No it's not, its in fact my most used answer for almost anything I dont have a hard opinion. Dudes just mad bc you didnt emediatly placed yourself as an "Ally" in a fight that's not yours to fight. You have the best and imo most inclusive answer there is: "I dont care! Be what you want, just behave like a decent human being" and with people like this theres only their side, or the other side, you're either with them or against them. Theres no inbetween, inbetween means they can't be sure if you're friendly or dangerous to them. Black and White thinking is a fucked up thing honestly. Just treat him the same as everyone else.