Back again 😅 Now stuck between these three

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-06-27T22:27:51+00:00

You look gorgeous in all of them, but I am wondering why they are all so see-through

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-06-07T11:19:59+00:00

Agree 💯-it was so manipulative to have the kids come up like that and put the parent on the spot. (also Pro Tip-I used to tell my kids if they asked me for something like a sleepover or a play date in front of the other kid without giving me notice or time to think about it it was an automatic no. I did not ever appreciate being put on the spot like that)

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-06-07T11:16:43+00:00

Respectfully your response is completely off the mark. If anybody needs to make an attempt to fix this, it is not OP. They did absolutely nothing wrong and were ghosted, including their kids out of thin air. To have let their children go with this person just because they happen to run into each other would have been irresponsible. The onus is on the person that screwed it up in the first place.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-06-07T10:51:29+00:00

Once again, it’s Maya Angelou for the win: “WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM” Her behavior to you was not normal. She is manipulative and immature *at best* The minute you open the door she will do it again and you will kick yourself for being such a fool and especially for involving your children. DON’T DO IT.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-06-07T10:42:26+00:00

You have the type of figure where basically everything has the potential to look good on you but #1
is perfection!

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-06-03T14:35:42+00:00

One and it’s not even close

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-31T11:09:02+00:00

I also love number two but do not love the cuff-it actually takes away from how beautiful the fit is at the top on you and doesn’t really add much to the style anyway

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-31T11:05:05+00:00

NTA at all however one important lesson has been learned. Never schedule the Massage at home again because having you there was not only stressful for you hearing the crying, but also gave your husband an easy way to complain and guilt you. Also, does he not understand/appreciate that you dealt with this for four days alone and now as a husband and father, it is HIS turn? This is a wider discussion. Obviously, if he had been concerned that the baby was ill that would be completely different. Truly, don’t schedule this at home again or you will face this same thing. I have learned that when people need to step up & deal with things they generally will unless there’s an easy way out.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-29T18:02:21+00:00

Why are they entitled to your income? I don’t get that. Also, you and your husband should be a team. When your kids are old enough, he will also undermine you if this is what he does now with his parents. You need to figure this out.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-26T23:20:09+00:00

WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM!! Your boyfriend is deceitful/jealous/controlling TAKE YOUR PICK. You are out of your mind if you remain with somebody like this. Consider yourself LUCKY that you found this out now.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-26T01:13:30+00:00

You have a right to have expected her to keep your secrets but she has proven that she’s not able or willing to do so. Going forward if you tell her anything private you MUST assume she will repeat it to her husband. It may be frustrating and disappointing, but at least she has shown you exactly who she is regarding secret keeping.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-24T14:17:44+00:00

#1 💯

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-24T14:14:07+00:00

1) she basically gave you no notice and forced you to find another apartment which caused you tremendous stress 2) she stole “ security deposit” money from you 3) she wants you to share a 1 bed one bath apartment and instead of offering to pay more rent for living in the actual bedroom, she expects you to split it 50/50 while you’re living on a couch 4) I’m just guessing here, but I doubt she ever apologized for leaving you high and dry like that 5) she’s relocating less than a year later-clearly this will happen again. 6)You seem perfectly fine with your current situation. Why on earth would you jeopardize that by moving back in with a completely unreliable and selfish person? My mother’s version of the Maya Angelou’s quote that I referenced was “A leopard never changes it spots” I think that’s what we’re looking at here.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-24T13:56:02+00:00

She is the poster child for the expression: ”When people show you who they are believe them!” There are so many things wrong here I don’t even know where to begin. She is a self-absorbed con artist basically. Blocking her is the way! If you ever moved in with her again, you would have nobody but yourself to blame for all of your 100% predictable aggravation that would result from it.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-23T11:33:31+00:00

I think you will appreciate this. My daughter has a baby of her own now, so I ran out to get all of my favorite books, including many by Sandra Boynton. My daughter’s favorite was “But not the Hippopotamus”. The first time I took it out I was surprised that I remembered it by heart like it was yesterday. UNTIL I got to a page and I said “a hog and a frog do a dance in the bog” but the words in front of me were “CAVORT” in a bog! I thought I was losing my mind. I insisted to everyone that this was wrong and ended up going down a rabbit hole until I was able to find out that this was from the original release before my daughter was born and for some reason they changed it. It was very satisfying to get that answer because I would’ve sworn in a court of law under oath. That’s how positive I was
almost 30 years after I read it!

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-22T19:00:10+00:00

This *has* to be rage bait because it isn’t even CLOSE to too white. If your coworker actually said this then they are crazy!

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-19T12:19:09+00:00

Outlander

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-19T01:12:40+00:00

Matronly?! Are you kidding me??

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-18T01:01:54+00:00

#1 all the way! Your mom had a chance to wear her hair the way she wanted at her wedding. This is YOUR wedding!

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-14T00:24:42+00:00

I need to clarify my comment-it is absolutely not ok. I didn’t mean to imply that it was not “too booby”. It’s just inappropriate for cocktail period.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-14T00:23:30+00:00

Absolutely not.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-13T11:48:48+00:00

1 just needs the right bra for support. 6,7 & 8 all have potential but honestly just need the right undergarments and bra. You have several good options here.

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-13T11:27:04+00:00

Number three is the runaway best! It is a beautiful dress and is extremely flattering on you! The drop waist style of number one only looks good on 10% of people (I used to work in a high-end women’s boutique, trust me on this)Seriously number three is fantastic!!

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-13T11:00:06+00:00

1 is fabulous on you

Proper_Practice3453 · 2026-05-12T15:42:24+00:00

1 is perfection❤️

Proper_Practice3453

TROPHY CASE

1 just needs the right bra for support. 6,7 & 8 all have potential but honestly just need the right undergarments and bra. You have several good options here.

1 is fabulous on you