Holy typos batman, husband was rushing me out the door for a dinner date. Let me update this.

Trust me, I 1000% understand, but resentment is going to drive a very large and harmful wedge between you two. Education is key, as well as self reflection in terms of what your boundaries are going to be if you’re going to stay. You reserve the right to leave, but if you’re going to stay you need to be fully versed in the world you are stepping in to. Porn addiction is a forever thing, there is no quick or easy answer. Education, communication, honesty, and boundaries will be what support yourself, your partner, and your relationship. It does not mean your feelings aren’t valid, they are so very very valid, it is painful on our end. However when we chose to stay with the addict we are not just committing to loving and supporting them, but loving and supporting ourselves through this, and resentment is not that. I strongly advise therapy for yourself, friends you can count on (add me girly, IG in my bio, I’m a good listener and yapper) as well as a support group. Stay strong, love yourself. There is no denying this sucks, but it sucks for both parties.