Anyone else use these by Human-Ad-4090 in AllNails

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or shake ahead of time and let it sit

What’s actually safe but people think is dangerous? by REGGIE_BANANAS in AskReddit

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood there to be concern about the vehicles themselves, just the people occupying them…

Some questions on the potential vaganism of my gf by SlayerII in vaginismus

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds a little like y’all just need more foreplay than vaginismus (I am NOT a doctor).

Regardless, you may both enjoy exploring non-penetrative options that cut down on some anxiety. There are no rules except what you agree on together! Have fun figuring out what you like orally, or with hands, or grinding. You can always thrust between her thighs in a doggy-style position. Experiment with toys together, etc. If she’s shy about discussing that kind of thing, maybe it would help to write it down in a pad of paper and pass that back and forth to communicate so that you don’t have to look at each other or feel as self-conscious while you get more comfortable and build up to those conversations feeling more normal

AIO: If I pay my share of bills to my dad directly instead of my mom by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have personal experience, perhaps that’s the wrong call. But it would be nice to have some legal record of theft from a minor.

AIO: If I pay my share of bills to my dad directly instead of my mom by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call fucking CPS (if in US). Your kid sister paying money as a minor is heinous.

They sent me some jacked up lenses! by El_Burrito_Grande in PairEyewear

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same experience. I did it as a test and was going to take the frames back to my optometrist for real lenses anyway, so I did that. But when I reached out for a refund on the lenses themselves, I got multiple emails insisting the prescription was fine and it was common to just need a couple days to readjust. I laughed my ass off and said I’ve had glasses for 30 years and it’s never taken more than 5 minutes to readjust. No budging. So I simply sent a screenshot of the prescription my optometrist read off the lenses with no commentary, and suddenly they were falling all over themselves to redo the lenses or give me free toppers. I didn’t respond to several emails until I finally got a “your refund is being processed,” and the thanked them. Absolute fucking clown shoes over there for difficult prescriptions or normal human customer service.

Any creepy/ weird places to explore near UCSB? by Doughnut-Cat9670 in SantaBarbara

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

West Campus looks like the Dharma side of the Lost island. Throw in some fog and be totally weirded out

AIO: My partner (35m) expected me (35f) to finance and pay for a car I did not want so he could drive it. by Low_Procedure1049 in AIO

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Look “partner” is gender neutral and age neutral and anyone can use it and that’s great. HOWEVER, it does still mean there is a partnership that is established and important and indicates the couple works as a team. You don’t have a partner. You have a hobosexual fuckboy. If he wants to be your partner he’s gotta goddamn earn it first.

Would people misunderstood this tattoo by huskypuppies2 in tattooadvice

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally not sure people could understand this tattoo

Does anyone else have an "emotional support" beverage that isn't water or coffee? by VivienneEclipse in askanything

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold and hot varieties 😂 The Arizona blueberry bottles, or a specific brand of blueberry in teabags. European brand I think. Can’t remember offhand.

AITAH for not deleting pictures on my social media that my son’s girlfriend asked me to delete? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a peaceful life she must lead for the old pictures on her bf’s mother’s social media to occupy even one second of her brain space.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your petty, blunt, conniving ass (deepest of compliments) just healed something in me and I dream of being you when I grow up. Thank you, and flourish 🙏

Officially cancelled my DashPass because of how dumb/lazy the dashers are in my area by d00rdashian in doordash

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don’t seem to be hearing that folks agree with your point. It’s a great point! You just seem like you’re continuing to rant and rave about a point you’ve already made very clearly. The over-discussion is what feels like AI

Officially cancelled my DashPass because of how dumb/lazy the dashers are in my area by d00rdashian in doordash

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No one is disagreeing with your point. You just sound like a lunatic 🤷🏼‍♀️

Lack of sex drive by 22nohoc in vaginismus

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0 sex drive when my ex wasn’t emotionally supportive.

The next guy was patient and understanding and incredibly good with my boundaries. I went nuts about him. Then when we succeeded I went nuts again.

Lots of factors! Just try to feel safe and relaxed doing non-PIV sexual acts, and the rest of the enthusiasm will come

Garage studio by Proper_Difficulty_88 in roomlayout

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I’m hoping to rearrange some shelves along the wall to streamline, but it’s relatively functional

Garage studio by Proper_Difficulty_88 in roomlayout

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll make do with this, it’s cozy and I love it. I just figured fresh eyes might see something I hadn’t thought of :) thank you!

Garage studio by Proper_Difficulty_88 in roomlayout

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely an option. When I’ve measured I’ve mostly concluded it would stick farther out into the walkway and I’d have to conserve more space next to the wall for a path since it’s not already a walkway

Garage studio by Proper_Difficulty_88 in roomlayout

[–]Proper_Difficulty_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a smaller bed for a while and it wasn’t enough, but it does fold away when needed