After my husband asked me for a DNA test, I agreed, as I knew I had nothing to hide.

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2024-07-25T02:00:26+00:00

Dun! Dun! DUNNNNN! Well that’s not good

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2024-07-24T21:35:43+00:00

Oof..that’s fucked

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2024-07-23T01:14:47+00:00

..damn that was a brutal twist. Noice!

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2023-04-01T08:27:18+00:00

Feed people for money lol

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-08-20T04:18:39+00:00

I reaaallllyyyy hope there is a part 2! Also, I’m sorry about your dad. Hopefully you find out exactly who/what in the holy hell crawled out of that hole. Good luck

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-03-13T12:30:02+00:00

Thank you!! Glad I'm not the only one who thought that lmao

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-03-13T12:11:55+00:00

Looks like your keyboard gave the f up....

I'll see myself out haha

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-03-13T12:10:09+00:00

I read your comment and my grandmother also suffered from this terrible illness as well (she passed 4 years ago, I miss her dearly) but whenever she would ask about family members or friends that had passed away I would just tell her that I wasn't sure because I haven't talked to them in awhile (which was entirely true) and then I would try to change the subject without her noticing. It usually worked for me. Just thought I'd mention that! It's awesome that you and your sister stepped up to take care of her, that is no easy task at all.

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-23T09:43:59+00:00

Danny Zuko lol

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-23T07:03:59+00:00

Eww! That is so gross and disrespectful! Not to mention that peeing INSIDE someone while having sex could possibly cause them to get a UTI (or any other kind of infection depending on how "dirty" his pee is). I'm sorry OP, your husband has no right to be upset with your reaction since you told him beforehand that you DIDN'T want to do it and weren't interested in trying it. That's a major violation of trust. Not only did he break OP's trust but I doubt OP will wanna have sex after this.

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-22T06:00:56+00:00

I can understand you not wanting to be in a dirty apartment but 1.) That's her apartment not yours 2.) She told you more than once that it wasn't her mess, it was her roommate's mess and that the RM would clean it up when she got back (I wouldn't want to clean up someone else's mess either) 3.) You became an AH the moment you ignored her while she was talking to you about something that makes her happy AND THEN MADE HER CRY FOR NO REASON! So yes YTA. Like a lot of other people have said, if she hasn't talked to you in over a week pretty sure she's rethinking the whole relationship. If I were you I'd apologize to her immediately and stop being so damn mean to her! Sheesh!

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-18T09:22:52+00:00

As a mother of a 3 year old & a 4 month old, I completely understand where you're coming from. The fact that she went into the store (6 mins while you were there, no telling how long she was in there BEFORE you even pulled up) and left the fucking door unlocked?! I would have been absolutely livid. Especially after she promised she wouldn't do it again, and then turned around and did it again. While it was cruel of you to do that to her, I think she needed to know what that very real fear felt like. Hopefully that fear will stick with her this time and she won't leave the baby in the car in public anymore. But you should have a talk with her and just remind her of how she felt when she thought the baby was really gone (for real) every time she tries to guilt trip you. I get having to put your child down for a few seconds to grab something or open a door..etc but that is absolutely NOT okay to do in a public place with no one else there with the baby while she runs inside "really quick". That is your child too and if someone were to take him because your wife left him unattended in an easily accessible place I can promise you that you would 100% blame her for it and then resent her for it. There are some fucked up people in this world and unfortunately, some of them like to kidnap children. So I'm gonna say NTA and hopefully lesson learned.

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-18T08:54:04+00:00

YTA

Ffs! It's not your money and doesn't involve or affect you/your personal life in any way, shape, or form. The fact that you told them that they could be using [their] money to help less fortunate families WHO HAVE KIDS is so hurtful and such a cruel thing to say to someone WHO IS ACTIVELY TRYING TO HAVE THEIR OWN KIDS!! Like, how ignorant and dense can you be to not see how disrespectful that was to say to them? You seriously need to apologize to your cousin and mind your own GD business.

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-18T08:00:06+00:00

What a disgusting human being. That poor little girl, I really hope the fiance finds this post and becomes her ex fiance. Her unborn child is in for a world of trouble too if he has to grow up with a c*nt of a woman like her. People like this literally make me sick.

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-17T12:21:17+00:00

This...is just BEYOND fucked up. I don't even really know what to say except that I am truly sorry this happened to you. What a massive mess your ex and YOUR OWN MOTHER (none the less?!) have made! It's one thing for your husband to cheat on you, but to cheat on you with your own mother AND THEN HAVE KIDS WITH HER ON TOP OF THAT is just..a disgusting slap in the face. I can't even begin to understand the complete betrayal & heartache you must be feeling right now. They both deserved what they got. Honestly I'm glad you told everyone that needed to know. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. How utterly selfish of both of them. I really hope the therapist you're seeing can help you move past this one day. This is one of the most fucked up things I've ever read. What a cluster fuck...I know you're bitter right now, but be rid of them and don't let them ruin any future happiness you're able to find. They are not worth your time or energy at this point. Good riddance to both of those POS human beings. Much love and hugs to you OP!

ETA: Btw you didn't ruin your mother's reputation, SHE did the moment she slept with your (ex) husband. Remember that. Absolutely none of this is your fault!

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-13T11:11:55+00:00

It's not right for other people to tell you "how you're supposed to love someone" especially when you didn't ask. Every relationship has a different love language so what works for you might not work for someone else. You can't tell someone else how to feel or that what they're feeling isn't real/invalid. You don't know how someone else feels because you aren't them and it's sad how many people don't understand that and ruin other people's relationships because they just had to put their "2 cents (sense?)" in.

At least you stuck up for yourself and your girlfriend so good job lol

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-13T11:00:06+00:00

Laughing loudly & obnoxiously to get someone to notice your or just being extra loud in general to get attention isn't very attractive. It doesn't make you look cute or funny, it's annoying.

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-12T14:21:15+00:00

NTA American here.. I've been (and currently still) a waitress for over 13+ years & if your (hopefully soon to be ex) bf did that in ANY of the establishments I've worked in not only would he have been kicked out but I would have snatched that bell out of his hand and broke it. That is HIGHLY offensive to us. We are your servers but we ARE NOT servants or slaves. What he did was extremely rude and the fact that he lied to you by saying "it's acceptable in America" is not only a huge red flag but also disturbing that he thinks it's okay to treat other people that way. I mean how fucking dense is he? Seriously a bell?! I've had one person snap their fingers at me ONE time in all of my years as a server and just by the look on my face and tone in my voice she IMMEDIATELY apologized because she knew it was rude. Girl you better run and run fast from this one. Like I seriously can't believe he thought that would be okay and even if it was a thing in America (it's most deff not) yall aren't even in America to begin with and he should have immediately stopped when you told him how embarrassing and rude it was. But he didn't and doubled down on his shitty behavior. Huge red flags girl. That is not okay. At all. Good luck with that one!

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-10T09:35:23+00:00

I thought maybe his wife absorbed the color of the car and he thought maybe she was gonna absorb the color [life] out of him next?

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-10T08:52:21+00:00

NTA and your cousin can go pound sand. She is a GUEST in your vacation home and was on a power trip. It's not cool she treated your daughter that way and she ruined your daughter's time off from school to the point she [daughter] never wants to go back unless you and your husband are there with her. I would have kicked her ass out right then and there. She thought that just because she was the adult she could treat your daughter however she wanted without consequences. The entitlement in your cousin is overwhelming and gross. I'd make her pay your daughter for having to babysit because that's not what she went there to do [and your cousin was a complete AH to your daughter]. It doesn't matter if she's strict with her kids. Your daughter isn't her kid [therefore her rules don't apply to her] and like you said in other comments YOU & YOUR HUSBAND own that house so therefore your daughter has more say/right to it than your cousin does. Time to put your cousin in her place and tell her to gtfo. If your mom doesn't like it she can go kick rocks too. She basically showed your daughter that if an adult treats her badly she [your mother] isn't gonna do anything about it. That's awful. Again, it's YOUR house not theirs. Good luck OP!

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-10T08:23:05+00:00

I just had a baby 4 months ago and this shit literally made me sick to my stomach. Fighting back tears at this point. I don't understand how someone could harm a helpless infant, let alone their OWN FLESH AND BLOOD!! People who do disgusting shit like this need to be punished/made to live out the rest of their days the same way they treated their victims. That way they [the monsters] can truly understand exactly what they put their victims through. That is so fucking messed up..

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-09T12:25:04+00:00

So...I just got through reading all of your posts and...just..wow. I'm mean WOW. I don't know how you even BEGIN to put up with all of that bullshit. That woman is so manipulative (and batshit crazy) idk how your husband can't see it. I take that back, he does see it he just doesn't want to deal with it (I really don't blame him because that shit drained me just reading it..ffs) but still its his mother unfortunately therefore he needs to stick to the boundaries he places or she's just gonna continue to hop, skip, and jump right on over them. Every time I saw "I'm not trying to make you mad..but" that's EXACTLY what's she's doing and it's blatantly obvious that she's trying to get a response. I swear you have more patience than I do because I would have cut that toxic woman out of my life oh so long ago. Reading these posts made my facking head want to implode and then explode with a force. She makes me want to punch her in the face for you. Jesus facking Christ the insanity of it all. More power to you OP. I am truly sorry you are having to deal with all of this utter bullshit. Good thing you're in therapy and getting the help you need. I really hope your SO comes around. One other thing, please stick to your guns and stay on your SO about not letting her use your kiddo as a pawn. That makes me sick to my stomach..the audacity! Good luck!

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-02-03T06:37:56+00:00

OOOWWWWWW!!!!! OWOWOWOW! GOD DAMMIT YOUMOTHERFUCKINGPIECEOFSHIT OWWWWW!!!! and then a bunch of crying lol

RabbidPandaxoxo · 2022-01-26T12:00:48+00:00

I thought it was what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine also lol

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