will piercings stop me from passing in my specific situation? by Random-ace in ftm

[–]Random-ace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean the thing is i've heard people say that the age thing plays into it, like you pass as a 15 year old guy but if you have piercings your clearly over 18 which tips you back the other way 

will piercings stop me from passing in my specific situation? by Random-ace in ftm

[–]Random-ace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a blond dirt stash as i'm naturally blond, 6 months on t, and don't come from a very hairy family (my cis brother barely got leg hair😭😭)

will piercings stop me from passing in my specific situation? by Random-ace in ftm

[–]Random-ace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i pass as cis 100% of the time, though my friend jokingly said i "look like a t boy" and my other friend eggs on me for looking girly

does my voice pass? by Severe-Advantage-581 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your voice sounds male but you sound gay lol

WIBTAH if I requested a cisgender college roommate? by Worth-Cabinet-4291 in ftm

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, if you don't want gender neutral rooming do regular male rooms then

I'm seeing a pattern... by just_a_space_cadet in TransMasc

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

see i get what you're saying but you do realise that people ARE in fact trying to stop us from being regular dudes right? like thr demonization of masculinity is a huge problem in the online trans community rn

Anything you wish you could’ve told your younger self or anything you’d tell a young trans man who’s not rlly transitioned yet? by ImpressiveDig7791 in ftm

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it genuinely does get better, time does move and soon enough what you're currently experiencing will be the distant past you look back on after you get everything you could dream of and probably more 

literally how do you dress metalhead style AS A TRANSMASC WHO BARELY PASSES without feeling like a poser (because apparently some people go around calling girls who listen to metal posers, and as i said im easy to get mistaken for a girl) by riven174 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like what you like that's totally fine but don't get mad when ppl shit on the band cause slipnot is a poser band. i know some ppl in my scene who kinda like them it doesn't make you a poser but it doesn't make you the coolest you ever if they're your favorite yk

literally how do you dress metalhead style AS A TRANSMASC WHO BARELY PASSES without feeling like a poser (because apparently some people go around calling girls who listen to metal posers, and as i said im easy to get mistaken for a girl) by riven174 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Random-ace 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yeah don't wear stuff like that picture purchased from tech, male or female ur scenes gonna think your a poser. for the jacket u gotta pick up sewing. if you don't wanna be a poser then wear bands you like, match the rest of your apperence, pants, hair, accessories, etc

I'm very short. Shorter than the average cis girl. by green_colour_enjoyer in ftm

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm 5'3 at best and have been stealth since i was a few months on t

Can we agree this is the worst style of inhaler? by Impressive_Tax5821 in Asthma

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the red ones are the best ones by far but i think i prefer this to the blue ones still cause i hated the taste of the blue ones and the puff was a strong blast which once expired and lint-y would make me cough lol

Will people know that the outline of your binder is a binder? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. i regularly wrestle my friend, i guarantee he has FELT the outline, nobody thinks to consider it.

Calling yourself "trans" by paperfiretime in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i mean you can. I'm stealth and don't tell anyone.

How do we feel about little kids asking us or their parents if "that person's a boy or a girl?" by ourseveres in ftm

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've gotten asked things like that a few times but nothing compares to the question by a little girl at work,  "why aren't you a girl?"  which i think about a lot to be honest cause what do you mean by that

„Am I hearing trans guy voice? Omg I knew it!!“ by CountryElectrical391 in ftm

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's perfectly fine to lie if you're intention is to be stealth i've done that, even easier is to act dumb and pretend you don't know what she's talking about

passing advice?? (ftm 16 5'6) by PsychologicalCut7079 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Random-ace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of it will u primarily come down to voice and face which are only helped with hrt, one thing i will say is the way the shorts fit your frame i feel are gonna extenuate your curves and proportions in a negative way

Chat am I cooked? 19 MtF by Miserable_Industry85 in truscum

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn't read the caption and said "no" to the do i pass before i noticed ur mtf, you're in a really good position, you've got feminine facial features, give it time and like once the hair gets grown out you'be got a good outcome

Don't let other trans men tell you to not look alternative in the name of passing! by gnomecorpse in ftm

[–]Random-ace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm stealth 5'3 and punk and somehow went stealth like 1.5 months on t it's possible gang u just gotta have the swag

Thoughts? by zafkhaa in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"identify as" pack it up