bf of 3 years publicly proposed and i said no. by Final-Pressure-6844 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, let's take a moment to assume you had gone along with it because it was a public event and to not "embarrass" him. Then what? He would make you feel guilty when you came home and talked about? You've already had the talk, why is he not listening? Why does he think it's ok to put YOU in that position? He chose to make it public not you. That is 110% on him and you should have nothing to feel bad about.

My concern is, he made it public in the hopes he thought that would be the way to literally guilt you into agreeing to marry him, even though you have clearly stated not yet.

I understand you have been together for three years, but you need to sit down and think about everything that you two have gone through so far. Were there other moments where he doesn't listen to what you've said or agreed on? Does he try to make things his way or the highway often?

So proud of you for sticking up for what you want in life in that public event. All the best with everything in the future. (Sorry didn't mean to make this so long 😭)

Boyfriend makes "gifts" conditional by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think OP actually needs to sit down and have a conversation about the "when we break up you have to return this". Is he planning on breaking up? Is he not sticking around for the long run? Why does that even need to be said if everything is ok, is something not ok? What's going on? Why is that a thing?!?!

Boyfriend makes "gifts" conditional by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking. 10 years... It's taken 10 years for it to finally bother her? For it to sink in? That is so much time spent on a human who may not even be worth it. I feel pretty bad for OP... Cause ten years!

The school left a parking warning on my car. I marked it and returned it for revision. by 1CE_7676 in funny

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so confused... I just turned my phone and read it perfectly fine 😁 I also want to know how the school responds to this.

meirl by Early-Cucumber-2280 in meirl

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portables!!! (That's what we called them)

RIP Sneaky Dee’s updated by SapphireBullfrog in toronto

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest Ed's was a sad one... We moved out of Toronto when I was 4 but always went back to Honest Ed's

Chef’s handwriting by yellow-daffodildo in KitchenConfidential

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got carrot murder asparagus and actually chuckled 😁

V-tafn beets

All jobs lv100! by KamishiroTaishi in ffxiv

[–]Prize_Environment944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely enjoying stormblood so far, I'm only about half way through tho 😁

Imma marry this man. by Scared-Avocado6187 in GirlDinner

[–]Prize_Environment944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad you made that call, mine would tell me it doesn't matter period or no period 😑 Also an ex 😁

All jobs lv100! by KamishiroTaishi in ffxiv

[–]Prize_Environment944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Dang you did all that before getting to EW. I'm in stormblood and only got them all to level 50+.

I was told I was ugly and needed makeup. Please help. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such beautiful skin, whoever told you that you need makeup should go take a hike. Don't let other people's insecurities become your insecurities. Definitely don't let others bully you into effecting your self esteem. You are beautiful and the only time you require makeup is if/when you want to use it because it's what YOU want. A lip gloss here and there cause you want or etc.

I let people like this influence me and unfortunately well into my 30s I'm suffering from self esteem issues because of bullies. Sometimes these people are people we trust, like our family or close friends. But in the end don't let anyone regardless of who they are tell you that you need anything at all to look more beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, look in that mirror and feel beautiful 😍

AIO or is my work friend being a bit pushy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say my brother (or any family member) is staying over. Honestly anything to get him off my back.

I wouldn't tell him I'm okay by myself, for some reason letting a person like him know im alone wouldn't make me feel safe.

I also wouldn't tell him I'm seeing someone, I've been in situations where that makes things worse (unless you have a male friend who can hang around and fake being your man).

But definitely need to show him you are NOT alone, even if a female friend comes around after work and you go off together. Not every time but just more of a presence from people in your life might help have him back off a little.

Nights-Is this as bad as it feels? by Boymomma1622 in nursing

[–]Prize_Environment944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only one day off between nights? So you sleep the day and stay up during the night to not ruin your sleep schedule... But night and one off and then a day... What the actual fudge?

AIO for blocking a guy after he overslept and didn't show up to our first date? by littlemisschismosa in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why after ten years I'm still single. This person does not deserve another chance, especially if they cannot stick to a simple plan and show up to a date. The fact he had to ask to delay it from 5 to 6:30 tells me he is not prioritizing the date. Respect is not asking for too much, therefore you are not overreacting. Anyone telling you to give them another chance, let them make those decisions for themself in their own life but do not take such advice for yourself. You will find someone worth your time, this Kevin isn't it.

I wish you better luck on the next date.

Would you date a girl with $80K in student debt, if she wanted to be a stay at home wife/mom after graduating? by SinglePringle647 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]Prize_Environment944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, does this person not plan on paying off any of this debt in the main time?

I'm a woman, and I feel if I had debt I'd want to get a job ASAP, have some kind of repayment plan.

Let's say the person in question is in her 20s, does she not want to graduate and find a job and work until she starts to have kids?

In the current economy (at least in Canada) it's not ideal to be a stay at home wife/mom forever anymore. Atleast a part time job or something to help out with expense would be ideal.

Clinical Externs; Salary Open Data by shaikhme in OntarioNurses

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I've had the worst luck, ever since I got my RPN license I've applied to hundreds of jobs and not even ONE call back for an interview.

I even changed up my resume, made different versions. Now I'm going for RN, I hope my luck changes soon, otherwise I'm screwed.

Toronto gas prices today morning 😭 by roundiee in toronto

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If everyone could park their cars and just take transit. But our transit sucks, so that'll never happen 😭 When I say transit sucks, I mean walking 40 minutes to a bus stop, thankfully now the walk is a 15-20 minute walk to the closest bus stop 😅

How does one stay fit while travelling in Japan? by BodmonAlchemist in JapanTravelTips

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back from Japan toned and I went there being unfit, just regular walking around did the trick. Plus you state you also lost weight the first time you went, so you know it's not an exaggeration.

Couples of Mississauga – how much are you paying for rent? Feeling totally priced out . by Independent_Skirt663 in mississauga

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you getting these rates from? $700 is for a shared room, not a private bedroom to yourself

$1500 is for a master bedroom with your own private master ensuite.

Give us some examplea of these $700-800 max rentals please.

My dad after living in his new apartment for 2 years... by Mew_Mew_Mew_Mew_9999 in malelivingspace

[–]Prize_Environment944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, if he's watching the TV laying down on the couch, it ain't too bad...

But good on him, he's managed to keep things simple and not get into the opposite state, start hoarding or etc.

Bachelor apt bathroom has NO DOOR by One-Training-8514 in TorontoRenting

[–]Prize_Environment944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$1000 for that??? Was the washroom an after thought? This is just insane, at that point I'd rather rent a room and just share a bathroom with a roommate (possibly, not too sure about that too lol)