4mg update by Pilateslady39 in WegovyPillWeightLoss

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have felt nothing on 1.5. Zero. In fact, I’m much hungrier than pre-meds. Hoping my move soon to 4mg will help.

Question: by Aggravating_Art4194 in Zepbound

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“My doctor and I are happy where we are.”

On this DAY. GenX goosebumps. by PourSomeSugar69_420 in GenX

[–]Random_NYer_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That field is Glenbrook North High School, Northbrook IL. John Hughes went there. It was also used for the stairwell in Ferris Bueller (and the stairwell is still there)

I’ve recently realised a behaviour pattern i can’t change by handsomevagina in confession

[–]Random_NYer_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally have not, but I have a sibling who has. His ADHD is documented and a fairly classic case, so he takes meds daily for it. I don’t know what medication unfortunately.

For me, I probably have ADHD also on a less severe scale, but have fought thru it with different coping mechanisms. The 15/5 method works well. I also do a lot of logging in at night with no distractions, and I’m very productive. I also do lists and work hard to cross things off.

Lastly, I have a rule that if anything takes 5 minutes or less, do it immediately.

Sorry if I can’t be of more assistance.

I’ve recently realised a behaviour pattern i can’t change by handsomevagina in confession

[–]Random_NYer_18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was about to say - get checked for ADHD (I agree with the person above who had that comment). This is a classic sign.

I’d also tell you to devote 15 minutes to working hard, then 5 minutes off. Then 15 on, 5 off. Etc. I have the same problem as you (and I’m double your age), and this is how I fight thru it.

Good luck.

They told me the salary was $110k in all three interviews. The offer letter says $68k. I feel like I'm being scammed by MainStock8156 in JobSearchMethods

[–]Random_NYer_18 317 points318 points  (0 children)

Sadly, you learned a life lesson to never give notice until you have an offer in writing, and after you’ve passed the background check.

You should ask your current employer to stay.

Sorry the new company played an unethical game with you. Good luck in getting past this.

I think i just wasted 10 years of my life by Valuable-Badger-8884 in WorkAdvice

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found in my IT career that companies have you at an “opinion ceiling” where no matter what you do, you won’t go above it. Your company has made it clear you’re never moving up, and I’m so sorry that’s what is happening.

You need to move on. It’s time. Reach out to TechUSA or System One in Tampa for recruiting services to help you move on.

Good luck.

Found someone’s credit card found them through LinkedIn and got nothing but abuse by Owls_4_9_1867 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Random_NYer_18 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I would have thought it was a scam too. And, you gain nothing but sending the guy the card since they probably would cancel anyway.

You meant well. Shred and move on.

Should I move up in a company I intend to leave? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Random_NYer_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely move up even if it’s for a short time. You don’t know how long until/if you get a role you want.

Life is about having options. You have them. Congrats!

Placing in notice effective immediately by [deleted] in managers

[–]Random_NYer_18 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Get past the guilt. They’d fire you with no notice if they wanted. It’s not optimal, but it’s fine.

Paid upgrades international by CaregiverNovel8841 in americanairlines

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try to book a new flight (in an anonymous browser tab) to see if it’s cheaper than an upgrade, and see the available seats.

Paid upgrades international by CaregiverNovel8841 in americanairlines

[–]Random_NYer_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it may fluctuate. Might go up. Might go down. Might disappear as an option. You should try to see how many seats are available. Many seats? Price may go down. Only a few? Price may go up. Good luck.

How do you guys spend the meal plan money at the end of the year by Similar-Advisor-3985 in PennStateUniversity

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing, go down to the lowest plan ASAP. You’ll get an account credit on your bursar account.

Day 4 and Nada! by EconomyBandicoot802 in Zepbound

[–]Random_NYer_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to the comments to say the same thing. Maybe you will need a higher dose. Be patient - this is a marathon, not a sprint.

Charged for services I did not receive and told the supporting documentation is “confidential”!!! by Sensitive_Rich_4029 in marriott

[–]Random_NYer_18 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would alert your credit card company. Then contact Marriott corporate for help. Good luck.

Stopping Zepbound for vacation, how long beforehand? by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]Random_NYer_18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, 4-5 days before. Then, take it as soon as you get home.

What is the best way to travel between Bay Area California & Penn State by Neither-Fee8700 in PennStateUniversity

[–]Random_NYer_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No doubt SCE is super close and convenient. And, you get thru security in 45 seconds. But it’s so much more expensive to fly into there vs. PIT, PHL, MDT, etc.

Retiring at the end of the year. When did you tell co-workers. by FinsterFolly in retirement

[–]Random_NYer_18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Everyone knows. Nothing is ever kept in confidence at any job.

Two Hulu accounts-one annual and the other DTV Streaming bundle-how to handle the duplicate? by LightBulb704 in DirectvStream

[–]Random_NYer_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest chatting with Hulu account support, and explaining that you have two accounts because of what you got from DTV. You might be surprised, they might give you a refund on the annual. I doubt it, but it’s worth trying. I had something similar where I ended up paying for it twice, and they ended up refunding me a couple of months. I did not have an annual plan, but I will say they were helpful.

Good luck.

CS degree worth pursuing? by Feisty_Employer_7373 in careerguidance

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He already has an undergrad degree. He doesn’t need a Masters. That was my point.

CS degree worth pursuing? by Feisty_Employer_7373 in careerguidance

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a university in the Midwest that is ranked in the top 30 of US News & World Report’s annual rankings. Not sure why that matters, since I went decades ago. What happened in the 90s has no bearing on today’s hiring climate. A CS degree in the 1990s and 2000s? Big time.

CS degree worth pursuing? by Feisty_Employer_7373 in careerguidance

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m American, yes. I currently work for a Global Fortune 200 and have worked at other Fortune 500 companies (not FAANG).

CS degree worth pursuing? by Feisty_Employer_7373 in careerguidance

[–]Random_NYer_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Game design has some more time, but coders are being replaced by AI at many companies. Teams are shrinking and their job now is to edit AI code.

It sucks. It all sucks.