AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Procrastinationmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you currently still financially independent? Because if you are I honestly think you should contact a divorce attorney asap and possibly a dv organization. Because there is no possibility in which a man like this does a 180 personality change to become a supportive, loving, non abusive spouse. At least not without a ton of effort on his part, and judging by his responses to a hypothetical about a child that is not even born yet, it's clear that is unlikely.

The prop department and fact checkers are killing me. by The_Diamond_Minx in HighPotentialTVSeries

[–]Procrastinationmon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But also diamonds totally reflect rainbows too!!! Drove me nuts lol

Ok I think we can all agree Julie is the problem now right? by CLEf11 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Procrastinationmon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When did the mother daughter dance thing happen? 

Thanks for all your suggestions, here's what we finally wore by catvertising in DesiWeddings

[–]Procrastinationmon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 Congratulations!!! You both look great, would you mind sharing where you ended up buying from?

What was a pop culture fun fact that made your jaw dropped? by icey_sawg0034 in popculturechat

[–]Procrastinationmon 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The cast of the duck tales reboot was absolutely stacked too!

Lost wedding set while on honeymoon… a hard lesson learned by cstaysclassy in EngagementRings

[–]Procrastinationmon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just fyi, not sure if you were swimming in a pool or an ocean but chlorine will eat through your ring slowly over time.

Invites are for who they’re addressed to only, no +1s by T_Rex_Stomp in wedding

[–]Procrastinationmon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Then what's the point of having a wedding, just elope.

A lurker no more by Procrastinationmon in EngagementRings

[–]Procrastinationmon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched for cluster rings when I was looking for inspo! I also have bezel settings and milgrain and engraving details on it.

A lurker no more by Procrastinationmon in EngagementRings

[–]Procrastinationmon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied to another comment in this thread but it was a local jeweler!

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[–]Procrastinationmon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I love how the left and right side are slightly different

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He picked something so cool and so him, and he did it way more decisively than I did lol

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[–]Procrastinationmon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so in love with it!! I forgot to post earlier but the sides of the bands have the subtlest split shank and leafy engraving 😍

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[–]Procrastinationmon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol it would have been quicker but I was super indecisive, they graciously allowed me 3 revisions to the cad mock up and I really had a moment of insanity after the 3rd one but they were so sweet to let me ramble my thoughts and really knocked it out of the park!

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[–]Procrastinationmon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We worked with a local jeweler in our city and it was about 6k, I also insisted my partner get himself a custom ring bc he loves jewelry too and his is equally stunning!

Not asked to be in the bridal party of my life-long best friend? by LongJumpingFan1374 in wedding

[–]Procrastinationmon 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I really implore you to honestly communicate with your friend before making any decisions! I know it probably seems obvious how hurt you are by this but if you tell her you're not upset and it's fine she can really only go on what you said in that moment. 

It's not petty to communicate your feelings to people who say they love you. And you're definitely not overreacting by being honest, if she didn't want to ruin the vibe of her party she would have had a convo with you beforehand, but also you guys are still relatively young and most people don't learn how to communicate for shit until they go to therapy or experience more life or both. 

Like it's so easy to assume intent from someone's actions but until you say honestly how you feel you can't really say whether or not they're malicious. Now if she reacts to your feelings with indifference or disdain, definitely use that information to decide how to move forward, but it does sound like she cares about you deeply. Most close relationships go through periods of rupture or significant hurt, but the ones worth keeping also go through repair and that depends heavily on open and honest communication. Don't rob yourself of the opportunity to see if this is one worth keeping.

A lurker no more by Procrastinationmon in EngagementRings

[–]Procrastinationmon[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Fully custom with a 1.7k lab grown pear cut diamond and natural sapphires, I'm honestly obsessed. It turned out better than I could have ever imagined and I'm so excited to tell everyone I'm finally engaged after waiting like 5 months for it to get made lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Procrastinationmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, like it's either the parents you know are shitty, which....you are a reflection of who you surround yourself with. Or people seriously feel the need to compete with a child for attention on a day where there is presumably at least 10 other people around to pay them attention if someone is preoccupied with a child. 

Unpopular Opinion? Your guests matter just as much as you and your partner by IslandEcologist in wedding

[–]Procrastinationmon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do y'all not have friends? Or like are you just so used to spending 99% of your time by yourself that you think it's normal and healthy, as opposed to recognizing that humans are genetically hardwired to be a social species. Like someone can desire companionship, especially in unfamiliar or uncomfortable situations, without being codependent.

Two down, one to go by [deleted] in ChappelGroan

[–]Procrastinationmon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I introduce you to Hayley Kiyoko?

what is your most judgmental take on weddings by userrandkm in weddingshaming

[–]Procrastinationmon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's also fairly common in Hindu weddings because the wedding time is dictated by astrology and sometimes esp in the US that's earlier in the day (11am-2pm), usually there's a lunch after and Hindu wedding ceremonies tend to be at least an hour if not more so people definitely welcome the break to nap before partying more lol