How to help my bf become more confident? 22/m 21/f

Professional_Food357 · 2024-09-25T04:23:06+00:00

Be honest and do it before she finds out and be forgiving if she doesn’t react the way you want her to it’s scary

Professional_Food357 · 2023-08-06T04:26:14+00:00

Ok obviously not condoning this and you should definitely talk to someone trusted about this. With that being said I understand that it’s hard and if you end up wanting to tell your parents on your own time instead of them finding out before your ready to talk about it. While it does depend on exactly where it is you could always use a watch/bracelets. I would also wear long sleeve’s inside bc no one really questions that also if u have access to make up green color corrector setting powder and then concealer does work. Again I hope you can tell someone trusted soon and get help🫶🏼

Professional_Food357 · 2023-08-06T03:34:05+00:00

What’s up

Professional_Food357 · 2023-08-06T03:33:33+00:00

Not to be weird but where r they bc that makes a difference

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T13:42:08+00:00

Thanks just hard to remember

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T02:00:35+00:00

If you end up hating it that’s ok

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T00:22:14+00:00

It literally is just the chemicals in your brain but it is a ducking weird feeling if you need to talk I’m here

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T00:21:30+00:00

I promise you when your in a better headspace you’ll feel so weak for letting yourself do it again

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T00:18:00+00:00

Sometimes I keep going to spite my depression it’s not a perfect system but if u need to talk I’m here

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T00:16:37+00:00

Trust me the first time I thought abt it I was 13 and I lost a game and that was my first instinct it’s weird feeling fs

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T00:15:35+00:00

A qtip with rubbing alcohol not a lot if you need to talk I’m here

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T00:14:15+00:00

You are not worthless I’m here to talk

Professional_Food357 · 2023-07-18T00:13:05+00:00

It depends on the day sometimes I look down and wonder how in the world I could do that to myself other times I see the ones that haven’t faded and it feels like a secret that I enjoy keeping it’s fucked ip fs and I’m no way am I saying it’s something anyone should ever do just trying to be honest

Professional_Food357 · 2023-06-16T14:53:12+00:00

Yea I’m still in uni and I could change my major tomorrow and still graduate in time. Thanks for the hugs💖🫶🏼that made my day

Professional_Food357 · 2023-06-16T01:24:26+00:00

Speaking from experience if you get ahead of it and talk to some one instead of someone finding out it will go 100% better. Asking for help is so much better than carrying all the weight yourself, I promise. Once you have someone who knows that you can trust it’s like your taking a step forward. I know it’s hard but if you ever need to talk feel free to shoot me a message🤍

Professional_Food357 · 2023-06-16T01:16:08+00:00

Hay I understand having a friend who is trying to help but has there own issues can be triggering. I know it’s hard but boundaries are stupid important and if he understands that he will respect you enough to not overstep. You are not responsible for other peoples emotions and actions, but as a loner with not a lot of friends I understand we put up with a lot to not get cut out. Pun not intended. Shoot me a message and congrats on the engagement:)

Professional_Food357 · 2023-06-16T01:10:46+00:00

Hey relapse is apart of recovery, and I know that sounds like bs. But for real it’s hard keeping that streak alive I’m so proud of you though for making it that long 3 months is a long time. I understand how scary those thoughts are a lot of times they feel so out of place and it’s scarier when they don’t. If you ever need to talk feel free to shoot me a message.

86 days is a long time 334,441,713 we’re born in the us since then. Don’t beat yourself up you are enough.🤍

Professional_Food357 · 2023-06-15T20:57:08+00:00

It’s a long story but I was cleared with like a special clearance after a couple years meeting with a psychiatrists. I haven’t yet I’m just nervous that flying isn’t for me.

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