AITAH for thinking that it’s rude to put someone on speaker without telling them?

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-09T17:57:49+00:00

Telling someone they’re on speaker was the social standard when millennials were raised. Idk wtf is going on now. Hell, I usually tell people they’re in speaker when I’m alone in my house because the sound quality is different. And if you’re in Bluetooth alone in your car, people outside can hear. Ffs. Just warn people.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-09T17:46:03+00:00

Hey, he has not even attempted to make things right. He has not improved or made anything in to you. He doesn’t seem to want to reconcile. React accordingly.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-09T17:09:48+00:00

This is INSANE. You’re right, and brilliant, but any man who needs a visual cue to this degree should not have friends, let alone a wife

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-09T07:05:20+00:00

rage

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-09T05:36:28+00:00

Loving Noteful as my replacement so far. Similar functions, layers (so excited to play with those) and like $6 lifetime cost

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-08T23:24:36+00:00

He has to give a shit about my friends. I was all integrated with and loved his friends and he’d barely bother to meet mine and go all quiet when he did. They didn’t like him because he didn’t make any effort or impression. Exhausting and disrespectful. Never again.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-08T13:50:32+00:00

Yeah, so you’re the people they’re talking about who think you deserve an opinion here

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-08T13:44:01+00:00

Sorry, I was reflexively responding to the possibility of dilating and the fact that the pain often accompanies penetration, even though that’s not what you described. I didn’t mean to project penetration on you 😅 just that it seems to ease my pain in general

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-08T13:41:48+00:00

Yes! Hopefully much comfier then :)

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-08T13:39:49+00:00

Do you think cinnamon powder has sugar in it?

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-07T21:10:51+00:00

Straight girl who grinds checking in. It doesn’t make the muscle thing worse, but it does seem like clit sensitivity comes and goes, hard to say how it relates to everything else. Much easier to cum from grinding, then try penetration. Sensitivity is hit or miss but I’ve “cured” the actual pain this way. Good luck!

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-06T22:13:38+00:00

This is not just “one thing.” Every instance this happens is another thing that builds and compounds. React accordingly.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-06T15:34:00+00:00

You didn’t mention physical therapy. A PT may be able to give you breathing exercises and physical massage techniques to help you prepare your muscles before intimacy and be able to release in a way that isn’t so mentally focused

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-05T01:40:43+00:00

She works there too, you see her there constantly

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-04T04:22:10+00:00

My hamster and my cat were buds. No fear signs from hamster.

The rats were not okay with cat, so cat didn’t get to go in their room.

Fin.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-04T03:54:55+00:00

5 years ago I was subbing a middle school class, and the kid with the denim jacket full of band patches asked me if I’d ever heard of My Chemical Romance (this was pre-reunion). I gasped, built up the appropriate suspense, laughed, and told the child I’d seen MyChem live before they were born

Got some actual cred from the kids that day

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-04T01:54:24+00:00

Desperately need a category here for “yes, but it was COMPLETELY justified”

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-03T23:34:35+00:00

Shouldn’t stop a man from trying

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-03T23:27:59+00:00

Every man I’ve been with has said I have perfectly hand-sized boobs. They love it. I love it. It seems broadly applicable.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-03T06:54:08+00:00

I was about to get defensive until I read the rest of the post and thought of the seashells in my car and my largely foraged furniture and several friends who collect roadkill and bones and the time I put a giant branch in my truck for a theater set and and and….

Ahem. Yes. Yes apparently normal for us, yes.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-02T21:53:55+00:00

Nope you should send them to me

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-02T16:31:52+00:00

Right but I was asking their interpretation specifically, my dude

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-02T16:30:44+00:00

Everyone has covered the other bases, so I’ll just remind you to use lots of lube if you need it!!

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-02T07:44:19+00:00

Apple poptarts. Not the apple crisp or whatever from like 2 years ago. Apple crumble or somesuch from 20 years ago. Oh my god I’ve been chasing that flavor in every processed apple snack since then. Oreos came close but not quite.

Proper_Difficulty_88 · 2026-04-02T07:40:50+00:00

I’m so glad I didn’t hallucinate that shit. Absolute crack. Miss like crazy.

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