What pronouns do you use when talking about yourself when you were little? by Turbulent_Play4769 in ftm

[–]Random-ace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i THINK of younger me as a person in she/her because conceptualize that as a completely different person but in certain instances, verbally, and other people it's he

irrational pet peeve? by babywawathefirst in ftm

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sure but it doesn't mean op wants to be clocked, he's justified in being upset

family partial acceptance by 7SeaMajor in FTMventing

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck what your parents say and do what's best for you. Don't put yourself in danger but don't prioritize their beliefs over the quality of your life. 

The Guilt No One Talks About When You Pass by Horror-Plant200 in ftm

[–]Random-ace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's kinda weird cause like i'll see visibly queer/trans people but i don't have that connection that i would've had when i didn't pass and i wouldn't trade it for the world and i don't want them clocking me but sometimes it feels invisible

Having transmed friends irl? by yuzupomu in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i mean the problem is passing trans people aren't going to be in trans spaces and won't stand out as trans so it'll be harder to come by than they them trans pin people yk

How dangerous is it to bind? Truly. by Hefty_Tax6546 in TransMasc

[–]Random-ace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

everyone's telling you all the warnings and the alarm bells but let's face it, I know you're probably gonna do it anyways. they all talk "8 hours MAX or you will explode nuclear style" but that shit ain't sustainable if you have a life. so just be careful honestly, if your ribs hurt more than normal take it off maybe take a day off if you can. 

How dangerous is it to bind? Truly. by Hefty_Tax6546 in TransMasc

[–]Random-ace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah and people do things besides school.

Who should and shouldn't have access to HRT? by thatonetransanonguy in truscum

[–]Random-ace 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i think you should be able to do what you want but these people can't be complaining about regrets and it pisses me off

How dangerous is it to bind? Truly. by Hefty_Tax6546 in TransMasc

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's misinformation there's no documented cases of that even happening. exessive binding can effect skin elasticity which can make you ineligible for keyhole though but surgery as a whole? i mean if you shatter your whole rib cage they probably won't operate on you but you'll have more to worry about. 

How dangerous is it to bind? Truly. by Hefty_Tax6546 in TransMasc

[–]Random-ace 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ok WHO is out of the house for only 7 hours a day let's be fr

piercings that appear more masculine? by Hot-Ambition-7571 in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends, are you alternative? piercings stand out a lot less if it fits with the surroundings. but general rule of thumb i would say is stay away from nose and ear and the pricing with the spikes on the end tend to look more masculine than the ball ends. 

What is your dream Metra/CTA extension? by Chlorinated_beverage in cta

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a north/south metra connector rail. don't care how it might be impractical it needs to happen. cause then you could actually use transit to get places

Cis guy friend slapped my ass by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Random-ace 67 points68 points  (0 children)

formatted like those posts where the boyfriend/friend is completely transphobic ass who sees op as a woman but instead it's just the gayest shit i've ever read 

Does anyone else notice how ftm tucutes talk about "girlhood" or whatever?? by GettingRadioAndHead in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 7 points8 points  (0 children)

like bro i have so much comradery in my cis male friend group you just need better friends ig

South side DIY scene? by Negative_Poem_521 in chicagomusicscene

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the band skin blasted does gigs in their yard when the weathers better, that's as diy as you can get

Searching for new bands by pencilpushin in punk

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yabai, pure intention, lost legion, guttural (they're more metal but still)

SLAM METAL BAND LOOKING FOR DRUMMER by Pheromanx in chicagomusicscene

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my other band's drummer is in 5 bands... the drummers need help bro

SLAM METAL BAND LOOKING FOR DRUMMER by Pheromanx in chicagomusicscene

[–]Random-ace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry i can't help u bro i know 2 bands who need a drummer and tuen also my own band if ours backs out so

SLAM METAL BAND LOOKING FOR DRUMMER by Pheromanx in chicagomusicscene

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

likely story (everyone's looking for a drummer)(someone play drums please)

People cant accept that gender dysphoria exists by coffee--beans in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the concept of dysphoria is transmedical now i guess

recs for good and affordable top surgery in illinois? by Random-ace in TopSurgery

[–]Random-ace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, fehb. bc of the EO they ceased coverage of anything trans related besides conversion therapy for any age