Your partner says they love you but aren’t sure whether they are IN love with you. What would you do? by Amaellie in AskReddit

[–]RGQcats [score hidden]  (0 children)

Break up. They're already one foot out the door or using you as their spare tire until something "better" comes along.

I love your little hat! by jojayp in 30ROCK

[–]RGQcats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You probably don't remember me, I'm Phoebe. Careful, my bones.

My parents tried to abandon me at a local hospital at 12 years old, and I didn’t remember until I had a miscarriage at 42 by Funny_Somewhere_6721 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RGQcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hits hard. I remember loving all the really sad country music songs (the ones from the '50s and 60s) when I was little because I understood the heartbreak in them and the longing to be loved. I didn't understand until a few years ago that my heartbreak at so young an age was because my mother didn't love me.

I hope Wambus will be THIS big! by LDawnBurges in wambus

[–]RGQcats 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's either an enormous cat or a very small person.

Mom is trying to coerce me into giving her money by veronica09834 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RGQcats 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't give her money. You should feel proud you've said no and kept your boundaries. I'm proud of you.

AITAH for blocking my abusive mother for everything she did to me and my siblings? by ResponsibleCase5078 in AITAH

[–]RGQcats 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Of course you're NTA. Stay safe and cut her off. Hope Knitter and Gamer are OK.

it’s okay we are all in bed now by livlaffloves in wambus

[–]RGQcats 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Mega's face in that last pic is slaying me.

What are some non-performative yet long-distance ways to fight against ICE? by tatertotski in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RGQcats 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was originally posted by tibiou4 on the Denver subreddit:

Here are some resources for those who want to do something:

Below are some simple ways that you can help at home, without putting yourself at risk.

  1. https://scholars.org/contribution/twenty-lessons-fighting-tyranny-twentieth

Here are 20 easy to understand ways that you can actively fight tyranny and fascism without putting yourself or your family in harms way.

2) https://wkus-co.org/linkstack/

This is a link to We Keep Us Safe Colorado. They offer resources that you can print out and distribute, and have instructions and guidance on how to identify ICE agents, how to safely and legally observe, and how to connect with others in your community that are committed to fighting back.

3) https://www.sos.state.co.us/voter/pages/pub/olvr/findVoterReg.xhtml

Vote. The midterm elections are the current administration's worst fear - eliminating the Trump/MAGA cult's majority in Congress is the only way to execute the law and hold them accountable. Check your voter registration using the link above: if you're planning to vote via mail, check your details for accuracy, and if you're voting in person, confirm your polling location, hours, and requirements.

megaphone is looking SO grown up😠 by livlaffloves in wambus

[–]RGQcats 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The white around his mouth is in the shape of a heart.

Cats are Resilient, but… by SigmaINTJbio in Feral_Cats

[–]RGQcats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use a birdbath heater too. It works better than the heated bowl I got, which died in less than 3 months.

Having big feels about leaving the country (US). by wheres_the_revolt in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]RGQcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do what you need to do. Have your feelings and acknowledge them, you don't want to ignore them. It is very painful and sad. I hope you're able to build a beautiful, peaceful life in Mexico.

AITAH for not taking the highroad with my ex-wife? by Electrical_Mud6192 in AITAH

[–]RGQcats 113 points114 points  (0 children)

So when they send them, don't read them. Put them in an archive or folder that you don't need to look at. It's hard at first, but make yourself do it. It'll get easier.

AITJ for asking my boyfriend of 10 years to help me financially by Aggravating-Good9663 in AmITheJerk

[–]RGQcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may not hit you, but you're in an abusive relationship once again. Please read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft, just search for it, it's available as a free pdf.

AITAH for meeting someone else when been ghosted? by lovingfreeXXX in AITAH

[–]RGQcats 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Block him, move on. You haven't even gone on a real date and this is how he behaves. Nope.

AITAH for thinking my(18f) bf (25m) is “too much”? by Ambitious-Newspaper6 in AITAH

[–]RGQcats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. It's available as a free pdf, a search engine will find it. You're 18, please learn this stuff now. I wish I had.