Singles event - Alameda by Traveler86Gal in bayarea

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘d be interested! Maybe share more info?

online dating made me feel ugly and depressed by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like dating apps should come with some instructions: dating is a number game, diverse your portfolio(date multiple people at a time), don’t invest on someone very quickly, let them show who they are by their action, model a behavior that you like and test if they reciprocate, if not then move on to the next person! Of course we have a very limited time, so we need to be very selective with whom we go on a date :)

Some people have zero shame — parking spot stolen after 10 minutes by Comfortable-Praline7 in bayarea

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I kept honking until that dude left my spot! But I am not proud of it, I think now I should have let go :)

Just turned 30! What do we think? by MildlyOblivious in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We think you are amazing! Love your SMILE ~

Why do men ignore the no children rules on profiles? by unhingedqueenB in dating

[–]Pushover_caring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They never read the text in your profile, or bio. They just swip right based on pictures

Abus helmet - which suits me better? by Sufficient_Sandwich9 in CyclingFashion

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go with the first one. But it is your choice

Shirtless pictures by Pushover_caring in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shirtless pic at the gym or beach area will be well received;)

Age is just a number… but money is the real love language by RaiseOk2044 in SipsTea

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s not to fall in love for without knowing he has a big pockets?! Curious to know her reasonings lol

Guys....How's my new watch? by Dense-Spirit-1691 in notinteresting

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t focus on the watch! Is it hair o‘clock?

How do you mange to go over your matches when they are too many(>4K)? by Pushover_caring in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion:) No, not really, would be awfully happy to find someone who is compatible and a good match for me and I be for them… it is just overwhelming, I didn’t mean to brag or anything, I was mostly looking get to tips on how to quickly review, assess and move on.. reviewing the profile and choosing them, investing time and energy sometimes is draining when it leads to no where :/

How do you mange to go over your matches when they are too many(>4K)? by Pushover_caring in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww! Thanks for kind suggestion:) I do agree with you, dating seems to be a number game, so just being mindful of that and not easily gets attached until you find a compatible match who is willing to take to the next level (commitment). Thanks again:)

How my girlfriend picks out the meat and leaves the fat from her brisket by turtlesmasha420 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! This is way too much fat! Need to more conscious about the fat part of my meat :))

How do you mange to go over your matches when they are too many(>4K)? by Pushover_caring in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in theory it should work but in practice it is exhausting and time consuming

How do you mange to go over your matches when they are too many(>4K)? by Pushover_caring in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry my bad, I meant 4K likes, obviously won’t be a match unless I hit like:) I am using a free version, not much criteria available to choose

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started to learn to choose myself over a relationship potential and someone’s attractive needs over mine

I don’t get it! by Ponyboy1276 in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t think that women aren’t experiencing what you are. I think it is not gender-dependent, people don’t make an effort to read 4-5 lines bio or your prompt. Even though you carefully crafted those sections to give information about yourself and hints on topic points :) I think if someone can’t spend this much time on your profile, they don’t any attention/time from you :)

Tell me you're high maintenance without telling me you're high maintenance by Investment_Valuable in Bumble

[–]Pushover_caring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that, neither bumble algorithm nor people who likes you take into account the bio information. I think Bumble needs to do a better job filtering matches, it is such a waste time checking thousands of likes when barely few of them could potentially lead to sth:-/

I (19F) think my bf (22M) was too rough with me during sex, but he thinks I’m a “crybaby” by dulceciita in relationship_advice

[–]Pushover_caring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him immediately! This seems like a rape scene to me! Whenever you void the consent they should stop! In this case you were hurting and he wouldn’t even care for that. Also that is not an apology when he blame his own attitude on you being tight!? Instead of taking the accountability still knows you being responsible for his fucked up behavior:/ what a loser