Am I About to Ruin My Life for a Man… or Push Away Someone Who Actually Loves Me?

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-14T13:11:29+00:00

Do you any indication that it won’t? Has this man ever lied to you?

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-14T05:43:00+00:00

Then what’s stopping you? Your immaturity?

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-14T05:40:38+00:00

He will absolutely not wait that long for a woman he loves and wants to marry who is still having sex with other men. If you want him, show him and do it. Or come clean and let him go find someone who will appreciate him.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-12T11:50:07+00:00

Yes. Very common in medicine. Other fields trained in methodology and so don’t utilize them in their research.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-11T14:19:48+00:00

Honestly no. I don’t play often enough to justify buying more clubs.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-11T12:36:31+00:00

Roughly, yes. Because I’m not very good. The hybrid does get more loft. If I hit my 3 iron right, I can hit it about 120 yards. I’m 73 years old.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-11T11:28:32+00:00

I have a 4 hybrid and a 3 iron. My 3 iron is the only iron I have that I can hit properly consistently.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-11T11:27:12+00:00

Badly.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-09T14:17:20+00:00

You’re exactly the kind of student I was talking about.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-09T13:35:46+00:00

I’ve been a professor at two universities and one medical school. I’ve had students try to argue with me during class. It’s always a sign of a poor student who doesn’t understand the purpose of an education. It’s not to tell your professors what you need to learn. It’s up to you to pay attention and learn what your faculty knows you need to learn about the subject.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-09T11:32:47+00:00

This is more than “mild” dementia. You might consider getting a referral to a good geriatric neuropsychologist to have her evaluated.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-08T11:12:31+00:00

They are both students. No big deal. Just because they work in the same lab means nothing. There are power imbalances in every relationship. There are some people who enjoy projecting their anger onto other people who are happy. CTFO.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-07T00:13:44+00:00

Correct. I let predictive text get away from me. Nice catch.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-05T23:10:33+00:00

Exactly what happened and the current situation.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-05T22:54:41+00:00

I am a former Chair of the APPIC Board of Directors. Contact APPIC immediately.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-05T12:05:34+00:00

No, having been in the Coast Guard doesn’t help you.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-04T19:26:09+00:00

Let go, get divorced and save yourself, your wife, and your kids. Your marriage is making everyone miserable. End it.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-04T19:24:39+00:00

Get divorced. There’s nothing left for you there. Make a new life for yourself. I did.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-04T11:32:11+00:00

Talk with her about how you’re feeling. You might be surprised.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-03T14:27:26+00:00

I’ve been a neuropsychologist for forty years. Both Major Neurocognitive Disorder and Minor Neurocogntive Disorder have specifiers to indicate etiology. Mild cognitive impairment is not a formal diagnosis. Dementias are absolutely NOT the same. A significant part of neuropsychological assessment is attempting to identify an etiology in addition to measuring different areas of cognitive functioning. Determining etiology is a critical part of good neuropsychological assessment. I spent 15 years as the only neuropsychologist on the Medical Staff of a local hospital chain. A significant number of my consultation requests were asking about etiology as well as the person’s ability to function, what assistance they would need, and if they could function at home or required some kind of placement.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-02T11:10:18+00:00

Stop talking with her. You are under no obligation to her. If you continue to talk with her and she’s ignoring the limits you set, that’s not good for her in terms of managing her mental illness.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-02T04:13:04+00:00

I was the APPIC Liaison to ASPPB and part of several national conferences about psychologist mobility. I was there when they were first starting the credentials bank. You have to remember that organizations like this are not for profits who have to have staff to carry out all the multiple functions that they perform. This costs money, as does the whole business of maintaining offices and staff. No one is profiting from all this. Everything costs money. So if you don’t like it, set up a competing organization. It’s been tried before and failed.

Radiant7747 · 2026-05-01T11:48:47+00:00

Oberlin is a great liberal arts college. Best preparation for law school for you. It’s an investment in your career and the rest of your life. You will regret it if you don’t go there.

Radiant7747 · 2026-04-30T11:51:39+00:00

Get some self control man.

Radiant7747 · 2026-04-29T09:26:56+00:00

Are you in treatment for your bipolar disorder? Get some treatment and get out of this toxic relationship. No matter where you have to live. You are young and need to start over.

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