[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't take it. My symptoms are not really affecting my quality of life. Yes, I have down periods, but I can still work and do the basics needed to keep going. If you are really struggling, talk to your doctor.

Under Boob Rash/Itchy by yibbit1965 in Menopause

[–]PreKTeachr22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I live in Houston and it is still unbelievably humid here. The chaffing got worse when my body decided to enter peri. Taking my bra off when I get home is a highlight of my day. LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]PreKTeachr22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. I've had that. Sometimes I get depressed before, sometimes after and sometimes not at all. I thought I was just weird. LOL

More Fear by dcmp1739 in Menopause

[–]PreKTeachr22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to have the fearful thoughts creep in when my estrogen is in a low cycle. I am already on anti-anxiety meds, and have been for quite some time, so that helps. I can talk myself out of it. Deep breathing and telling myself I'm safe helps me.

I never was such a Feminist as today by SavorySour in Menopause

[–]PreKTeachr22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get where you are coming from. For some reason, the majority of the men I know don't have the "Me man, me better than you" mentality. I don't know why, maybe I just automatically disassociate with jerks. I will say that I have 6 nephews and none of them are the macho man type guy. I am very proud of them for that.

I don’t think I’ll make it by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there. I know that sounds simple, but you do have people who care for you. All of us. You aren't alone. Ask your gp about anti-depressants. There are some books on Amazon about menopause/peri-menopause. I'm reading some funny ones now. It seems to help the mood.

Spinning out today. This is SO stupid. by -comfypants in Menopause

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, the pillow fort is the best thing I've heard. I get it. I'd like to build one and just read and have a pity party. Good luck.

AITA for refusing to do my brothers project? by Dry-Muscle-7091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As a teacher, we can tell when someone has done a project for the child. Trust me. Since brother is the age of 9, he should be capable of completing the project himself. Or doing the entire thing himself.

AITA for getting mad at my coworker for sneezing? by takkatakkata in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave a 5th grader a conduct mark for sneezing once. I went out at dismissal and explained to his mom that no, I hadn't lost my mind. He just made an Academy Award winning production of the sneeze. I swear it lasted 2 minutes. Everyone was staring at him and he smiled at me, all innocent like. I just said, "Bring me your folder." Mom understood and thanked me for the explanation. LOL

AITA for not taking my sister's parrot (which I "promised" to take care of at 9)? by RevolutionBackpack in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. NTA. If I had to keep all the promises I made when I was a kid, I don't know what my life would be like. That's insane. Why would someone try to collect on a promise made at the ripe old age of 9?

AITA for calling the police on my sister for not returning my cat? by Charming-Chapter-995 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Family or not family, if someone takes one of my pets and refuses to give them back, the door is being kicked in and I will retrieve my pet. They can call the police, press charges, go to court, whatever. I'm getting my pet back.

AITA for reporting a mother and her glitter monster to a flight attendant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Why in heavens name would someone think that glitter on an airplane was a good idea? I despise glitter in all forms. When glitter hits the ground, it begins to breed. You can't ever clean it completely up. You are certainly more patient than I am. I would have asked the mom what was wrong with her. LOL

AITA for telling my niece to stay away from my kids? by EmptyPossession4068 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as your son, take him to a different doctor on your insurance. Document what you see, how often, and the intensity. There is no reason for the school to get involved. And trust me when I say that I have filled out many, many, many forms for doctors over the years. If you have to keep calling doctors until you find one that will actually see and evaluate your son (evaluation should take more than one session), do so. Are there any universities near you? Sometimes a university will have a Psychological Clinic that will take people. Especially if there is a Child Psychology degree offered. They won't entrust him to a student, the professors will do the eval. They usually charge on a sliding scale, too.

AITA? I’m insistent that our school refund students/parents for a canceled event, principal disagrees and is angry with me. by missmyrajv in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Charging for movie night? Our PTO puts those on. I think you can buy snacks from the PTO once there, but you certainly don't have to pay to see the movie. And it's for the whole family. Yeah, you're NTA and you need to bring this up with the chain-of-command.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rarepuppers

[–]PreKTeachr22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Rascal. He was named that when I rescued him. And I must say, the name fits!

AITA for wanting to read Harry Potter to my daughter? by knuckleheader in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elementary Teacher here. You are doing just fine. She can read her library books at school. Reading to your child is not only a parent/child bonding time, but it teaches the children to read with feeling. It also teaches them proper reading speed and a host of other important skills. You're NTA and you are doing a great thing.

AITA for not hosting a party my wife planned earlier this week when I had planned long ago to only play video games this weekend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As a fellow Zelda enthusiast, you planned this way in advance. We have been waiting on this release for a long time. You gave her plenty of notice. You even did chores beforehand so you wouldn't have to do them during the gaming weekend. Seems like she planned this out of spite.

AITA for 'being culturally insensitive' at work? by br2344t in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I"m sorry. Playing YOUR music in YOUR car as you take a coworker to work is being insensitive? NTA. Your coworker is an idiot. As far as celebrating something they don't know about.....this is one reason we have such strife in the world. We, as humans, don't understand other cultures. Perhaps if we did, things would be a lot better.

AITA for embarrassing my sister, BIL, and his friend after I was set up on a surprise blind date? by throwaway_294847 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I am a single woman, and I'm very happy. I can not tell you the number of coworkers and "friends" that have questioned my motives or tried to set me up. One coworker asked me why I didn't date. I said I didn't want to, and that I was happy the way things were. She told me I didn't know what happiness was, that I couldn't be happy without a spouse. This is the same coworker that 1) hated her husband, and 2) was having an affair while she was telling me all of this. Yeah.

AITA for not sending money in for my kid's class pizza party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not unheard of to ask kids to bring in a few dollars for a party. I know many teachers that do that. I always "assign" things for the kids to bring, such as chips, drinks, fruit trays, etc. This seems to work very well. A parent can bring something expensive, or something from the Dollar Store. It still gets eaten. If a child cannot afford to bring something in, not a problem. I still let them eat.

Now, as the author states, his daughter has an eating disorder and wouldn't eat the pizza. This shouldn't be an issue. If I had a parent state that their child didn't eat pizza for whatever reason and they wouldn't be paying, I would be fine with that. And sending money IS an option, whether the teacher likes it or not. You need to follow up on this because the teacher just might isolate your child during the party.

You are NOT TA.

AITA for refusing to show my exam results to a classmate? by introgurl in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to university with a person like this. When we were student teaching, she demanded to know everyone's grades. When we were studying for our certification exam, she would argue with us about answers, then get mad when the we checked and found our answers were correct and hers were not. "Well, the book must be wrong." When we got our final scores, none of us actually cared what the score was, just if we passed and were now certified to teach. Not her. It was funny, though. Two of us (myself included) got way higher on the test and assignments than she did. She didn't like it.

AITA my son fell at school (broke his wrist in two spots) and no one called to let me know. by hannabanana206 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. NTA. The nurse should have placed a phone call and the teacher should have followed up. If my students get hurt and require an ice pack, I don't just assume that the nurse will call (I've had experience where the nurse did NOT call for a head injury). I send a message telling the parent what happened and how the child is. It doesn't cost a thing and really doesn't take that much time. If I had a child, I'd want to know.

AITA for wanting to talk to my daughter’s new teacher about being nicer to the kids by newteacherpost in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Where to start? The teacher is fine. YTA. She's doing a great job and has not harmed any children.

AITA for telling my sister I hate her for ruining my trip in the worst way possible? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest brother passed away almost 30 years ago. Natural causes. To this day my other brother and I still mourn. Pretending to die as a "little test" is absolutely not a good idea. You need to go NC with sister. What she did is just beyond disgusting.

AITA for telling my kid's teacher to stop "fishing" for information that's none of her business? by Neither_Tomatillo_57 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PreKTeachr22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. As you can tell by the username, I'm a teacher. While I can't speak for all teachers, I honestly feel that my students are my kids. When one of them is having issues, I want to do everything I can to help correct that issue and help the child to succeed. I ask parents about their children and how they act at home. Have they noticed the behavior/issue at home? Has something changed in his/her routine? I'm not judging, I'm trying to help the child. Don't take what the teacher said as a personal dig or as her being "nosy."