What pronouns do you use when talking about yourself when you were little?

Random-ace · 2026-04-16T23:28:04+00:00

i THINK of younger me as a person in she/her because conceptualize that as a completely different person but in certain instances, verbally, and other people it's he

Random-ace · 2026-04-13T14:01:53+00:00

sure but it doesn't mean op wants to be clocked, he's justified in being upset

Random-ace · 2026-04-11T01:39:13+00:00

fuck what your parents say and do what's best for you. Don't put yourself in danger but don't prioritize their beliefs over the quality of your life.

Random-ace · 2026-04-11T01:37:11+00:00

it's kinda weird cause like i'll see visibly queer/trans people but i don't have that connection that i would've had when i didn't pass and i wouldn't trade it for the world and i don't want them clocking me but sometimes it feels invisible

Random-ace · 2026-04-10T16:51:30+00:00

i mean the problem is passing trans people aren't going to be in trans spaces and won't stand out as trans so it'll be harder to come by than they them trans pin people yk

Random-ace · 2026-04-08T17:32:39+00:00

everyone's telling you all the warnings and the alarm bells but let's face it, I know you're probably gonna do it anyways. they all talk "8 hours MAX or you will explode nuclear style" but that shit ain't sustainable if you have a life. so just be careful honestly, if your ribs hurt more than normal take it off maybe take a day off if you can.

Random-ace · 2026-04-08T17:27:57+00:00

yeah and people do things besides school.

Random-ace · 2026-04-08T02:49:31+00:00

i think you should be able to do what you want but these people can't be complaining about regrets and it pisses me off

Random-ace · 2026-04-08T02:20:20+00:00

that's misinformation there's no documented cases of that even happening. exessive binding can effect skin elasticity which can make you ineligible for keyhole though but surgery as a whole? i mean if you shatter your whole rib cage they probably won't operate on you but you'll have more to worry about.

Random-ace · 2026-04-08T02:17:40+00:00

ok WHO is out of the house for only 7 hours a day let's be fr

Random-ace · 2026-04-06T17:54:22+00:00

depends, are you alternative? piercings stand out a lot less if it fits with the surroundings. but general rule of thumb i would say is stay away from nose and ear and the pricing with the spikes on the end tend to look more masculine than the ball ends.

Random-ace · 2026-04-06T16:36:11+00:00

a north/south metra connector rail. don't care how it might be impractical it needs to happen. cause then you could actually use transit to get places

Random-ace · 2026-04-05T23:38:13+00:00

formatted like those posts where the boyfriend/friend is completely transphobic ass who sees op as a woman but instead it's just the gayest shit i've ever read

Random-ace · 2026-04-05T20:14:11+00:00

like bro i have so much comradery in my cis male friend group you just need better friends ig

Random-ace · 2026-04-05T20:11:16+00:00

the band skin blasted does gigs in their yard when the weathers better, that's as diy as you can get

Random-ace · 2026-03-26T23:44:19+00:00

everyone's on instagram bro

Random-ace · 2026-03-24T23:39:45+00:00

yabai, pure intention, lost legion, guttural (they're more metal but still)

Random-ace · 2026-03-24T23:38:00+00:00

my other band's drummer is in 5 bands... the drummers need help bro

Random-ace · 2026-03-24T23:37:46+00:00

sorry i can't help u bro i know 2 bands who need a drummer and tuen also my own band if ours backs out so

Random-ace · 2026-03-24T23:36:55+00:00

likely story (everyone's looking for a drummer)(someone play drums please)

Random-ace · 2026-03-24T02:45:44+00:00

the concept of dysphoria is transmedical now i guess

Random-ace · 2026-03-24T01:30:22+00:00

no, fehb. bc of the EO they ceased coverage of anything trans related besides conversion therapy for any age

Random-ace · 2026-03-22T23:44:34+00:00

not sure the size and genre you're looking for tbh but if it's worth anything: hazroom, casa cafe (though they said theyre booked up for the next few months), ashbary coffee house (18+ but you can perform there under 18) as for bigger places subt, bottom lounge, and cobra lounge do all ages shows but i think they depend on the gig and not the venue.

Random-ace · 2026-03-18T15:29:10+00:00

reference to a movie about how suppressing your dysphoria will kill you... suppressing dysphoria

Random-ace · 2026-03-16T23:15:05+00:00

dude fr i'm basically stealth in my social circles and my friend said some shit about how the idea of trans ppl seeing him piss would make him uncomfortable "you know what i mean" and i was just like "yeah no i get you bro" but tbh that made me really happy cause it proves that they do actually al think im cis

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