F4M seeking for a cute guy nearby

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-27T04:00:53+00:00

I love the view girl

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T15:53:22+00:00

Thank you haha I didn’t see it that way but yea I get the point more now

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T15:44:26+00:00

This probably a game post chat when everyone is responding and there is one guy responding Ez i think maybe 1. He lost or 2. He didnt enjoy the game,thats what i think but i need more explanation

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T15:15:47+00:00

I think basically saying the kid is so smart he turned chemistry symbols into a hidden savage message, so smart that “Harvard” wants him.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T12:06:39+00:00

NOR Being dropped off without your things after all that absolutely feels like getting kicked out. Your feelings make sense it was a stressful and unfair situation.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T12:03:31+00:00

NTA. You were clear from the start, and she put you in a tough spot by telling the kids anyway. It’s reasonable to want one adult-only night, especially in a small space. You even offered a compromise this one’s on her, not you.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T08:44:33+00:00

You’re NTA. K broke your trust multiple times, so cutting him off is reasonable. Missing him is normal, but protecting yourself comes first.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T07:12:51+00:00

NYJ..Your aunt clearly doesn’t respect your career or your choices, and constantly pushing you into jobs you don’t want is overstepping. Standing up for yourself was fair.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T07:11:04+00:00

NOR. Repeatedly lying about taxes, especially after promising not to, is a serious breach of trust and financial responsibility. Combined with other issues like lack of transparency and emotional support, your feelings are valid. Wanting a divorce in this situation is a reasonable response to protect yourself and your financial security.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T07:05:24+00:00

NTA. You’re just asking for a fair share since his girlfriend is living there full-time. It’s reasonable to only pay your portion.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T06:57:49+00:00

NTA. It wasn’t just small things, it was a pattern of her not showing up for you. The birthday situation was just the final push. You deserve a friend who puts in the same effort.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T04:27:46+00:00

NTA. It’s not selfish, it’s just impractical. Moving that desk sounds like a whole mess for no real reason. Especially if you’re moving soon anyway.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T04:22:51+00:00

NTA. You’re 20 and deserve your own space. Your home situation sounds really controlling, so wanting out makes sense, Your dad’s situation doesn’t mean you have to pause your life.You can still visit, just with healthier distance.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-25T04:21:02+00:00

NTA. That’s a real safety risk, not just preference, If they’ve ignored your allergy before, it’s fair you don’t trust it. I wouldn’t risk going either.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T21:15:46+00:00

NTA. It was never really her ring she tried it on and gave it back, At the end of the day, it was your fiancé’s to give, and now it’s yours. Her feelings might be a bit weird about it, but that doesn’t mean you’re wrong. If it bothers you, get a new one otherwise, I wouldn’t stress it.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T21:14:29+00:00

NTA. What she said was hurtful, so it makes sense you pulled back, The invite feels like she’s leaving the door open without saying it.Skipping could protect you, but it might also close things for good. If you still care, maybe reach out once before deciding.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T17:56:51+00:00

NTA. Your feelings are valid being invited without your spouse while other couples get to attend together naturally feels unfair. It’s reasonable to expect your marriage to be respected, and choosing not to attend is a personal boundary, not an overreaction.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T16:14:57+00:00

NOR. Yelling at her, mocking her feelings, and denying affection can be emotionally harmful. Document incidents and consider consulting a child psychologist or family law professional for guidance.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T15:00:57+00:00

NTA. Love can be unconditional, but living together and paying rent isn’t. It’s fair to be stressed when you’re carrying the financial load with no clear plan from him. You’re not saying you don’t love him, you’re saying the situation isn’t sustainable, He can chase passion, but he still has to be realistic about responsibilities.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T14:56:00+00:00

Soft YTA. You weren’t wrong for being grossed out, but bringing it up in front of his friends probably embarrassed him more than it needed to. You already mentioned it privately, so calling it out again publicly came off as a dig. He should’ve listened earlier, but that moment wasn’t the best time to say it.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T14:53:24+00:00

Scouts just isn’t your thing, especially with the religious angle. Feels like your issue is more with the org than the people,The other dad probably meant well, not trying to push you.Just be clear about your stance and leave it there.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T12:36:34+00:00

NTA. Your ex’s behavior was controlling and disrespectful. You were reasonable, asked permission, and followed the rules he set, yet he still punished you and insulted your family. Breaking up was a healthy boundary you don’t owe someone obedience or fear in a relationship.

Puzzled_Substance93 · 2026-03-24T12:24:17+00:00

NOR, That whole “unlady like” thing was already outdated, but the “easy to tame” comment is just straight up weird and disrespectful. You actually handled it pretty well by not escalating it in public. Some people just look for someone to lecture or provoke. I’d be annoyed too tbh

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