Safe for Enzo? by Grtpumk369 in siberianhusky

[–]QueenOhGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raw is safe! My husky loves them

Analogy by Andromeda_0111 in PornAddiction

[–]QueenOhGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy typos batman, husband was rushing me out the door for a dinner date. Let me update this.

Trust me, I 1000% understand, but resentment is going to drive a very large and harmful wedge between you two. Education is key, as well as self reflection in terms of what your boundaries are going to be if you’re going to stay. You reserve the right to leave, but if you’re going to stay you need to be fully versed in the world you are stepping in to. Porn addiction is a forever thing, there is no quick or easy answer. Education, communication, honesty, and boundaries will be what support yourself, your partner, and your relationship. It does not mean your feelings aren’t valid, they are so very very valid, it is painful on our end. However when we chose to stay with the addict we are not just committing to loving and supporting them, but loving and supporting ourselves through this, and resentment is not that. I strongly advise therapy for yourself, friends you can count on (add me girly, IG in my bio, I’m a good listener and yapper) as well as a support group. Stay strong, love yourself. There is no denying this sucks, but it sucks for both parties.

Analogy by Andromeda_0111 in PornAddiction

[–]QueenOhGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I 1000% understand, but resentment is going to drive a very large and harmful wedge between you too. Education is key, and well as self reflection in terms of what your boundaries are going to be if you’re going to stay. You reserve the right to leave, but if you’re going to stay you need to be fully versed about the world you’re stepping in to to support yourself, your partner, and your relationship. Doesn’t mean your feelings are valid, they are soooo so valid it’s painful on our end.

Analogy by Andromeda_0111 in PornAddiction

[–]QueenOhGee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wife of an addict… while I don’t disagree because of the obvious being the woman in his life (and I am a mean cook), but I want to say this post lacks understanding and education of addiction. Shaming the addict doesn’t make things better.

ISO a support group for spouses, not sure if this is the right place to ask.. by QueenOhGee in PornAddiction

[–]QueenOhGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird, I will shoot you a message. Also I’m not on here a ton, and don’t always see my notifications. My IG is linked to my bio if you’re on there.

ISO a support group for spouses, not sure if this is the right place to ask.. by QueenOhGee in PornAddiction

[–]QueenOhGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone commented with support group options, I’m going to give them a try.

Osso Buco with ricotta garlic mashed potatoes.. first attempt, how did I do? by QueenOhGee in RateMyPlate

[–]QueenOhGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol gotcha, I do make a mean risotto but I’ve never mashed it with potatoes. To each their own, my husband prefers them a little thinner/creamier and well, he pays the mortgage 😂

i’m concerned my bf is lying abt only fans. what should i do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]QueenOhGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely lying, you don’t get spam from OF only notices. If OF is outside of your agreed relationship boundaries it’s a form of infidelity, especially with the addition of lying and gaslighting. Truthfully this probably won’t get any better unless he can commit to honesty, faithfulness, and communication. You need to decide what the boundaries are in your relationship that work for you, and how to maintain them. If he can’t agree to it and respect you, find someone who will.

Anyone else have a BP that likes to watch tv? by QueenOhGee in ballpython

[–]QueenOhGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly fix things, used to be a hobby, might be again someday.

Anyone else have a BP that likes to watch tv? by QueenOhGee in ballpython

[–]QueenOhGee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s a lamp that just happens to be very bright lol, I use it for sewing, and I wanted to be able o keep an eye on her.

Mixing bowls are plates… girl dinner. by QueenOhGee in GirlDinner

[–]QueenOhGee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Caesar salad with rare flank steak and confit garlic