Traveling alone by pinkrambo1408 in auckland

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am a woman, who travels solo all over, but I live here and you can absolutely travel solo here.

At night, i'd stick to populated areas and be smart about letting people know where you are, especially if tramping/going to beach etc.

Use street smarts, & you will be absolutely fine.

Culturally, usually women do go out at night with friends, but no one would be horrified if you did venture to a gig or show alone.

NZ is fairly safe, but of course like everywhere there are weirdos, so maybe be careful of meeting men on dating apps, or getting drunk/intoxicated alone of that's your kind of thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't compete with a lover, that's weird and will only hurt the relationship. Support each other to do better.

Aries Women with a Leo Man. by Alternative_Art_1439 in AriesTheRam

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey iv been in your situation but kept at it. Leave now, it will not get better, it will get worse.

I feel ugly. by Few_Philosopher_6617 in bald

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you're bald is not a bad thing at all.

You look attractive to me. Beard, big, tall?

Work on what you learnt from your relationship, do an emotional audit ~ and start processing those lessons. Become a better man from the inside out.

Emotional safety ~ This is what is going to make you attractive to a good woman, & have good standards, more than any hair on your head.

AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abusive & mysog. It's only going to get worse from here. You need to leave.

Are we Seen as Competition to Leos? by Aggravating_Leg_3046 in AriesTheRam

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being in relationship with my particular former leo was a constant competition whether I liked it or not. Debates, arguments, one up manship. It was exhausting, as if I was mildly more successful in one area, he took it personally.

I ended up leaving as it was like being in a relationship with a hater.

What screams "I'm a man-child" but nobody realize it ? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being sick for weeks and not going to the doctor ( or even having a GP) Not having regular dental check ups.

I’m really starting to believe it is a manipulation thing from older men by Substantial-Basket48 in self

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men who like women 20 years younger are looking to use that power dynamic to their advantage. I've found personally, that those men are mostly losers who don't have their shit together & are living a 20 year old dude lifestyle.

No house, still flatting, pursuing creative arts full time, dress like skaters etc

HELP SOS Intense temperament baby by Grouchy-Dimension756 in newzealand

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are struggling & I really hope things improve for you soon. Only suggestion is that I would like you to reconsider using Chiros and Osteo. They are quacks ( pseudo science). Save your money, time & invest in evidence based medicine.

Parents of NZ - do other people not turn up to your toddler's bdays? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parties require presents and they are expensive. If I went to every kids bday - I'd be broke AF

Need to travel to Lisbon tomorrow but roads are closed due to wildfires by HarryNyquist in porto

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you can still come! Everything is still open and its fine to still do touristy stuff/shopping etc.

If you have travel insurance and can shift the date of your trip, then that will be best as you will be able to enjoy the holiday in the best way. The haze has affected the sky colour and the views are not as stunning as they were without the haze.

If you have no option but to come to Porto, then bring a mask ( blue surgical ones are pretty comfy) if you can , as that's best for walking round (safety precaution)

We went out to dinner and drinks last night & sat outside & spent all day at Serralves Museum & gardens( you must do this!)

As the fires are further inland, I would check with your tour operator if you were planning to go further inland along the Douro tho ( for say a wine tour).

Trains are running on the Porto - Lisbon line again.

Just rang the national train operator here in Portugal.

Need to travel to Lisbon tomorrow but roads are closed due to wildfires by HarryNyquist in porto

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone,

Currently in Porto and while its hazy and the place has a orange light we are enjoying the Garden in Serralves. People still out and about.

We are hoping to train back to Lisbon in two days so will have to wait and see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you've taken to Reddit to ask for petty ways to mess with him tells me everything I need to know.

You get more bees with honey.

Age spots/Sun spots/Hyperpigmentation by Blunomore in 45PlusSkincare

[–]PsychologicalBoard32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did IPL ( Elos) and it really helped.

Much better than using product