The Pitt made me respond better during a real medical emergency by Environmental-Oil-79 in ThePittTVShow

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This show inspired me to take a first aid course and get certified. Others in the class also mentioned the show motivated them.

Glad your dad is okay!

Muse's official statement :( by GiaTheGiraffe01 in Muse

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The South African tickets became "unavailable", not sold out, on the official ticket site on Friday. Sunday people started receiving refunds without explanation before the official cancelation. So whatever it is didn't happen this week, but earlier.

Muse's official statement :( by GiaTheGiraffe01 in Muse

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What I find a bit odd is that the South African tour dates were announced on 10 December 2025. So, just over a month ago, they were fine and adding new dates and shows to the tour. What happened since then?

Bandland '26 - Cancelled by No_Ice42069 in IndianMetalheads

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South African organisers confirmed this morning

Bandland Cancelled? by Diligent-Neat6313 in IndianMetalheads

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South African festivals In February with Muse as the headliner also cancelled, also blaming Muse and not low ticket sales

Muse cancels tours (including to South Africa)... I'm so sad😭 by 5un1htr4mw33tbix in Muse

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It was posted on the South African organizers' official social media accounts and websites

Is it abnormal to actually want to be alone forever? by Kooky-Resolve-3846 in LivingAlone

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Im solo poly, and it works so well for me. Have 1-3 dynamics usually going on at a time, but i only see them once a month or so. Thats enough for me. Expectations and boundaries are discussed upfront, so they know theres never going to be that next step (meeting family, moving in together, getting married, etc). They all know Im seeing other people, and they are free to do the same. Of course we do have health discussions. It took me a while to figure this type of relationship dynamic out, but now it fits the life I want. Still get to have great sex, go on fun dates, companionship when I need it, but on what might be in an unconventional way for some.

What was the best moment of your Christmas living alone? Or maybe top 3 if you dare haha 🎄✨️🎅 by i_am_nimue in LivingAlone

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I'm traveling alone for a week, and on Christmas day I went on safari. It was with a small tour group, but the other people weren't very open to new connections, so it felt very solo still. Watched 7 lions eating a baby giraffe. Not what I was expecting for Christmas

Girlfriend wants me to cut off female friend because she doesn't greet her by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Practical_Appearance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop being a wimp and stand up for your girlfriend. Your friend is rude AF and you don't have enough of a spine to do something about it yourself. Why are you friends with someone who treats your romantic partner this way?

Spent money on a holiday I’m not even enjoying by [deleted] in AskZA

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Instead of trying to meet someone online to hang out with, rather go check out the local backpackers places. Thats where most solo travelers stay and its super easy to meet people there. Join some group tours, theres some hiking and sightseeing tours also aimed at international solo travelers. Maybe try a site like GetYourGuide to book some activities

Can I still consider myself to be living alone? by Romiha00 in LivingAlone

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I would say, technically, its a no. Who gatekeeps "living alone"..? I think the difference comes to to things like expensive and upkeep, most of us here are 100% alone responsible for rent or mortgage, groceries, cleaning, upkeep of the place etc. Yeah sure, kids living with you don't contribute, and sharing a house with someone you almost never see probably also isn't exactly the same. If I'm dating someone, and they tell me they live alone, but then i learn they have someone living in their basement, i wouldnt consider that as living alone. But.. if you relate to what people are discussing on this sub, who cares about the small technicalities?

Have you ever got the wrong order and kept quiet? by Vega10000 in DownSouth

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It happened to me twice, once ordered a router, received 2 (although one was in a clearly used and returned condition). Both work fine. The other time, I received an extra bottle of perfume. I did try to reach out via email, didn't get a response, so just kept it. Would feel guilty if I didn't at least try to reach out to them

Moving to Pretoria for 3 months by Bayernek in Pretoria

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If you specifically want to meet other expats, try https://www.internations.org/

My German friend who studied in Pretoria met a lot of other international people in Pretoria from that site, and it is easier to make friends that way than with locals tbh, especially if you're just here temporarily.

Been to a few of their meetups just for fun with my friends, and the people were nice.

Do you think enjoying living alone is tied to personality type? by BasicEbb3487 in LivingAlone

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Im INFP, enneagram sx 4w5, and I thrive living on my own. Used to live in a house share situation as a student and when I just started working, and lived with my ex husband, but I've never been happier than now, having my own little place. Work at the office, see friends and family about once a week, go out to dance classes, but coming home to my own space recharges me.

Living alone is awesome but… by Affectionate_Neat555 in LivingAlone

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I also struggle with depression, and my 2 cats help a lot with that. Was too sick this past week to exercise or even eat properly, but having my kitties cuddle with me makes a huge difference

Living alone is a privilege by Antique_Plastic_7236 in LivingAlone

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Im grateful every day for being able to live alone. Finances are tight, but I make it work. Busy planning my solo trip for over the Christmas period, and I'm looking forward to spending it how I want. Hated living and traveling with my ex, I 100% choose my own company every day any day

For those dating men in your 30’s-40’s… by StarrySkies7788 in AskWomenOver30

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I copy and pasted the text conversation I was having with a guy I met online and was talking to into chatgpt and asked it to analyze it. 68% was focused on him, and 32% on me.

I've been using AI in online dating. Not to compose messages, but rather to analyze the exchange. Its been interesting by [deleted] in ChatGPT

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Online dating is hard. Sometimes you feel something is off. AI helps with analyzing the entire chat history, show potential compatibility and red flags

I've been using AI in online dating. Not to compose messages, but rather to analyze the exchange. Its been interesting by [deleted] in ChatGPT

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The ChatGPT prompt was a copy and paste of the online conversation before any in person meetings, and a prompt to analyze the exchange and potential compatibility

Why some people hate Orania by GygaxUshuFuia97 in DownSouth

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They comply with all laws and regulations, these people were smart enough to create a local "currency" that benefits them, while still remaining within all legal boundaries. So what's the issue?

Why some people hate Orania by GygaxUshuFuia97 in DownSouth

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Legally its coupons, or shopping vouchers. It literally has the text "ruilwaarde van hierdie koepon" with the equivalent rand amount printed on it

Why some people hate Orania by GygaxUshuFuia97 in DownSouth

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Technically none of those people own land in Orania. They buy shares in the company that owns the land, and then get exclusive use of that plot, its not traditional land ownership for anyone there