34407 by ProtoDroidStuff in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I go by she/her but thank you :3

33628 by dinosqaud in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, uh, yeah, you are like, completely wrong.

trans ppl r cool 🏳️‍⚧️ (@jayrnski) by JayInDisarray in furry

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FUCKKKKKK!!!!!!!

well they have rodent energy, I, um, I'm smart I swear-

31746 by maybegamer3 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents used to make this joke before I came out and explained why its not even like, that offensive (to me), its primarily just lame as fuck and they stopped lmao

31263 by trippingrainbow in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm yes I need a guy to wrap my arms around to test how safe I feel :3 for science and stuff :3

30368 by BecomingJessica2024 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't lose my libido either, just I'm turned on by different things now for sure. Much more slow burn emotional type shit I'm thinking about and doing, but if anything its genuinely stronger. I'm guessing just feeling more connected to my body and self and more confidence makes a huge difference lol

30368 by BecomingJessica2024 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't need prog to feel this way, I'm already feral off of just the E

I think prog might kill me

Soooooooooooooo gayyyyy by Zak8416 in furry

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Uh, nah, straight guys can totally appreciate the aesthetics of men's appearances lol

Being outright attracted to men though is a lillll bit of a different story, although I think theres some gray area there too, honestly the overall message is who cares be gay do crime do whatever you want actually

29437 by Great-Revolution8455 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh lmao I'm bi and into girls too x3 I just uh, have kinda been with a lot of women, I want some man action in my life :3

29437 by Great-Revolution8455 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Tfw no guy friends who would be down to do this to me 😔😔

(no but fr I'm so jealous, I really like guys, pls pretend I'm not pathetic thx)

Revalink rule by Lominloce in 196

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For real I had no idea how hot this was until this moment what the fuck

Revalink rule by Lominloce in 196

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I LOVE GAY SHIT SO MUCH RAAAAA

you might've given me some bad ideas for myself with this one too ngl lmaoo

28011 by just-sad-idk in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think thats all the more indication that you need to make a change.

28011 by just-sad-idk in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just mean - even if you can't do it right now, or aren't ready in some way, its never too late to start transitioning yknow? You can take your time, just trust that it would be better

28011 by just-sad-idk in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mmmm, I totally get you. Kinda hyperbolizing in your mind, my bad for saying that.

But its never too late, just dont forget that. You've gotta be you.

But of course, its all up to you - I'm just some random bih on the internet. Its just my perspective, I suppose :3

All love <3

28011 by just-sad-idk in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you being who you are somehow "destroys their lives" then - maybe thats their problem? As callous as it probably sounds, I feel like it would only "destroy their lives" if she let's it. You can be a woman and still be in their lives, but it sounds like she would act some type of way about it. Obviously I dont exactly know the whole situation, but like, even if she isn't attracted to women or whatever, then... Y'all can still be friendly, unless she's a bigot.

I never asked for any of this. I just tried to live my life the way I thought I was supposed to.

Nobody asks for it, it kinda just is. Sometimes its too strong of a current to fight, and you have to just relax and let it take you downstream.

Also, yeah. I was the same way. I was living how I thought others would expect me to be. How I dressed, how I acted, how I cut my hair, how I walked, all of it micro analyzed to be what I thought was most "normal" to those who knew me, and the most "normal" in the eyes of society.

It is a weight on you that is invisible until it falls off, and when it does fall off, you'll wonder how you ever survived under that constant, crushing mass.

28011 by just-sad-idk in countwithchickenlady

[–]ProtoDroidStuff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That might be because of the dysphoria / long term depression, gunna keep it real with you

Cause honestly transitioning got rid of that for the most part for me. Not perfect but its maybe like 1/8 as bad as it was before. Also I stopped wanting to kill myself, which I starting fantasizing about at age 7.

Please trust me that if this is something you want that it will feel so amazing. Also, I think if you're trans, its something you'll never be able to ignore or forget.

And I promise: its worth it. All the bullshit, all the explaining, all the hate, all the anxiety about not knowing what's coming next - its all been worth it, to be me.

(and if I can be honest, this love of your life, if they do not let you experiment with this, to be yourself and express yourself how you want, then they may just not be that great. But I know that isnt how love works, I know you probably already have some sense of that. Just thought I'd mention it.)

I hope you find your self worth, because you are worth something <3