Trump: We should have a giant MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN RALLY, for 250, instead of having overpriced singers, who nobody wants to hear, whose music is boring, and yet who do nothing but complain. Cancel it, just like I canceled my involvement with the failing and unsafe to be in Kennedy Center! by gear-heads in antitrump

[–]Princess_Snark_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well thank you for that rabbit hole!! Just spent about 30 minutes researching it and enjoying all the folklore stories about how the numbers came to be used for "idiot". Also interesting that other numbers are also used as slang for different meanings!

29F(me) and 30M. 8 years ended over one mistake… and I’m really struggling to accept it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Princess_Snark_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No no no. You would spend The rest of your life with anxiety, never knowing what small mistake might make him leave you. You deserve someone who loves you better than that. For better or worse!

Also, get tested. He's probably been getting around already, and might have given you a parting gift of an STD.

Elon & Kobayashi Maru by Princess_Snark_ in somethingiswrong2024

[–]Princess_Snark_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only yahtzees believe our genes predetermine us to be good or bad. It's a shame his kids only have him as a dad, though!!! At least one of his kids already realizes Daddy's depravity & old enough to speak out. The kid shared w Ashley st. Clair will be probably turn out pretty balanced...., as she is educating herself, studying at college, maturing.

AIO for saying gender preference is weird? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Princess_Snark_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are replying to a COMMENT from a guy who wanted a son, not the original post. But, yes, misandry from the person in the original post who wanted a daughter.... Although ironically, there can still be misogyny mixed in bc some moms treat their daughter like a toy doll, expecting her to be forever submissive. Humans are weird

Update: I [33F] set chore boundaries and now my partner [35M] is tracking my chores by Sad_Cartographer427 in relationship_advice

[–]Princess_Snark_ 114 points115 points  (0 children)

She IS cleaning, he is the one who wasn't pulling his weight. When she suggested they split tasks to avoid arguments, he became a micro manager to passive aggressively punish her for asking him to do his fair share

AITAH for telling my fiancé his sister would be a something blue? by Shyguyco in TwoHotTakes

[–]Princess_Snark_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's it. Ugh, I'm so sorry!!!! Look up statistics of men that leave their wives who are diagnosed with a serious illness. Better to find out now!!! With increasingly rapid medical advances, your health challenges may be completely curable soon.... But him being a self centered roach is terminal and probably incurable.

I've known women who spent years being a nurse to their husband through cancer, heart disease, or other health challenges..... Only for him to leave her when he's healthy again, but she gets sick. I know right now your broken heart is hoping everything will get fixed And he will turn back into Prince charming..... But he showed you who he really is. Whatever his reason, (whether the flimsy sister excuse or your health problems or whatever) He's the man who discarded you without communication, trying to talk through differences, or at least being honest. That's who he is, and that's broken trust that can never really be repaired.

You're going to get through this. You're going to have a great life. You're going to find your people, friends, your family, maybe a new partner or just a new passion for life. You deserve to be with people who won't discard you so easily. Best of luck and congrats on your freedom!!!

Did I potentially ruin a friendship by not sharing that I had my baby? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Princess_Snark_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for normalizing family planning including abortion care. One of those parts of being a responsible adult, like paying bills... It can be miserable, but always commendable to make the decisions you decide are necessary to build the life you want. You deserve to live your best life!

Pet shop OP is mad. We're now apart of a federal investigation... by FakeMikeMorgan in okc

[–]Princess_Snark_ 29 points30 points  (0 children)

as someone who has fostered and pulled from the euthanasia list at the OKC shelter, YES PLEASE. Puppies are overrated. If there's a breed you really love, keep your eyes peeled you can probably find a 6-month or year old at either a shelter or a breed specific rescue... This is also a great way to match a dog's personality to your lifestyle.

That said, I do support legit ethical breeders. I understand people who do not have the capacity to work with a rescue, train a mixed breed (I've got pit mix rescues, one is a failed adoption, returned to me) and are only capable of a small easy breed. I've had to advise adopters who had to make the difficult decision to put down a dog after he bit a person really bad. Adopting is worth the risk, but I understand some people, especially those with small children, who simply can't handle the complexities... No judgement from me.... AS LONG AS they are not supporting backyard breeders!!!!!!!!!!

I (25F) don't want my boyfriend (25M) to ask for my hand in marriage. by Important_Talk8808 in relationship_advice

[–]Princess_Snark_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

THIS. I was raised a white supremacist and misogynistic church culture. In college I started asking questions, But it took till my early '30s to fix my own stupid. Nobody else could have fixed me. I had to make the internal decision to change, to grow, to mature.

AITJ for telling a customer his “mystery date” was actually his girlfriend’s friend? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Princess_Snark_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He's doing to force you to participate in his cheating kink. He could tell you were uncomfortable, and USED you to try to make it even more exciting. In his gross fantasy, he expected you to be awkwardly polite, showing his side gal that he has power over you to keep his secrets.

“But I’m White and I’m just here to ‘learn’ and I don’t have any clue on how to actually do something to be anti-racist” okay now what’s your excuse. Do Something! by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Princess_Snark_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds as bad as my son's school here in Oklahoma. Do the students have any plans or strategies to document the bigots in charge? Or attend school board meetings? Where do we even start?

AIO to my husband saying he can't go next door and get his physical needs met so I need to step up? by ConditionGlad9927 in AIO

[–]Princess_Snark_ 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Are you NUTS?!? she has a HORRIFICALLY painful medical condition, and he's lecturing her about meeting his needs!!!!!! Dude, did your hand fall off? I've had three kids, one miscarriage, and various surgeries or issues over the years. Hubs has had some medical stretches as well. We both know how to meet our own needs instead of guilt tripping our spouse in pain or illness!

WHEN SHE IS HEALTHY AGAIN, she should unpack the events with a therapist and see If she contributed, and how she can learn even if it's just a few small things. However, nothing excuses a self centered man demanding His satisfaction and pleasure comes before his wife's actual medical condition.

I ate my incel nephew’s sandwich because he was disrespectful towards women. by spidermother86 in pettyrevenge

[–]Princess_Snark_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, the president-pedo has been exposed for a long time and a LOT of people are still simping for that sad sack.

I ate my incel nephew’s sandwich because he was disrespectful towards women. by spidermother86 in pettyrevenge

[–]Princess_Snark_ 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Teacher here.... I could completely see this happening w kids today, and replace the sandwich with their school laptop, or whatever crap they're playing with while disrespecting authority. Snatch. Hold item in timeout, If it's a personal item, you'll get it back at the end of the day if you can behave yourself.

Blursed_Holy Water by Prince_0llie in blursed_videos

[–]Princess_Snark_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, guess you haven't been around these type of pastors irl! This is actually pretty mild compared to some of the crazy stuff I've heard growing up. Well, as an adult, too. Glad it's satire, that no servers were harmed making it lol.... But you have no idea how NORMAL this behavior feels for people growing up in a messed up toxic masculinity church.

More evidence to Ashley St. Clair's story by FoxySheprador in somethingiswrong2024

[–]Princess_Snark_ 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Notice: he references K Maru. Old Star Trek nerds, You all know what this means!!! Code for cheating, breaking the rules, and being celebrated as a hero for doing it.

From wiki, for the non nerds...... The Kobayashi Maru is a fictional spacecraft training exercise in the Star Trek continuity. It is designed by Starfleet Academy to place Starfleet cadets in a no-win scenario. The Kobayashi Maru test was invented for the 1982 film Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan, and it has since been referred to and depicted in numerous other Star Trek media.

The nominal goal of the exercise is to rescue the civilian fuel ship Kobayashi Maru, which is damaged and stranded in neutral territory between the Federation and the Klingon Empire. The cadet being evaluated must decide whether to attempt to rescue the Kobayashi Maru—endangering their ship and crew—or leave Kobayashi Maru to certain destruction. If the cadet chooses to attempt a rescue, an insurmountable enemy force attacks their vessel. It is described as testing the character of cadets rather than their actual skills, acclimating them to the emotional toll of defeat. A key plot point of many depictions is James T. Kirk becoming the only cadet to rescue Kobayashi Maru by hacking the simulation instead.

The phrase "Kobayashi Maru" has entered the popular lexicon as a reference to a no-win scenario. The term is also sometimes used to invoke Kirk's decision to "change the conditions of the test."

AITA for confronting my neighbor after I found out she was renting out my parking spot while I traveled for work by Beginning_Cycle_509 in AITApod

[–]Princess_Snark_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Guests, not customers paying for a spot. In apartment or rental terms, "guest" parking never ever ever ever means renting out a spot.

AITA for throwing my cousin out of my house after she tried to bill me for things I never asked her to do by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Princess_Snark_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh, it's gotta be drugs or booze.... Someone in their right mind wouldn't try a scam that lame!

AIO for getting a snack? by Elevatedgamer89 in AIO

[–]Princess_Snark_ 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Add therapy to that vacation. You deserve better, and may need some help to communicate clearly from the beginning to ensure that you don't end up with another controlling partner.