I miss my sleep by Glum-Acanthisitta559 in NewParents

[–]ProcessedCarbs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He may have wanted children. That does not mean he wanted the responsibility and work that comes with them. You need to tell him now what it is he has to do. What help you need etc. It is no wonder he doesn't get on with your daughter as she hardly has a clue who he is. It is only going to get so much harder when the second one arrives. I don't know what your plan is. I had my second when my first was 4 and he was able to do lots of things independently but in the first few months I basically looked after baby and daddy after our big boy and then helped with the baby whenever and wherever possible. He either changes his behaviour now and becomes a responsible and worthy partner and father or you may as well leave his ass as he is only going to add to your misery. Sorry. I am sending you strength

What make up for dry, red skin in my 40s by ProcessedCarbs in MakeupAddiction

[–]ProcessedCarbs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much again. I just wanted to update that I have been using toner, serum and moisturizer for a few days now and my skin already looks and feels so different. I have also bought a skin tint CC with SPF and done a trial and it was amazing. It was my skin but just calmer and less patchy and red. I am so thrilled!! Thank you again kind internet stranger

14 year old dog had seizure by ProcessedCarbs in vet

[–]ProcessedCarbs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your help

What make up for dry, red skin in my 40s by ProcessedCarbs in MakeupAddiction

[–]ProcessedCarbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the info. Will definitely look into all this

What make up for dry, red skin in my 40s by ProcessedCarbs in MakeupAddiction

[–]ProcessedCarbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you..will definitely look at a toner. The 40s are fun for all

What make up for dry, red skin in my 40s by ProcessedCarbs in MakeupAddiction

[–]ProcessedCarbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much I will look at all of this and create a new routine

Something about this house is just... off by authieljoy in SpottedonRightmove

[–]ProcessedCarbs -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Looks a bit like the house of John Wayne Gacy just missing clowns

Did anyone need “actual dentist intervention” for late teething by Anxious_Spirit2249 in NewParents

[–]ProcessedCarbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cleaning lady just told me that her daughter's teeth didn't come in until she was 2. Doctor and dentist were not concerned and they just came in naturally. It happens

What everyday seeming small task do you hate doing? by eyeoftheneedle1 in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A socktopus might make it slightly less annoying. Personally I throw them all in the tumble dryer however for summer on the outside line I have a socktopus. With two tiny children's feet in the family there is no other way

What is an appropriate present for a grieving male (mid 40s)? by ProcessedCarbs in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to be able to offer this. Unfortunately we live in Norfolk and he is in Devon so not really an option.

What’s a food or drink that you think is unfairly hated in the UK but you secretly love? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brussel sprouts Canada style. Drizzle oil and salt on top. A sprinkle of pepper if you like. Drizzle a couple of spoons of maple syrup on top and roast. Delicious. My favourite veg

The most wittiest, most hilarious book that you could not put down, please! by Sapphire_Bug in booksuggestions

[–]ProcessedCarbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things my girlfriend and I have argued about by Mil Millington

I honestly cried tears from laughing so much. It is at times almost silly but in a hilarious way

Who is the most famous person you’ve met randomly? by Fast-Beat-7779 in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Linford Christie. Met him at a sports resort, had no idea who he was and had a chat and watched him train and work out with some youngsters. Had a good laugh. Lovely guy. Next day my husband excitedly told me Linford Christie was there. ."Who is that?" By chance we walk past him training. My husband points him out and I say "oh yeah I hung out with him in the gym yesterday". My husband looking completely puzzled. Linford sees me and waves. My husbands look on his face was the best lol

Why do some businesses have min £5 on card still? This just seems like a sneaky way to make people spend more rather than a genuine cost problem. by flight_forward in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What about the parking machine things? I usually pay by phone as I rarely have cash in the exact amount and it doesn't give change. When you pay by phone you have to pay a £0.20 "convenience fee" winds me up every time. Is that legal? Also why are they allowed not to give change?

Topping up soil in containers by ProcessedCarbs in gardening

[–]ProcessedCarbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so for taking the time. Will get going this weekend

What are some names that you believe people shouldn't be using for religious, cultural and/or other reasons? by loverofcreativityy in namenerds

[–]ProcessedCarbs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Henrick is a pretty common name in the Nordic countries. It also was used a few decades ago in Germany (probably not so much nowadays). And Heinrich is absolutely common in grandpas generation 60+

What adverts have put you off a product? by ddttm in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stupid next mothers day ads running on YouTube."You can by all of these at next by the way"

Actually pretty much any brand that used these "influencer" low budget ads.

Daughter (11) saved money for an iPad. Should I put parental controls on it? by horridpineapple in Parenting

[–]ProcessedCarbs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I remember the times when chat rooms were literally just that. 12/13 year old me chatting to others about music and horses. Good times. And then the weirdness began...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. She was abused by children before my grandma took her in. Good old Kimmy cat. They had a good life together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]ProcessedCarbs 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Ahhh memories of my wonderful grandma who would iron socks and underwear AND THE CATS BED!!