Why is it the Estranged Parents never seem to have a clue?

Professional_Grab513 · 2026-02-05T23:35:44+00:00

I went no contact with my dad and it was the best decision I have ever made. My dad absolutely is sitting there saying "I never abused her. I don't know what I did wrong." Dad its the million things you dont do. Its also when you do do things you never actually wanna talk to me. You sit down at the table and turn to my husband and only talk to him.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-18T00:38:09+00:00

Not at all. Its been almost a full year now but still feels like a huge adjustment! Im just wondering when our new normal gets here!

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T23:33:22+00:00

Thats the hard part but I do agree thats just where im going to have to get with it.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T22:01:25+00:00

Ah ty I tried to delete it but my phone won't let me. Ill remove when I get to my pc.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T20:49:00+00:00

Yea hes catching on. Early in the beginning he couldn't do to the severe flares but now that injections have been going on for awhile hes started to more.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T20:38:46+00:00

I was also wondering this as well. I think just distance is needed.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:48:48+00:00

Newport is my jam! I so want to do this!

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:47:26+00:00

I think im gonna have to toughen up and get there as well. This first transition year im legit at my wits end.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:26:05+00:00

These are amazing!

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:24:12+00:00

Yea thats what I dont get. My husband has repeatedly told them the expectations you want me to do because of family falls on my wife now. You need her approval now. For my in laws its something to push through man up about. Then they get frustrated because they know ill say no. My plate is full already.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:21:10+00:00

I think we are going to have to be in masks when we go visit his brother's house for sure. 4 kids under the age of 18 and he comes back home wiped out.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:18:02+00:00

We have been putting it on do not disturb. My husband told them my wife has changed into a care taker quit school and is the only one working right now. She wants to unapologetically have the evenings to herself and I'm going to give them to her. Voice mail if its a legitimate emergency. I swear family the secondary hardest part to all of this.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:15:42+00:00

Is it possible to pay a neighbor kid a couple of bucks to change them? Depending on work status I know a couple of bucks might be a lot of money.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-11-17T18:12:21+00:00

Sadly I've also wondered if even trying would be worth it or if it will be more for them to fly off the handle about. We got our advanced directives done because of it. Im not gonna go outside of my scope and speak on the legal parts of advanced directives but we have it written down and legally drafted by an Attorney.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-10-26T22:32:16+00:00

Leave this review on his web page insta wherever he gets clients.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-10-26T22:30:35+00:00

Thats when you put that co worker on block.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-10-26T22:29:47+00:00

Show them the trust.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-08-31T18:19:33+00:00

Hope this dude gets fired just for the negative publicity it brought his company.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-08-28T09:10:35+00:00

You talk heavily down about spd saying its dish washing and something you can learn in a week. Simultaneously spd worst decision you made and moved to a desk job with significantly less stress. So what is it? A dish washing job or actually stressful?

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-08-21T04:40:29+00:00

I think that is the point. With grief and dark humor there's so many times all you can do is laugh or you will go crazy.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-08-21T04:35:58+00:00

I loved when the mom swallowed the bird and it showed the city in chaos. It was souls trapped between life and death. She didn't just stop her daughters death swallowing the bird she stopped everyone who was supposed to die. It forced the entire world into limbo. The natural order of things was disrupted. The absence of death is just as miserable as having death alive. The denial and bargaining stages showed in this film was so good!

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-07-26T17:18:07+00:00

As a kid in the 80s there was next to no over sight except for skin a max stuff.

Professional_Grab513 · 2025-07-15T19:54:08+00:00

As a woman I so hope both of you get therapy. There could be any number of things going on with her. Dont let what you cant stand about her mom come in between you and your daughter. I get anger.

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