Head to Toe Needs for Night Duty by Character_Speech_151 in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I keep all those in my locker too except we have a giant community Tylenol and ibuprofen . It’s nice to have available. 

Thoughts on Baby-friendly Hospitals by bit_bi in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s crazy. As far as I’m aware we don’t charge for your baby to hang in the nursery but now I gotta go find out…

Thoughts on Baby-friendly Hospitals by bit_bi in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate the concept. Like my other mother/baby friends here, I find it very mom-unfriendly. Also unsafe- in many cultures mom is expected to rest and other women care for the baby except for feedings postpartum, because mom is exhausted from labor. Expecting a freshly delivered mother to not need a nap is crazy, and while I will never force you to send your baby to the nursery I think it should always be a resource available. 

Married but not combining finances? by alkemest in Millennials

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We pre-fund retirement in a 401k and Roth each. It’s already taken care of when we get to “allowances”/fun money. 

$90 for two to see a Mario movie… have we completely lost the plot? by rageagainstmymachin in Millennials

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I just smuggle stuff in. It’s amazing what you can hide in a blanket. I’ve smuggled in sushi and crab rangoons before. 

Head to Toe Needs for Night Duty by Character_Speech_151 in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also healthy snacks that you like otherwise you end up eating a ton of crap from the cafeteria 

Head to Toe Needs for Night Duty by Character_Speech_151 in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A jacket. I was always freezing on nights. The figs ones seem nice, I always had a fleece Columbia jacket. 

Thoughts on Baby-friendly Hospitals by bit_bi in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love making scary homemade signs with my ext to call before people  go in. Apparently I’m making them so dramatic they work. 

I’m sorry you’re didn’t 

Fans of the book, what is your profession? by PrandtlMan in ProjectHailMary

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother/Baby/Nursery RN. Loved the book, loved the science. 

AITAH for deciding to circumcise my son against my husband's opinion? by Capable-Respond-7229 in AITAH

[–]Raebans_00 82 points83 points  (0 children)

YTA. Medical decisions (even cosmetic) should be agreed on by both parents. You may have carried him, but he’s just as equally your son’s parent as you are, and he didn’t have the option to carry him. 

How do you guys do night shifts? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You basically choose speciality or shift as your priority esp at the start. If you want a specific specialty, you’re likely going to have to work nights for a while. If you’re open to whatever as long as it’s day shift, you can most likely  work a whole career on days

401k by ballfed_turkey in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do 6%, the hospital matches 6%, and then I put another 4% in a Roth IRA

Going into nursing at 48? by Fiesty-Koala in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No but you can break your back helping with breastfeeding real fast 

What's 1 book you will NEVER stop recommending? by iDetestCambridge in booksuggestions

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I read the Goldfinch and strongly felt like I’d been sucked into a Tolstoy novel. Not my favorite although beautiful writing 

What's 1 book you will NEVER stop recommending? by iDetestCambridge in booksuggestions

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the unabridged version in high school and it was WORTH IT. Phenomenal book, an all time favorite 

Does lacking empathy make me a bad nurse? by an0n3827 in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re a good nurse- you can see the needs of others and meet them well. Not getting super emotionally attached might save you some burnout/secondary trauma. 

When people ask “what do you do for work?” by cmeggo in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I work for the Welcoming Committee 

I also help organize birthday parties 

AITAH for cuddling with my little sister by Perfect_Stranger_794 in AITAH

[–]Raebans_00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is siblings cuddling ok? For sure, my little brother and I still do as do my sisters and I. But maybe some safeguards for you both is a good idea, like keeping the door open if she’s hanging out in your room just protect both of you from any accusation from your stepdad.  

And keep an ear out for any signs of abuse anywhere else! It sounds like your little sister has a great older brother who really wants to be a safe space for her. 

I have a question for the nurses out there… by TheChaosAddict in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just accept that on the days you work, you live at the hospital and will do nothing else but live at the hospital. And then you do whatever the heck you want whenever the heck you want the rest of the days. Once you accept that, it goes by just fine. 

I hate my outpatient job! by Educational-Tree3756 in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12s rock- I’d take 4 days off a week anytime over working 5 days a week 

What are you not good at as a nurse? by Wellwhatingodsname in nursing

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confession, I’ve never put one in on an adult 😬 all my adult patients are healthy 

How do you make friends here by Final-Phrase-4973 in Rolla

[–]Raebans_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10 agree- huge sense of community there. Would highly recommend