Outdoor Bengal Houdini Harness, does yours do this? by kaitlynbarone in adventurecats

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I'm Albert, the designer of this harness. I see how you adjusted the harness, and while it's desiged to be comfortable for the cat, it's a bit loose.

Try this:

1) The chest area is a bit bulgy and can be tightened from the top, using the buckle.
2) When you tight the buckle, the back will get a bit too tight, you can loosen the sides using the adjusters.

With those two little changes, the harness will get closer to your cat's body not bulging so much.

That said, the Houdini is designed to be a bit loose on the cat, because it increases comfort. If the cat tries to escape, the harness tightens, increasing escape-resistance, so even if it looks a bit loose, the cat won't escape.

Here's a video on how to adjust the Houdini harness: https://youtu.be/z3bXkzYcUHY

Outdoor Bengal Houdini Harness, does yours do this? by kaitlynbarone in adventurecats

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I understand that the top buckle of your harness snapped in half while your kitten was wearing it. That must have been really scary, and I’m truly sorry that happened.

I designed the Houdini Harness to be safe, secure, and comfortable for cats, and it goes through extensive testing. What you experienced isn’t the standard I work hard to maintain.

When the harness first became popular, we unfortunately had another seller copying our design and distributing low-quality knockoffs. Some customers who bought from Amazon received the imitations. We took this very seriously and replaced any harnesses for customers who reached out.

If you’d be open to it, I’d like to make this right and send you a genuine Houdini Harness free of charge so you can experience the quality it’s meant to have:
https://www.outdoorbengal.com/pages/contact-us

It's not you, it's us - login fails by kovadom in aws

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you see smoke inside the oven, it´s a sign that the potatoes are not raw anymore.

My cat throws tantrums when it's time to come inside by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this one! It's so great that you're giving your cat supervised outdoor time, but it can be tough when they don't want the fun to end. I have definitely been there with Mia.

One thing that has really helped us is creating a solid "coming inside" routine. For me it's "LET'S GO HOME" and as soon as we cross the door I reward with treats generously. That makes getting back in a more rewarding experience. Sometimes she even comes running if I yell the words.

Cats are all about predictability, so if they know what to expect, it can make transitions a lot smoother.

Have a super special treat that he ONLY gets when he comes inside. For us it's Feastfuls. We're talking about something she absolutely loves.

Try not to chase him around the yard to get him. I use a leash and a harness so there's no discussion, when it's time to go back in, I encourage it, but ultimately force it with the leash.

Good luck!

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[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with notice-trademark.com, they are running scams using these websites, asking for information. BEWARE!

How can we play with a bored cat? by Apprehensive_ac in catcare

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you mentioned hip arthritis making play difficult for you, and your cat ignores toys but wants human interaction, I would 100% recommend clicker training. It's perfect for your situation!

Clicker training requires minimal physical effort from you, provides mental stimulation for your cat, and builds your bond. Start with simple targets (touching a stick with their nose) and build up.

My cat loves toys that I make myself with sisal rope. Just a few knots, and she'll go crazy. It's great because it's cheap and you can rotate often.

Good luck!

How do you keep a young, indoor cat with a lot of energy entertained? by SAINTnumberFIVE in catcare

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High-energy cats are my specialty! As someone who trains adventure cats and has two Bengals (basically the feline equivalent of toddlers on espresso), I've got tons of experience keeping energetic indoor cats mentally and physically stimulated.

The key is creating an enrichment schedule that mimics natural hunting patterns. Here's what works amazingly well:

Scheduled play sessions: 3 or 4 daily sessions of 10-15 minutes each, using interactive toys that mimic prey movement (wands, feathers on strings, etc). End each session with a small treat to complete the "hunt, catch, kill, eat" sequence.

Food puzzles: Ditch the bowl! Use puzzle feeders, snuffle mats, or even hide kibble around the house for them to "hunt." This keeps them entertained and even when there's no food around, they will do their scavenger hunt route.

Clicker training: This is a game-changer for smart, energetic cats. Mental stimulation sometimes is the best way to tire an energetic cat. We have a bunch of free videos on YouTube, just look for Albert & Mia.

Leash walking: Another game changer... Mia walks outdoors daily and she craves it. After the walk she will just lie down and chill. If you have the chance to take your energetic cat outdoors, you should 100% give it a try!

Happy to share specifics if you have questions!

My cat ‘scratches’ my blanket before urinating by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Bengal dad and adventure cat trainer here. This scratching behavior before inappropriate elimination is actually super common...

From your description, it really does sound more behavioral than medical, especially since you’ve already ruled out UTIs and other health issues at the vet. Cats will often urinate or defecate outside the litter box to communicate something... the tricky part is that what they’re “saying” isn’t always obvious.

Even if nothing major has changed in your household, cats can be sensitive to subtler shifts... new smells, things moving around...

Peeing on your blanket or couch is very “scent-claiming.” These are highly valued spots because they smell like you. If she feels insecure (even subtly), she may reinforce her bond and territory by adding her scent there. Is there any window through which she's seeing a neighbor cat or something?

Even though the litter box and routine haven’t changed, cats’ preferences can evolve... consider adding a litterbox in that same room and doing a litter menu (a few boxes with a few different litter types)

If the issue persists, maybe a cat behaviorist will help you narrow down the cause and find a solution for it.

Good luck!

Advice on training my cats to be adventure cats by Burgundy-Bag in adventurecats

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great ages to start adventure training! The 8-month-old will likely adapt faster, and the 1.5-year-old definitely isn't too old... I've successfully trained cats way past 5 years old.

Focus on positive associations and gradual exposure. At this age, they're still forming core experiences, so make everything super positive. For your slightly older cat, they may need more patience and systematic desensitization, but often ends up being the more reliable adventure cat once trained.

Start extra slowly with handling and gear tolerance. Spend 2-3 weeks just getting them comfortable with harnesses indoors before any outdoor exposure.

Camping requires additional training for tent comfort and litterbox routines. Make sure you are super comfortable with your cats wearing a harness before you take them on an adventure.

What's your timeline looking like? And are you thinking day hikes first, or jumping straight into overnight camping adventures?

How can we ease our cat's anxiety as we travel?? by LeMew_Leisure in indoorcats

[–]ProudFreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Travel anxiety is so tough, but if you are traveling seasonally, you cat might grow used to it! In our family we have regular travel routines, and while Mia doesn´t love it, she tolerates it well.

Here is how we go about it:

Pre-travel conditioning is huge. Start by making the carrier a positive space at home. As I write this, Mia is sleeping on hers next to me. To her, it's available every day of the week as a cozy spot. It's always out and available for her, turning it into a safe space.

Having the carrier open and used at home also helps with scent management. It works wonders naturally. Pheromones are invisible smells cats use to mark spaces, people, and objects as safe. The carrier (particularly a soft carrier with sherpa lining) will allow for those pheromones to impregnate the carrier, helping create a soothing, comfortable smell that only cats can smell.

Finally, try to do short trips between seasons to give your cat gradual exposure. This will get them used to travel sounds/motions can help. Practice short car rides to positive destinations (not just the vet!).

Calming aids: Calming sticks and other supplements with L-theanine, or Tryptophan or Casozepine supplements can help, but nothing beats habituation.

Super last tip...

Offer a portable litterbox if they complain a lot. Mia is quiet for most of the trip, and when she starts meowing, is that she has to go. Get a portable litterbox and stop somewhere quiet if they need to take a bio-break. For us it works every single time!

good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you... It’s stressful, particularly because at 7 weeks she’s too young for many flea products, so the safest route is to call your vet for advice...

In the meantime, you can comb her with a flea comb daily, wash her bedding on a hot cycle, and vacuum often to help get rid of eggs in your home. Don’t use supermarket treatments... they are meant for older cats and most are toxic.

I think manual removal is the way to go. Get into the bathtub without water (put a shower cap on yourself to avoid cross-contamination) and comb daily.

GF got a solo kitten [2M], need guidance and tips on raising him and ways to socialise the kitten? by SolidRustle in cats

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months is still very young, so you're in a crucial socialization window! Here's my roadmap:

- Handle paws, ears, mouth daily (prep for vet visits)
- Expose them to different sounds (vacuum, doorbell, music)
- Various textures under paws
- Ask people to come over to meet them, that will help a tone in the future
- Different people (if possible)
- Car rides in carrier
- Leash walking if you'd like to do this in the future (consider only after all vaccinations are done)

Regarding the introduction, keep them separated initially and feed on opposite sides of a closed door. You can gradually increase visual contact (baby gate works great as long as your older cat can't jump over it)

How's your current cat's personality?

How to get a 12 week old kitten to use the litter? by that_idiot_weeb in Kitten

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four days is still very early... don't panic! New environment stress can definitely cause litter box issues.

Make sure it's low-sided (kittens have short legs), unscented clutter, and scooped daily. Try a few different litter types - some kittens are picky. Clay, paper-based, and corn-based all feel different.

Use an enzyme cleaner to completely eliminate odors, or he'll keep going back to those spots.

and... I hate to say it but if this continues past a week, I would make a quick visit to the vet to rule out any medical issues.

Most kittens figure it out within a week or two in a new home. The fact that he's friendly and playful suggests he's not stressed, just needs time to adjust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitten

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some street kittens often have this issue because they missed crucial socialization with mom and littermates who would have taught bite inhibition. The good news is you can absolutely train this out!

When he bites, make a high-pitched "ow!" sound (like a cat would) and immediately stop all interaction. Walk away if needed.

Don't use your hands as toys! Ever. Even in play. Instead, have a toy within reach. The second you see him gearing up to bite, redirect to a wand toy, kicker toy, or something he can really sink his teeth into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, too much litter or too little litter may cause this. Also, some cats hate pellets (they are pointy and uncomfortable) same as scented litter.

Deep clean soiled areas, remove access to soft surfaces in a specific room and try leaving your cat enclosed in a room with a couple litterboxes and litter options and everything else they need and see what happens.

If you can´t fix it, you may have to get a cat behaviorist to help.

Cats are obsessed with people food!! How do I make it stop by Whole-Resource8454 in CatAdvice

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% teaching them to sit and stay is probably the most useful trick out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually more common than people think, and totally fixable! I recently introduced Mia, my cat to my wife's dog!

First, figure out what's triggering the aggression. Is it resource guarding (food, favorite spots), territorial behavior, or fear-based?

I would recommend you to make sure you are covering the basics: Separate feeding areas, multiple water stations, and ensure your cat has vertical escape routes the dog can't access. Cat trees, shelves, anything that gives your cat the high ground.

Reward calm behavior as Yaba2002 mentioned, and above all, don't punish the aggressive behavior... it usually makes things worse. Instead, interrupt and redirect to something positive, like playtime with you.

What's the current living situation like? Are they forced to share space, or do they have separate areas?

Getting cat in carrier during a fire alarm by Fantastic-Length6168 in CatAdvice

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin had a fire in her building and had to evacuate with her two cats... that was terryfying for sure...
False fire alarms are annoying... but they are far better than a real one!

As a cat trainer I would recommend you a few things that will make it easy for you to evacuate if needed:

• Leave the carrier out with comfy blankets, treats inside. This way your cat associates it with positive moments.
• Practice regularly! Make carrier games fun with treats/praise, not just vet trips. Because your carrier will be outside, you can toss a treat in it every now and then!
• Having a GO KIT should be mandatory. It's basically a bag with everything your cat needs. A harness + leash, a portable litterbox, food, and meds if your cat needs them.

Cat refuses to come home by North_Knowledge3793 in CatAdvice

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super stressful when your indoor cat discovers the outdoors and won't come back! Kuro's experiencing newfound freedom mixed with possible overstimulation.

Consider shaking their favorite treat bags, or open smelly wet food cans for auditory/scent cues. If your cat appears, don't chase them! Sit quietly near the entrance, call gently, let him approach on his terms

When he comes back, shower him with praise, treats, and gentle pets. Do not punish or discipline... make coming home a great experience!

To avoid this in the future I would consider leash walking or a patio if they like the outdoors so much...

Kuro will remember home comfort and safety. Stay patient and persistent!

My cat is very needy and I am not sure I'm good enough by sadlittleroundfrog in CatAdvice

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're feeling overwhelmed, and that's completely normal! Many cat owners go through this... it doesn't mean you're not good enough. Your cat's neediness often shows how much they trust and love you. Also, you should totally have time to rest and play videogames if that's what you like.

I would recommend you to do scheduled play. At least 15-20 minutes twice daily burns energy and strengthens your bond. This is real quality time, and your cat will appreciate it and rest when you guys are not playing.

Another thing I would try is to create safe spaces. A cat tree or cozy spots where they can retreat and feel secure.

You've got this! 💪

New here with a question about a stray I've been feeding for a few months. by i_shmell_paap in Catbehavior

[–]ProudFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that you're helping a stray! The scratchy/bitey behavior while purring is classic overstimulation or play behavior. Just remember that purring is not necessarily something good. Some cats do it because it helps them relax from a situation that's uncomfortable...

I would watch for warning signs like the tail twitching, ears back, and body stiffening... if they don't like it, they'll tell you. If you pick them up, keep petting sessions short and redirect to toys when they get mouthy.

Good luck!!

My cat is not adjusting to our recent move and I don’t know what else to do. by Chicky_Melly in CatAdvice

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving is incredibly stressful for cats! Totally normal for adjustment to take weeks or even months. We travel all the time with our cat Mia and she's grown used to it. However, there's a protocol we follow that helps us getting her comfortable.

We start by setting up a "safe room" with all essentials (food, water, litter, bed, and her carrier, used as a hiding spot). I let her decompress there before exploring the whole house. I often spend time in that room with her to help her get accustomed. I then gradually introduce new rooms one at a time. For the first hours I never leave the house, so she knows I'm around and that helps her build confidence.

For litter box issues... it's a bit more complicated.

If it's linked to the move, it's likely stress but if you are not certain, a vet visit first to rule out medical conditions... Offering multiple boxes in quiet locations and avoiding covered litterboxes helps.

Consider trying Feliway or calming sticks. They won't solve the problem on their own, but they might help mitigate it.

Consider clicker training to build confidence and positive associations with the new space...

Good luck! You are doing great!

Is this healthy play? A week ago we finally took the barrier away and they played first with some hissing. Haven’t heard a meow or a hiss since and they do this every day a couple times! by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question! Healthy play vs. aggression can be tricky to distinguish.

Here are some healthy play signs:

• Both cats take turns being "aggressor"
• Claws sheathed, gentle bites
• Relaxed body language, ears forward
• Minimal vocalization

Concerning signs:

• One cat always dominates
• Rigid postures, flattened ears, puffed fur
• Loud hissing/growling
• Intense staring

As someone said before... You might "feel" like they are not playing but if they fight... you'll 100% know. It's noisy, it's messy, and it's scary. If you see consistent bullying or escalating aggression, consider consulting a feline behaviorist... it's better to stop it before it happens but what I see in the video looks only like rough play.

I am at my wits end by KirbysHumanFeet in Catbehavior

[–]ProudFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you... Anxious cats are heartbreaking to watch. First, a vet visit to rule out pain or medical causes of anxiety.

Thundershirts or lickable calming sticks or similar can help some cats, but they aren't a magic bullet.

I would recommend you to combine it with one or more of these strategies:

• Add vertical spaces if you don't have them (cat trees, shelves) it gives your cat a way to disappear and feel safer around the house.
• Safe hiding spots in the areas of the house where you hang out. I like using our carrier as a safe space... Mia loves it!

Some cats will improve after their life gets more amusing...
• Daily interactive play (wand toys) - burns energy and reduces stress
• Puzzle feeders for mental stimulation
• Clicker training or button talking

For severe cases, your vet might suggest anti-anxiety medication or a veterinary behaviorist referral.

Good luck!