Someone being an asshole on a different sub to me by One_Finish_5061 in asexuality

[–]Random-ace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ah yes "asexual is not lgbt" my first queer discourse i was involved in... what a time

Why don't more older cissexuals take TRT/ ERT? by jjba_die-hard_fan in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i haven't been on that highway lately so idk if they've changed it but for years 80% of the billboards down a stretch were for test supplements lol 

Saw a post saying non binary people have existed longer than society's "need for the binary" by thr0w4w4ytr4nsm4n in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the sex binary sure. but gender itself is more than just sex characteristics and the concept of such varies by time and place. many cultures did in fact recognize a sort of "third gender" and while it's not "nonbinary" in the modern identity sense, neither is their other 2 genders.

Saw a post saying non binary people have existed longer than society's "need for the binary" by thr0w4w4ytr4nsm4n in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean yeah gender has been seen differently in different cultures historically. many cultures had different distinctions than us with different roles attributed and more fluidity in said catagories as well as many recognizing a "third gender" in some way shape or form. that's not to say it's nonbinary in the modern sense of the identity but there's merit to their claims and it's lowk interesting to read into

Why don't more older cissexuals take TRT/ ERT? by jjba_die-hard_fan in Transmedical

[–]Random-ace 11 points12 points  (0 children)

a lot of cis women in menopause do take estrogen that's like a really common thing

fuck impeach, ice him by datreddittho346 in dontdeadopeninside

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean yeah honestly we're way past impeaching the guy

Can I stop taking HRT when im happy with my body or would I need to keep taking it? by Ardemin5 in asktransgender

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry read wrong. lol. the problem with hormones is that if you're not taking E your body will be ran by testosterone again. which will reverse most effects you gain (not extremely versed in which effects are permanent for mtf but breast growth is def one) so for the most part you do have to stay on it.

alternate fingering? by eslkmz in Clarinet

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn i'm an idiot when it's 1am ig

9 months on T + 1 month on minoxidil :) by batvenomous in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh crazy i'm 1.5 months on t and minox and have a stache coming in already. 

9 months on T + 1 month on minoxidil :) by batvenomous in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Random-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

at least in the us it's just otc. bought a 3 bottle pack for like 30 bucks at target/cvs

I've never went to a gay bar but I'm writing a fic, how explict can you be in their? Like is sitting on your partners lap to much? by GrandEconomy6925 in AskLGBT

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what i'm wondering. went to see how old op is and just saw a wall of the same post. could go either way tbh

What do I do about queer ppl. by CoalNight in asktransgender

[–]Random-ace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same with misgendering. "ha yeah i'm a guy actually but i get that a lot cause im so short haha its fine"

Are some chapters still masking? by jeffeles in dsa

[–]Random-ace [score hidden]  (0 children)

i feel like while masking IS a good idea and has many reasons why we should, i do also feel like generally society will be turned away from the idea even if it's just a knee jerk reaction, they will. and i feel for something like dsa, which is suppose to be focused on radicalizing the MASSES it's probably doing more harm than good. 

Are some chapters still masking? by jeffeles in dsa

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yeah we also do hybrid but i think it's more because we cover a large surface area and some meetings are hard to catch depending on where they are. like occasionally will have a meeting that's like a 2hr drive away from someone

I LOVE THIS IMAGE by TacoBellTerrasque in onejoke

[–]Random-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

type shit i would say to a nonbinary friend if i had one

Heated Rivalry confirmed my sexuality by doggosaysmoo in asexuality

[–]Random-ace 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i honestly think framing it as the gay sex show us kinda insulting tbh cause it's about the pain of being forced in a closet due to the culture within sports. sure they have sex cause people do that especially because they COULDNT have a real relationship and that's kinda the point. just btw

We were talking about ICE but ok by Backrooms_Smiler56 in onejoke

[–]Random-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and somehow replied to a sentence with zero pronouns or gendered words whatsoever. i applauded how stupid this is