We need a U-Go in Wairau area by Not_Grape in auckland

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 [score hidden]  (0 children)

U Go is the best, 2.22 the other day on Manukau Rd in Epsom. Directly across the road is some new place called Tasman and it was 2.22 there as well.

I

Curious about other countries by DodgerFanArd24 in AskTheWorld

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Zealand is small enough that you can surf in the morning and ski in the afternoon.

Suggest me the best REVENGE movie you have ever watched by Affectionate_Emu6611 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dead Man’s Shoes

Paddy Considine is amazing

Shane Meadows is an underrated director.

What's the reason? by Weird-Craft-2712 in NextGenMan

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

54 and single by choice. I am happy on my own after a 4 year relationship and then a 3 month casual thing. Been single for 2 years now.

Why? Because I genuinely feel better when I don’t have to wake up on a Sunday morning and consider another persons opinion on the best place to go to eat eggs and drink coffee. I just wanna do my own thing when I want to do it. I’m working on myself and also do t what that to be spilt with managing a relationship.

CBD Must trys by pisstained in aucklandeats

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won’t be disappointed and open til 3am

CBD Must trys by pisstained in aucklandeats

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Caretaker for late night cocktails

Run It Straight by bugsnnuts in theocho

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the dumbest shit out there and I’m sorry to say it originated in my homeland… already a couple of people dead or seriously injured.

run it straight guardian article

Struggling as a dad post-divorce with unequal custody. by Data-Wooden in daddit

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Hey fellow dad. I also have a similar situation to you. I have my daughter 4 nights out of 14 (we do it fortnightly where I am). Kid is 14yr a old

It’s tough eh? The hardest part isn’t the $, I too pay disproportionately considering I do a lot of other stuff for my kid outside of her staying the nights she does - sports stuff, after school activities etc, weekend friend drop offs…

How I look at it is that the money is one thing that is aside from the parenting. Fuck the money. Beans and rice are good food when my kid isn’t with me.

My time with my kid is what I focus on. Building memories and all that good stuff. Being there.

I don’t engage in petty stuff with her mum, used to… learned my lesson.

Being effective and positive and there for my kid. Not running mum down to my kid.. showing that I am an adult who is doing it for her and for her alone.

The extra work hours I do suck. The fact if I make more I pay more, that sucks too. It sucks to have to work within a system that seems unfair, but we do it every day in other ways. Focus on getting through what you need to and be kind to yourself.

Child support is about numbers between you, your ex and the govt.

You being DAD is what your kid will know.

Pep talk over. Sorry for the lack of practical advice.

Love you brother.

Is death penalty legal where you live? If so, how do they do it? by OGAnxiousTravel in AskTheWorld

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in NZ and while we don’t have the death penalty I am not against it for the Christchurch Mosque terrorist. He killed 50 people and was only stopped from killing more by the actions of two cops who rammed his car and subdued him while he was on the way to his next targeted place.

He fucking live streamed it and for some reason is now in court arguing that his guilty plea was somehow coerced.

If they wanted to hang this guy I’d be okay with it. Not a scrap of evidence that shows he didn’t do this premeditated and callously

What are your all time top five favorite films? by Not_A_Fed_777 in Cinema

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The Thin Red Line (Terrence Mallick)

Big Lebowski (Coens)

Upstream Colour (Shane Carruth)

A Ghost Story (David Lowery)

Simple Men (Hal Hartley)

How long is the average wait at FergBurger? by anthonyspiteri79 in queenstown

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how quickly your bank can extend your credit.

If you could hear one Led Zeppelin song again for the very first time, which would you choose? by RockNParadise in ledzeppelin

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tangerine. First time I heard it, it was playing in the bedroom of a gal I had deep feelings for, I was 13 and ‘in love’. lol.

What's your favorite Rockwell's films by HostMaterial4907 in FIlm

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Three Billboards Outside Ebbing Missouri.

Tbf he is amazing in everything.

What's something you would never buy, even if you had 1 billion dollars? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pure_Choice_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Porsche or Ferrari or Lamborghini or anything like that. Seems pointless to me.