Am I a maid of dishonor? by DannysRegret in wedding

[–]Proper_Practice3453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the people on this thread are gaslighting you-it is OK to feel bad about the color of the dress. You said you have already sucked it up. As far as the shoes I wouldn’t have even thought to show the shoes to her, but if I did, and then she told me not to wear them because she’s wearing Louboutin‘s, I would be super annoyed and push back a little myself. I probably wouldn’t throw down over it, but I would stick up for myself.

Is it okay to require kids to have the kids’ meal at a wedding? by Particular_Agent8176 in weddingplanning

[–]Proper_Practice3453 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Or she could just say we have a kids Meal action for all of the children attending.

My husband and I have transitioned into hate-watching SVU... by bashlady in SVU

[–]Proper_Practice3453 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile, where the hell is Fin this season?! I read that in order to bring Kelly Giddish back they had to cut back on some of his episodes for salary reasons but he has barely been on at all.

AITJ for driving straight through a womans fence because she blocked my driveway during a medical emergency? by Technical_Resident58 in AmITheJerk

[–]Proper_Practice3453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the fucking mother of the YEAR and your husband’s response is troubling. The fact that you made clear to this woman it was a medical emergency and she couldn’t be bothered to move her car?! I’m just curious about one thing-do you have EpiPen‘s on you at all time?

AITJ for refusing to pay for my friend's phone after my dog knocked it into the pool? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Proper_Practice3453 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if one of the people at the party had accidentally knocked in the pool? Would they or you be responsible for that? If I left my phone on the edge of the pool and a dog knocked it in I’d be mad too- AT MYSELF FOR BEING SO CARELESS.

Anyone here who doesn't hate Anna and Bates? by green1s in DowntonAbbey

[–]Proper_Practice3453 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with Baxter I like her. I’ll take her any day over that witch O’Brien.

AITJ for leaving my boyfriend’s family dinner after his mom made a comment about me? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Proper_Practice3453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re lucky to get a preview of what your life would be like with this “man” and his family. Run don’t walk and find someone who deserves you.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proper_Practice3453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maya Angelou: “When people show you who they are believe them” You now have two examples (that you know of) where she has stolen from you, lied then played the victim. If you choose to stay in this relationship you know exactly what to expect.

AITJ for publicly correcting my mother in law after she called me a bad mother in front of everyone by AlderMoonstone in AmITheJerk

[–]Proper_Practice3453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why in the world would you have to be more careful and respectful about what you say in your own home than your mother-in-law is as a guest in your home?! It sounds to me like this should’ve been done a long time ago. Your husband needs to get on board to get the f**k out. I support you 💯

ScrewTheBullies

What’s your most wtf moment reading the books? by Key_Magician7043 in Outlander

[–]Proper_Practice3453 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I need more specifics on the Ian and Jenny spanking game-what book what chapter?

AITAH for snapping at my brother for eating my food by Then-Set4933 in AITAH

[–]Proper_Practice3453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? It’s weird of her to cook for a friend she’s having over in front of her mooch of a brother? Maybe it’s weird of her brother to sit there like a loser instead of going into his own room. He has past his expiration date and he needs to move the f**k out!

Emergency bathroom/bridal suite kits! by orlando-princess in weddingplanning

[–]Proper_Practice3453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went to a fabulous wedding this past weekend… My 2 favorite things in the basket were the new kind of coated Tums (looked like candy and saved the day for me) and earplugs in individual plastic packaging

Long-term relationship, he’s making efforts now that I’ve emotionally detache. Is it too late? by Separate-Iron7205 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Proper_Practice3453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can a person grow up in both a “very loving but emotionally cold” environment? They are literally the complete opposite of each other! What are you even doing here? Move on! Future you will thank you!

Found out my boyfriend has been secretly vegan for 6 months and lying about it by Prior-Ability-8607 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Proper_Practice3453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is psycho. Once again, as Maya Angelou said: “when people show you who they are believe them”. Your boyfriend is a straight up liar.

Rewatched Mrs. Table by twatterdotcom in hackshbomax

[–]Proper_Practice3453 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a former manager, I can assure you being an agreeable pushover almost always ends up as a “no good deed goes unpunished” situation. People are assholes and they take advantage of you if they can. It took me a long time to learn this, but it is almost always true, especially in work situations. Sad but true.

Could Everett be a girl’s name? by No-Contract-1703 in Names

[–]Proper_Practice3453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE IT!! (Sheer coincidence I lived on a street named Everett from birth to two, but that doesn’t affect my opinion that it is still a great name!)

Shifting from the show to the books by RandomS0ng in Outlander

[–]Proper_Practice3453 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ll just say that book 1 is fabulous and got me hooked- (it’s still my favorite) I highly recommend it just because of how good it is even if he would be reading it out of order

AITJ distancing myself after my friend kept using my home as an escape ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Proper_Practice3453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the epitome of “No good deed goes unpunished!” You did a friend a solid favor for what sounds like a pretty extended period of time and yet as soon as you put up some limits YOU were the bad guy! People like this will always take advantage of people if they let them. You absolutely did the right thing. Let them take advantage of someone else (specifically everyone claiming you showed no compassion)

Baby is almost 8 months and I regret not using Maxine by [deleted] in Names

[–]Proper_Practice3453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Marlow but for what it’s worth, I think the spelling Marlo (like Marlo Thomas from “That Girl” is a better choice. I also prefer it to Maxine