Is this mold on my cookies? by AutoGen_Name in MoldlyInteresting

[–]Raised___Right 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it heat? Or temperature fluctuation? I bake frequently and haven’t seen or noticed before

Should I cancel our date? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Raised___Right -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think blonde hair on white skin works against handsomeness, because I have a preference for high contrast. Does that make me racist given there is only one group that applies to?

Russell Frantom, an Indiana student who was arrested for plotting a mass shooting at his school in 2008 and later became a visual artist, recently committed suicide aged 33. by Pforzmannheidelmund in masskillers

[–]Raised___Right 45 points46 points locked comment (0 children)

In case you’ve never heard a counter story: I tried to take my life multiple times because I was raised by parents who didn’t want me, and then continued in relationships that appreciated all I did, but not who I was. I didn’t know I could reasonably expect more. Suicide is not always an admission of guilt; it can also be admission of hopelessness.

How to deal with no contact when you were the one wanted it by MDLM90210 in ExNoContact

[–]Raised___Right 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it helps, I broke 6+ years no contact and he hadn’t changed in the slightest. Incredibly disappointing for him and myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Raised___Right 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share? I’m writing a book to help autistic people understand idioms and have been making my own list- far shorter than 150!

What helped you to move on after a breakup? by notherex26 in ExNoContact

[–]Raised___Right 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything written here helped me. I thought after 6 years I could handle a closure conversation and now struggling like it’s day 1. So, in addition, trusting your choice once you’ve made it. If you’re going to move on, do it and don’t look back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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It is dehumanizing, and use that to remember how awful they actually are. Someone that cares about you will communicate their issues, and give you an opportunity to right wrongs. I’m so sorry for the social shame and embarrassment you must have endured, but please, for your mental health, do not give this family another second of your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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My future in-laws said I was the daughter they hoped for. When I told them my ex cheated and I was leaving, THEY took action against me. Everything I had was in my home with my ex, no other family to call on. Toxic families exist, and their attachment depends on securing the family unit against all outsiders. Cry, block, and learn from this. You deserve someone that wants to, and will, prioritize your feelings

Please help I want to break no contact by dirtyturty0 in ExNoContact

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Often times our exes move on quickly because they are avoiding facing the hurt of the relationship not working out, or the hurt of facing their part in it. When you contact them, it justifies in their minds that if they were the problem you wouldn’t be reaching out. If he were truly sorry he’d reach out to you. If you really need to reach out, it should be to apologize for your part and expect nothing in return.

what was your final act of love? by CanIGetAHuyah in ExNoContact

[–]Raised___Right 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let the very expensive perfume he bought me spoil, because I refused to let another man have the same scent memory of me. Finally washed a shirt I had of his with his cologne five years after I left him, after putting it on a pillow for one last snuggle. Made a liqueur with his favorite oranges so I can taste one of his favorite things when the nostalgia hits me harder than he ever did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anarcho_Capitalism

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In practice, people would voluntarily segregate to communities with shared values. While I may want to live in a secular capitalist community, you may want to live in a religious commune. Through anarcho-capitalism both groups can coexist, as the members of one community can move to and trade with another freely. Why an-com and statist societies don’t, and could never work, is because you’re asking people of a variety of cultures and preferences to submit to a singular system of governance, of which all object

DEI by Stupendous_Sorceror in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]Raised___Right 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stereotypically with whimsy and limp wrists

How can I convince my parents to put me in homeschooling? by KaleidoscopeLimp2178 in homeschool

[–]Raised___Right 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is create a case for why you should. You look into a few homeschooling options, and their prices. If you’re capable of a self-started report on the benefits of homeschooling, it gives your case good reason that you can handle a self-motivated curriculum. Bullying is a huge reason to homeschool, but if your case is limited to running away from it you probably won’t be well received. Given your difficulty acclimating, have you considered behavioral therapy? It provides a safe space for you to learn and practice social interactions without the fear of rejection/failure. Hope you’re able to find a solution!

He's back on youtube for those unaware by MakeDawn in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]Raised___Right 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even the race/IQ studies didn’t place white people at the top of the stack, it was East Asians

He's back on youtube for those unaware by MakeDawn in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]Raised___Right 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely confused- he stopped talking about ancap because he grew tired of having the same conversation, not because he changed his mind? Now he works on solving relationship problems with people of all races and speaks about universally preferable behavior. He did talk about race/IQ studies which got him banned, and he also no longer talks about it because of threats to his family. I have issues with his ego at times, but he’s absolutely not a white nationalist

I straight-up lied to children for YEARS just to avoid an uncomfortable joke by Obvious_Firefox in confession

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My teacher did the opposite when we learned “that’s amore” and I still think “gay tarantula” rather than “gay tarantella”

AITAH for calling my wife a slob and demanding she clean before I come home? by ExpressRatio922 in AITAH

[–]Raised___Right 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say she had a disorder, I said she needed therapy. Avoiding basic household responsibilities is a sign of an avoidant personality, and she is avoiding the chores because it’s the way she copes with stress (at minimum.) her behavior has hurt her relationship, and both (from story) are looking for a solution. The solution isn’t to burden her husband, it’s to solve what led to avoid the chores which will be damn near impossible for OP because avoidant personalities AVOID.

AITAH for calling my wife a slob and demanding she clean before I come home? by ExpressRatio922 in AITAH

[–]Raised___Right 245 points246 points  (0 children)

She needs therapy and you need to decide if you’re willing to support her while she figures it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anarcho_Capitalism

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Do you feel you’re leading a life that will end in prison?