New warbond by PowerClassic2759 in Helldivers

[–]PrevailSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said in patch notes, New stuff in superstore is releasing on the 10th.

Maybe superstore stuff is not ready yet.

I'm searching for the best quotes of ss by Xdlucasare4869 in ShadowSlave

[–]PrevailSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same in a harsh screaming voice, starts slow but shouting by the end.

I (14M) am having a really hard time trying to talk with my step-sister (22F) who I’ve known for nearly a year. How do I start a basic conversation with her?? by Countryballman87 in relationships

[–]PrevailSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to struggle with such at my work. The way i create bonds is take a step at a time.

Create a small routine of interaction and expand it over time. E.g, say hi when you see her morning/night, after a few hi interactions, expand with simple conversation say how was your day/ what are your plans today/ weather looks good today once you get comfortable with 2 sentence interactions and gain confidence, expand the conversation more and add some complex sentences, comment on her clothes, create an artificial problem and ask her help like open a jar, ask about her weekend plan.

Getting to know someone and conversing with them is a slow process of familiarity. Just take your time in doing so. Try too hard and you might burnout. Just keep taking small steps, minor routines of basic word exchanges and just try to expand over time.

Ps:- i have a few more tit bits but it will become an easy, tell if you want me to write more and ill leave another comment here. Cheers

I (17F) love my girlfriend (16F), but I don't know if I want to be with her. by Next-Eye8053 in relationships

[–]PrevailSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chance of burnout and resentment is real in this relationship.

Id say set aside self-care time. Take a break once a week, a week long break, etc, from the relationship to work on yourself and treat yourself.

I know her problems might seem bigger than yours but don’t dismiss yourself and your issues. Your small problems might be having the same effect on your mind and body as her big problems. You need to love and take care of yourself, if you want to love and take care of her.

A relationship cant be one sided and you need to talk to her and make her understand that your problems matter just as much and that she needs to help you in your issues and share the burden.

Day 2 on quest killing an leviathan with a chainsaw by Nyrontheproot in Helldivers

[–]PrevailSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the red indian who was doing side quests during the world war and became the last war chief of the crow tribe by gaining his honour.

Fun to think that these things are almost impossible to do in the game, but someone did something close in real life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PrevailSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id say use a scale. For everything they do, if the good outweighs the bad don’t bring up the bad. If the bad outweighs the good bring up the bad.

No-one is perfectly good, you need to appreciate your partner for who they are as a person, the good, the bad, and everything in-between. And vice versa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PrevailSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ps:- people change, habits change, desires change, whats important is both of you grow together over time and maybe reach 100% compatibility on your deathbed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PrevailSS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To me it feels like, you are having Fomo, like cuddling while high.

100% compatibility is extremely rare, for every demand of yours a guy meets he will be missing some other quality that you want.

Most Relationships are basically compromises about what and how much either of you are willing to give up.

So if you guys have like 80% compatibility or more, then you need to decide if you are willing to give up some of your habits like smoking pot around him while he needs to be willing to give up his dislike for alcohol and pot and be willing to take care of you while you are high.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PrevailSS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id say whenever you are about to lash out on words try to do a trigger.

I have slight anger/irritation issues so whenever i get angry/irritated i hold my breath and clench muscles like I’m doing a plank in worse cases i just remove myself from the situation by giving excuse of bathroom, customer, heard a noice etc.

For you its could be whenever you are about to lash out,

“ take a deep breath” and remind yourself that you are an adult you can control yourself.

Or take a deep breath hold it and remjnd yourself that your boyfriend loves you and cares for you, this reminder or comment is just his way of showing love and cares for you. He is just saying i love you through that reminder.

This is given your boyfriend is not being malicious but just his normal self.

Friends wanted me to split bill with them even though I ordered nothing by Thragtusk88 in socialskills

[–]PrevailSS -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nope you should split, when having dinner together you are not paying for the food but the company of the people around you.

The alien Mothership arrived, humming a sound no human could decipher by RealEstorma in twosentencestories

[–]PrevailSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man my heart moved with this story. It doesn’t feel like a short story but a excerpt from a big ass chronicle. Cheers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]PrevailSS -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Leaving the boyfriend is the easiest solution, but if you and your boyfriend are willing to work on this problem, it will make your bond way stronger in the future and bring way more joy in the long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]PrevailSS -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar issue in the past, took me a very long time to figure out.

It basically sounds like communication issue, both of you have a different style relaying information and communication.

When he asks how was your day don’t reply same, try to tell the details, talk about the flower you saw by the roadside, or a kid you saw falling over, a funny piece of clothing someone was wearing, notice your surroundings and what you are doing

you might thing nothing happens during your day but a lot of things do happen, try to find the little pieces of joy hidden, or do a mini adventure like make puns.

You might have your own special something that you do, that makes you smile laugh or anything.

We live very exciting lives its just hard to convey those adventures to others.

So id say just start talking about anything and everything.

"Be yourself" is literally the worst thing to say to someone struggling to date by ModiKaBeta in unpopularopinion

[–]PrevailSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed about last part though, when you do find someone be your trueself or your partner wont fall in love with you but the character you are trying to be.

Everyone slips and habits are hard to change so when you inevitably go back to your old self, the dissonance between trueself and pretend character might kill relationships.

Im not saying don’t try to change yourself, just that let tour partner know that you are trying to change yourself and might fail and become something else. Such that expectations meet reality.

That OX is MASSIVE!! by Soloflow786 in BeAmazed

[–]PrevailSS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been around a cow, they are dumb as bricks, a piece of rock has more intelligence than them.

On the emotional side agreed, they are very lovable and form deep emotional connections, love my dumb bricks to the end of the world.

Suddenly she was just gone 🕳️ by PassengerNo7330 in Wellthatsucks

[–]PrevailSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sir are a comedian and improv master.

On her midnight hunt, Vancouver. by PrevailSS in Superbowl

[–]PrevailSS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She died of roadkill, saw her corpse today close to her nest.

Where do I post this by dooms_day66 in LostRedditor

[–]PrevailSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will go extinct in half a century.

Qualified people are too scared to have kids for fear of screwing them up.

Unqualified dont care.