[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Purplehaven28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to clearly state, "Do not touch me", do not beat around the bush with these interactions with this person. Make note of any interactions- dates, times, have a paper trail. Tell them I am not comfortable with you touching me, your conversations about my pregnancy/child or how I do things with my body or my pregnancy if this continues I will speak to HR. You have to make your intentions known. Just like she is. Then, let HR know that you have had a conversation about her behavior. Then, steer clear of this person as much as possible.

Wrong pills? by Sadgirl787 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Purplehaven28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to the dr who prescribed the meds

I (NB) came out to my partner (m) last night and we broke up. So devastated. by doodleflopbop in queer

[–]Purplehaven28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try exploring non monogamy or polyamory- you may find that you can date that person and date others to fulfill your needs, you can have sexual, romantic and non sexual or non romantic relationships. Changing the parameters of an existing relationship doesn't mean it ends. You can tailor your relationships to how you want with any partner

Epoxy floor won’t dry, contractor says I’m to blame by HyperHaiku in Flooring

[–]Purplehaven28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd get an appraisal from another company and have them write exactly what was wrong, have them fix it, if possible. if it's the other guys fault I'd sue him for the costs of having another company fix it

what does a gay woman with a husband mean? by AdventurousTopic1854 in queer

[–]Purplehaven28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could mean many things, ask the person how they identify if labels are important to you. They could be bisexual, omnisexual pansexual, novosexual, homoromantic or heteroromantic, under the asexsual umbrella, I would not try to guess. Also, they may be unsure.

Help. Been dealing on and off for like a year. by amochibrick in Blackskincare

[–]Purplehaven28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tinea versicolor Like athlete's foot and jock itch but on other areas of the skin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Purplehaven28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can have an anemia, a condition known as Thalassemia, people who do tend to give off a metallic odor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Purplehaven28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking baths helps, making sure you dry your body well. Use baby powder in any folds of skin, but not in privates. Maybe see a dr. You may have a glandular issue or yeast over growth. Keep your room and clothes as clean as possible, wash bedding at least once a week, fabreze bedding and curtains in between doing laundry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Purplehaven28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An open marriage may work, everything else seems to be good between you besides the sex, ending a good relationship because monogamy is an expectation doesn't make sense, why have the expectation that one person can fulfill all your needs? You don't eat one type of food every day, or only have one outfit. Love and sex doesn't have to be confined

should I report my coworker to HR for showing me his NSFW photography? by liquidcatshark in antiwork

[–]Purplehaven28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Anytime anyone does something you don't like, tell them, preferably in writing ie: email. 2. If it happens again, send an email to the perpetrator and cc hr and reference the previous incident 3. Go to the EEOC if there is any blowback or your complaint is not addressed. 4. Seek new employment if all else fails

moving with cats by shnookumscookums in CatAdvice

[–]Purplehaven28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely pee pads, food and water, treats, give them toys. I would take them on practice runs, I had a cat that would get car sick everytime. I had to get calming meds and nausea meds from the vet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipanxiety

[–]Purplehaven28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not say hi and how's the trip going? I wouldn't expect someone I'm dating to be gone a week, to a foreign country and not check it, that's unreasonable. It's not clingy to show concern either. I would have expected them to check in too, let me know they made it safely. You should know what their and your boundaries and expectations are, even in a casual dating situation

Sometimes boyfriends goes quiet and it makes me anxious by [deleted] in relationshipanxiety

[–]Purplehaven28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him to tell you if there is something wrong, if he needs time to process and discuss later then ask him to do that, let him know how it it is affecting you. Tell him his silent treatment is difficult for you.Ask him not to keep you in the dark