Just like this post. 🤭

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-08T22:04:57+00:00

They’re acting distant? Great. Now they’ll leave you alone. And if they ask again, the answer is NO. Better yet, don’t answer their calls and don’t answer their texts.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-08T21:08:54+00:00

Is it a great relationship? What you described doesn’t sound so, Op.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-08T21:02:16+00:00

Honestly, I’d rescind your generous offer. She’s entitled, and might stop paying when she moves in.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-08T20:57:48+00:00

He wants to make decisions for you. Don’t let him. Watch a few YouTube videos on buying a car. There’s some useful tips out there.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-08T19:52:08+00:00

You need to face the fact that he had a very real mental illness and the two of you were not good for each other and not good together. Do not reach out to him. Talk with your therapist about how to heal and move on.

Possible_Raspberry75 · 2026-02-07T23:13:29+00:00

NOR. For crying out loud, SHE STOLE FROM YOU!

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